Saying goodbye to my childhood home

TOLEDO, Ohio -- Long before I went on the road, there was one road -- Malcolm Road -- in Toledo, OH. There was one house, number 1053. And one man, my number one.

My father George Hartman built the house himself back in 1955. He had planned to live in the home for the rest of his life.

"But when we built this house we didn't consider stairs as a factor when you get old," he said.

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Steve Hartman's childhood home in Toledo, Ohio
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And so here we are, at that moment elderly parents and their grown children seem to dread equally -- the selling of the family home.

"I prefer to stay, but you also have to realize that all good things come to an end," Dad said.

After my mom died last year, it became increasingly difficult for him to manage on his own. So last week, my brother Joe and I went to Toledo to pack-up his things. Amid the boxes was a lock of hair in a small transparent bag.

"My mother's hair when she died," Dad said as he held it in his hands. "She never got gray hair, as you can see."

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Steve Hartman, right, helps his father George pack up belongings from his home
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"I would have taken your word for it," I told him.

We spent a couple days trying to help Dad with his downsizing, which at times felt more like same-sizing. But when pressed, the only things that truly mattered centered on either his faith -- a Rosary made the cut -- or his family -- a handmade Valentine 's Day card did too.

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Steve Hartman as a boy with his parents and brothers
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A house that raised a family is so much more then wood and shingles. It's home to almost every memory of our younger lives. It is in the background of everything we were and helped make us who we are. It's where we learned to feel safe, sound, and sometimes even invincible.

Yes, technically a house is just a place, but at times like this it sure feels more like a person. My dad is now moving to one story apartment near our other brother, Mike, in Atlanta. And although I know he's not going to like it at first, hopefully, eventually, he'll be able to focus less on what he left behind, and more on what he made possible.

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  • Steve Hartman

    Steve Hartman has been a CBS News correspondent since 1998, having served as a part-time correspondent for the previous two years.