Suleika Jaouad's journey "Between Two Kingdoms"

Suleika Jaouad's journey "Between Two Kingdoms"
Suleika Jaouad's journey "Between Two Kingdom... 07:32

On her graduation day from Princeton University in 2010, Suleika Jaouad's future seemed luminous and limitless. 

"At that age, time feels infinite. Feels like you'll figure it out, you have time to try things, to experiment. But as it turned out, I didn't have time," she said.

Eleven months later, a leukemia diagnosis robbed her of that promise. 

suleika-jaouad-bone-marrow-transplant.jpg
Suleika Jaouad. CBS News

All that promise was replaced by a brutal chemo regimen that would only provide a one-in-three chance of survival. "I remember going on social media and seeing photographs of my friends going to parties and starting, you know, new jobs, and traveling. It really felt like my life was over before it really had begun."

Rare moments of joy – like when an old pal from music camp showed up at the cancer ward with his band – were overwhelmed by her new reality.

Correspondent Jim Axelrod asked, "What do you remember about how you were able to process it as it was happening?"

"I'm not sure I did a lot of processing. The overwhelm was so great that I was in a state of total shock."  

Isolated, disoriented and voiceless, Jaouad began to write – finding something steadying in her daily journal entries.

"An act of affirmation?" asked Axelrod.

"It was also an act of imagination," she said. "And what I realized in that writing is that, really, survival is its own kind of creative act."

Posting them on a blog, she caught the eye of a New York Times editor, who offered her a column and video series: "Life, Interrupted":

Facing Cancer in Your 20s - Life, Interrupted | The New York Times by The New York Times on YouTube

Jaouad said, "My column launched while I was in the bone marrow transplant unit. And I remember waking up the next morning and opening my inbox and seeing hundreds of emails from strangers all around the world."

Overnight, Jaouad had what she had yearned for most: purpose.

"There's a photograph of me in the transplant unit where I have a vomit bucket under one arm, I have my laptop on my knees, and I'm crying, not because, you know, I'm about to have a bone marrow transplant, but because I've missed a deadline!"

interview-suleika-jaouad-1280.jpg
Suleika Jaouad. CBS News

"Setting a standard of multi-tasking?"

"Yeah, there you go! Or workaholism, I don't know," she laughed.

After a traumatic three-and-a-half-year ordeal of treatment, including that last-chance bone marrow transplant that carried a life-threatening risk of heart failure and organ damage, Jaouad beat the odds – she was cancer-free. No longer sick, but not exactly well, either. "I never felt more lost. I couldn't return to the person I've been pre-diagnosis. I was no longer a cancer patient. But I had no idea who I was."

"But you knew that you didn't want your life to be defined by the worst thing that ever happened to you?" Axelrod asked.

"I would have to figure out a way, not to move on, because I don't think that's possible, but to move forward."

From the chest where she kept letters from her readers, she chose 22 letters, and hit the road with her dog, Oscar, for a 100-day, 15,000-mile reset ritual, meeting strangers she felt had something to teach her about healing.

road-trip-map-620.jpg
CBS News

Among them: A professor named Howard in Ohio, who helped her find her footing in a precarious new life. He told her, "You get immersed in life again. Let's face it: life can be good."

A joyful, fearless teenage survivor in Florida named Unique, who said, "I wanna, like, go on a food binge and just eat crazy things like octopus." 

Jaouad told Axelrod, "To imagine yourself in the future is a radical act of hope. And I wanna be more like that girl!"

An inmate in Texas named Little GQ, who'd written from Death Row and affirmed the power of connection. "One of the first things he said to me was, you know, 'What did you do during all those years in the hospital?' And I said, 'I got really, really good at Scrabble.' And he looked at me, and he kinda laughed, and he said, 'Me, too!'"

Her struggle to heal is the subject of her new book, "Between Two Kingdoms."

between-two-kingdoms-cover-random-house.jpg
Random House

She said, "The title of the book is a reference to the brilliant Susan Sontag, who talks about how we all have dual citizenship in the kingdom of the sick and the kingdom of the well. And it's only a matter of time before we use that other passport. 

"But the place that I found myself at was neither."

A crippling limbo, especially when it came to love ... which is where that band camp buddy comes in. Jon Batiste kept at it with his music, and got himself a pretty good job years later. 

Jaouad said, "It was really hard for me to imagine a future with Jon when I couldn't imagine myself existing in the future yet."

Axelrod asked Batiste, "What has she given you in terms of lessons about life, and love?"

"You have a limited time. Get to it," he replied. "I think that that is the biggest lesson: embrace the imperfection."

Their history was just what her heart needed to trust again. She said, "At every turn when I thought, you know, there was some aspect of this illness experience that was gonna scare him away, he was right there."

suleika-jaouad-jon-batiste-620.jpg
Suleika Jaouad and Jon Batiste. CBS News

Suleika Jaouad's road trip may have ended, but her journey has not. And she knows the struggle will always be along for the ride. 

Axelrod asked, "Are you healed?"

"To say that I'm healed, uh, would be to imply that there's an endpoint," she said. "And I think healing is something that we all do, that we'll all continually do, for the rest of our lives."

      
READ AN EXCERPT: "Between Two Kingdoms" by Suleika Jaouad

      
For more info:

      
Story produced by Jay Kernis. Editor: David Bhagat.