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February 8, 2007 10:39 AM

Cyber Bullies

Update: A new survey released today by Teenage Research Unlimited finds an alarming number of teens in dating relationships are being harrassed through technology. Threatening text messages, cell phone calls or abusive Web sites or e-mail. There’s also a disturbing connection between bullying and technology with so-called cyberbullying among kids. Many parents may not even be aware of these teenage tactics, and our piece about this important subject will be airing tonight on the CBS Evening News with Katie Couric.


When I was growing up I experienced the occasional bullying, which usually amounted to being pushed into a muddy puddle or having my books knocked out of my hands or being called a “geek” or “loser” or some other creative insult. But when school was over, I could retreat to the comfort of my family and friends. With cyberbullying, because of the Internet’s always-on nature, victims often feel like there’s nowhere to run. Cyberbullying can mean a nasty text message sent to a cell phone, a Web site with deragatory pictures, or an e-mail or instant message campaign to harrass someone.



It’s a serious issue, and studies have shown anywhere from one-quarter to one-half of teenagers are suffering from cyberbullying, and some are reluctant to tell their parents or teachers for fear of retribution or losing their Internet privileges. We’ll highlight the sensitive subject of cyberbullying tonight and give parents some tips on what to look for and how to approach it.

In the meantime, I’d like to hear your stories or advice when it comes to cyberbullying. With any mistreatment, sometimes it helps to just vent a little.
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by belseyb January 26, 2007 1:21 AM EST
Hello,

I am very pleased that Daniel Sieberg and CBS are trying to raise awareness about the issue of cyberbullying.

My name is Bill Belsey, and I am the father and educator who first used this word to define and describe this emerging behaviour some years ago.

I would like to invite visitors to this space to visit two Web sites I have created that I think would be most helpful with respect to this issue; www.bullying.org, the world's most-visited Web site about bullying, and www.cyberbullying.org, the world's first Web site to address the issue of cyberbullying.

I have done presentations around the world on these issues in order to raise awareness as to how serious this is. I am so pleased that Daniel Sieberg and CBS are helping to take these issues on as well.

I hope these resources may prove helpful to you.

Sincerely,

Bill Belsey

President,
Bullying.org
"Where you are NOT alone!"
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by juliajabird January 25, 2007 10:08 PM EST
I bet that none of you understand the kind of things teenagers have to go through. Even at school. It is horrible. I know. I am one. So, stop trying to empathize unless you know how to. Speak to teenagers. Not to some scientists who think they "have an insight to the mind of teenagers" "these days". Ok? The sooner you understand and comprehend this the better. So take my advice and do something.
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by Haug_Dude January 25, 2007 5:50 PM EST
Fortunately I've only been E-harassed a few times, including one relating to a minor E-Bay issue. Like when I was a "nerd" in high school, my approach is simple - ZERO tolerance. Fortunately I was a 5-10 / 185# nerd which made life a little better.

1) I always report the perp with full headers and a copy of the errant message to their ISP; if message originated from an ORG, or corporate site, the webmaster gets a copy. I include cease and desist language with an effective date for legal action. I send a copy to an impressive sounding law firm such as "Stamper, Uballs, Endye."

2) In the case of throw-away addresses this gets tougher, but still worth doing since a harasser may move from address to address but still leave a trail at the provider. A lot of freemail sites require more info about users than just a couple of years ago; Gmail for example.

3) Exception: in a public exchange site i.e. Gather, DIGG, etc., often it is best to "move on" and let the perp dig a big hole for themselves. Often times there is no better way to deal with an offensive pedant or "jerk" than to just ignore them. In one case, I stitched up the whole mess into a file and sent it off to the abuse/security office of the site. Worked like a charm -- harebrained today goon tomorrow...
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by cbresearcher January 25, 2007 2:54 PM EST
Kudos for bringing attention to this noteworthy topic. It is important that the message gets out about how harmful cyberbullying can be to adolescents. My colleague and I have been studying cyberbullying for several years and work with parents, teachers, and law enforcement to educate and equip them to prevent and address this new form of adolescent aggression. More information about our research can be found at
http://www.cyberbullying.us
Again, good job for shedding more light on this problem.
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