That's the word according to McGee's ex Shane Modica.
"I believe she was obsessed with Jesse James," he told "The Insider's" Chris Jacobs. "We had had problems during the marriage."
One of those problems, he said, was when McGee changed their wedding photos by pasting a picture of James' head on top of his own.
Modica and McGee have endured a bitter divorce and are now fighting over a child they have together.
In the wake of the media storm that followed McGee's claim to have had an 11-month affair with James while Bullock was filming "Blind Side," Modica asked a judge for sole custody of their young son, according to Radar Online. He was denied.
Modica also told "The Insider" that the "Bombshell" was angling to profit from her tryst with James one way or the other.
"I know how she works. And it was either end up with Jesse and live that lifestyle and still have the money and the fame or she was going to make money off this one way or another," he said. "This was her payday."
It's not yet clear how McGee could profit from the situation. Early Monday, her pay-per-view website was partially closed and the membership link wasn't working. As of this writing, the site was completely down.
As for Bullock, People reported she moved out of the house she shared with James and other sites have reported that she cancelled two appearances to promote "Blind Side," for which she won a Best Actress Oscar.
James has been seen caring for the kids and wearing his wedding band. He apologized publicly last week without admitting any specific guilt.
McGee has kept a low profile, perhaps not easy for a tattoo fetish model who works as a stripper and clearly has a flair for the limelight.