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June 30, 2009 7:25 PM

Sanford: Not An Affair, A "Love Story"

(AP Photo/Mary Ann Chastain)

South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford has been unusually candid about his affair with a 41-year-old former reporter in Argentina.

In stark contrast to the taciturn Eliot Spitzer – who made no mention at all of his escapades as "Client 9" except opening his resignation speech with a reference to his "private failings" – Sanford held forth at length with reporters last week, describing how the affair came about and at one point prefacing an answer with, "To give you way more detail than you'll ever want…"

Then there were the e-mails. Perhaps Sanford shouldn't be judged on those, given that they were private communications. Serious questions remain about how South Carolina's State newspaper came to posses and publish them.

But never fear. The (new) Love Gov was back at it today, telling an Associated Press reporter that “This was a whole lot more than a simple affair. That it's a love story – a forbidden one, a tragic one, but a love story at the end of the day.”

Sanford seemed more focused on defending the affair than apologizing for it.

“It was wonderful," he said. "Something that I’ve never been able to put my hands on was there. I remember there was an older couple sitting to our right, and I remember them watching us, in the way that we interacted. They could see a spark, or, I don’t know what you’d call it, but there was something there.”

Sanford also admitted that he had flirtations - including dancing and physical contact - with a number of other women in Argentina. But, he said, except with the woman identified last week as Maria Belen Chapur, the relationships did not become sexual:
Again, I didn't cross the sex line. I went past the line – but this makes it sound like there are hundreds of people, or something. … I'm quite certain that there were a handful of instances wherein I crossed lines I shouldn't have crossed as a married man but never crossed the ultimate line.
Sanford referred several times to death and the notion of God's final judgment on his life.

"Every one of us is going to be at that death bed one day and we're going to look back over the whole of our lives and we're going to ask, you know, 'Was or I wasn't willing to risk certain things that may be viewed as stupid trade-offs by the rest of the world?" he said. "But that's for each person to determine on their own."

"Did I want to pay the price? Did I want the consequences? No. But – I said this to her down there – I said, 'I am fully aware of the price. I'm fully aware of the costs. And I'm, I'm, I'm willing to do that.'”
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by womanonthego July 1, 2009 5:02 PM EDT
Please don't down all Christians. A real Christian has a compassionate heart the recognize we all sin and fall short of the mark. The real problem is that Sanford is a hypocrite. When Bill Clinton had his fall from grace he didn't reach out to him and offer prayer. He criticized him for political gain, and now he admits he's the same kind of dog that Clinton was. So now he's trying to make himself look better by saying Maria is no Monica she's my soul mate. God help us all.
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by bpai99 July 1, 2009 2:35 PM EDT
While he's down right now, Sanford may be able to make a political comeback for the simple reason that all elected officials are lying hypocrites who abuse their public trust while in office, so what's the big deal about him being one of them, also?

No one in America who wins an election deserves to, because anyone who sincerely believes in moral values would not do what is necessary to get elected. The process ensures we only wind up with scoundrels in office.
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by owlwomanxxxx July 1, 2009 10:41 AM EDT
he should go to his love and shut up
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by South-of-Heaven July 1, 2009 10:27 AM EDT
With a Wife like that id leave her for a Spicy latina myself...
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by formrusmcsgt July 1, 2009 10:17 AM EDT
Ensign, Edwards and this fool will all be remembered as idiots who thought a slice of tang was worth their carreers.
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by gravyboat4000 July 1, 2009 10:16 AM EDT
Everytime he talks of getting back with his wife, it sounds so forced. As if, he's being told by the GOP to do,"the right thing", according to the platform, you know,"family values".

How twisted would that be?

Gov., if you love Maria sooooo much, step down, and go to her.

After all the nonsense that's come out of your mouth this week, I don't think your wife's gonna ever take you back anyway.
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by meinohio2 July 1, 2009 10:05 AM EDT
Jenny: please divorce him. I know it is not good for the kids - devasting.

But he is all wrapped up in The Greatest Love That Never Was!! Soulmate crap, ego crap, "lost in love" crap. His heart will never be with you. He may beg to stay married - but only to preserve his job, and for his kids. None of it will be for you Jenny.

Move on with your life. Let him go "be" with The GReatest Love That Never Was, (it will be over within a year or two, most affair "loves" are -- it is the secrecy, the "first love" stuff that keeps an affair going - over time, he will dump her or she will dump him because it is no longer "magical")

He is just going to keep making more and more stupid comments. You deserve more than that, much more.

Divorce him !!!!
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by kmf52 July 1, 2009 10:02 AM EDT
It needs to be added that this man could very well be bipolar and if so is in crisis and shouldn't be in control of a state government. Steps should be taken to remove him from office.
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by cattlekate1 July 1, 2009 10:00 AM EDT
And this joker supported the Federal Marriage Amendment, trying to use the Constitution to limit civil rights instead of expanding them, stating allowing gays to marry would hurt "the sanctity of marriage." And this creep supported S.C.'s Defense of Marriage Act, saying allowing gays to marry would damage the "sacred institution of marriage." And this cheater, along with Sen Ensign (R-NV), is a member of The Family, a fundie Christian group obsessed with inserting their brand of religion, including anti-gay views, into US laws.
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by mahdeealoo July 1, 2009 9:42 AM EDT
There's no way to soften what he did to his wife. A cheating, philandering, loser. Period. Love Story my eye.
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by mattcat25 July 1, 2009 9:33 AM EDT
I question the mental stability of this Governor (even for a Republican) that he possibly might be in the wrong state of mind to resolve proper decisions.

siento a mucho sir pero se hace el romance!

except that the affair is over...
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by jeettsett July 1, 2009 9:24 AM EDT
Which college did this Sanford guy went to? Does he belong to a church, if so does he go to church? Does he read the BIBLE? Hey Sanford, There is a big difference between ADULTERY and LOVE STORY. The former is a sin, a rebellious crime against God and the latter is a literary composition. And by the way, shut up, we DO NOT want to hear anymore from you.
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by stevex47 July 1, 2009 9:21 AM EDT
"Sanford: Not An Affair, A "Love Story"

Ohhh, then it's okay that you went AWOL and lied to your whereabouts and lied to your wife, no biggie.
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by rushlimpdrug July 1, 2009 9:07 AM EDT
Wow.
And everyone thought Michael Jackson was crazy and weird.
At least M.J. didn't make himself out to be presidential material.

I wonder if this guy sent his kids and wife a postcard from
Argentina on Father's Day.

That would have been nice.
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by johninpennsyl July 1, 2009 9:01 AM EDT
Is it a requisite that you have to be a pathological liar to be governor of a state?
This Bozo and Ed Rendell of PA would make a dynamic duo.
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by grumpas July 1, 2009 8:57 AM EDT
How dumb does he think the public is??? He crossed the line with other women but didn't try and get them in bed??? Nothing like digging a hole and burying yourself in it!
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by ekucrew July 1, 2009 8:24 AM EDT
PLEASE TPTB in SC GOP.... stifle this fool! He is evolving past a late night joke into being a fool. What's next, tearing up on Larry King Live? This is coming from a Democrat who sees him as beyond laughable.
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by BeckieBest July 1, 2009 8:14 AM EDT
Another "family values" Republican shows his true colors.

This is on of the same hypocrites who was calling for Clinton to resign over his affair.

No sympathy for this jerk.
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by ozilot July 1, 2009 7:20 AM EDT
Gee does this mean that the GOP is going from moral marriage bigots to Don Juans and Cassanovas? So much for the sacred institution of marriage...thus begs the question on whay GAY people can't get married?

After all with Newt Gingrinch, McCain, Vitter, Craig, Ensign, Spitzer, Clinton, Swaggert, Haggard, etc., etc., it is clear that the institution of marriage aint that sacred anymore...
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by pjk12354 July 1, 2009 7:12 AM EDT
Here is a description of Mark Sanford...........self-rightious, womanizing bigot............I support Jenny Sanford for having the courage to throw him out.

I hope she has the courage to divorce this jerk. She derserves so much more.
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