After all, if you're striking out on a new life with new friends, it's a bonus to be get lots of visits from old friends.
Austin, TexasAustin is a big city in small town disguise. With a population of 790,400, the Texas capital is bigger than all of the "big cities" on the list. But it has managed to maintain the "Keep Austin Weird" credo that has made it a favorite among both retirees and young people.
The outdoors is the biggest attraction. The staggeringly beautiful, rough-hewn Hill Country, spring-fed swimming holes, a string of lakes along the Colorado River, and 10 months of warm temperatures (too warm in the summer) draw hikers and boaters and bikers outdoors.
For the practical retiree, housing costs (median price: $235,000), good medical facilities, the many programs at the University of Texas, plus no state income tax are the cake.
Clearwater, Fla.Situated about midway up the Florida peninsula on the Gulf of Mexico, Clearwater is the postcard perfect coastal resort town: Sun-drenched beaches, sailboats cheek by jowl with yachts in the marinas that line Clearwater Harbor, well-traveled bike trails, and a plethora of public golf courses nearby.
A two-bedroom condo on the beach can be had for about $200,000, a sum made even more affordable when coupled with a homestead exemption of up to $50,000 for residents and no state income tax.
With a population of 107,700, Clearwater is a small town, but should you need an experience that is available only in bigger cities, St. Petersburg, with its Museum of Fine Arts, the Florida Orchestra, and major league baseball team -- the Tampa Bay Devil Rays -- is only 20 miles away.
Fort Collins, Colo.More than 30 miles of bike roads. And roads is exactly the right word, since Ft. Collins has many miles of separate, paved roads just for bikers. It's as good a symbol as any for the way citizens of this small Rocky Mountain city (population: 144,000) see themselves.
Median home price is $221,400. An easy 70-mile drive gets you to Denver International Airport and a wide variety of cultural venues.
Marquette, Mich.If you don't like snow, Marquette country is not for you. But the Upper Peninsula of Michigan is one of the most beautifully austere places in the U.S. If you like winter sports, you're looking at an average of 141 inches of snow for cross country skiing, snowshoeing, snow-man building, whatever your heart desires. In summer, head for the beaches along Lake Superior or out onto the water for every kind of water sport.
The city (population: 21,300) has a small airport with regular service to Milwaukee, Chicago, and Detroit, and Marquette General Health System is ranked as one of the top 50 cardiovascular hospitals by Thomson Reuters. Median home price is $130,000.
Pittsburgh, Pa.Pittsburgh tops the small list of rust-belt cities that have cleaned up their acts, and it now ranks as a great place to live. One big change has been a dramatic drop in population - from 680,000 in 1950 to just over 300,000 today - that has transformed a once large industrial city into a smaller financial/high tech/health-care based economy.
Best of all, it is also a remarkably affordable city to live in. The median home sale price was $112,000 in August 2011, which is unusual for a city with top-notch hospitals and more than a dozen universities, art schools, and institutes.
Portland, Ore.Two things about Portland: It boasts more than 40 small breweries, and is threatening Seattle as the country's coffee capital. The duality of hops and caffeine reflects the laid-back, easy going lifestyle of this small city, where craft shops and head shops and bicycle shops mingle with excellent restaurants and nightclubs that have spawned successful indie music bands (Nirvana played here).
A drop in Portland home prices offers an opportunity to grab a great deal on housing (median price: $263,300) -- in a spectacular part of the country.
As Oregon's largest city, Portland (population: 583,800) is also home to the Portland Art Museum, Oregon Ballet Theatre, Oregon Symphony, Portland Opera, a wide variety of traditional and off-beat theaters, five universities, and the NBA Portland Trailblazers.
Santa Fe, N.M.The Santa Fe Opera House encapsulates all that is special about this oldest and most Western of Western capital cities. It's central to the city's image as a small, rustic town (population 144,170) with a giant cultural heritage. The opera season runs from June to August, and the opera house sits on a mesa, open on two sides to summer nights.
Those looking for outdoor pleasures more strenuous than opera will find endless opportunity in 300 days of sunshine, on average; a mild climate summer and winter; and the nearby Sangre de Cristo Mountains for ample snow and winter sports.
All those amenities will cost you: $380,000 is the median home price.
Walnut Creek, Calif.If you've long dreamt of living in California's Bay Area, Walnut Creek is the place. Conveniently located just 20 miles east of culturally rich San Francisco, and 13 miles from the wilderness of Mt. Diablo State Park, this East Bay town (population: 64,000) has everything your heart desires within half an hour, including a couple dozen parks, bike trails, easy access to public golf courses, and theater and gallery exhibitions.
It's pricier than most of the cities on our list. The median home price nudges just above $430,000. But an easy 20 mile commute on a Bay Area Rapid Transit train (BART) delivers you to all the amenities of San Francisco.
Washington, D.C.The nation's capital may seem an odd choice as a place to retire. But if you think of it as a great big amusement park for grown-ups, you'll see the logic. It's awash in museums -- including the incomparable Smithsonian -- historical monuments, parks, great restaurants, the National Zoo (think pandas), the John F. Kennedy Center for the Performing Arts and 39 other performing arts venues, libraries, and research centers.
As for practicalities, the subway is convenient and accessible and offers reduced fares for seniors. There are excellent hospitals, 12 universities, and three major airports. The only drawback is the cost of housing: Median home price is $450,000. Still, you get a lot of bang for the buck.
Winston-Salem, N.C.Winston-Salem (population 229,600) is part of the Piedmont Triad of cities along the northern tier of North Carolina that includes Greensboro and High Point, and in accessing one, you can include the benefits of all.
As for the lifestyle, history is instructive. The city's lineup of universities is a testament to its diversity. There's Wake Forest, the nationally recognized private university; the historically all-black Winston-Salem State University; the oldest women's college in America, Salem University; and one of the most prestigious art schools, the University of North Carolina School of the Arts. Its symphony, founded in 1947, is the oldest in the state, and its arts council was the first in the nation.
Best of all, Winston-Salem is affordable: The median home price is $137,000.