Flay offers his thoughts on the matter, and advice to ease your mind:
The fact is, the taste of your stuffing is what will decide for your friends and family whether it was a successful Thanksgiving or not. And trust me on this: Just one bad Thanksgiving dinner will stay on your family's record for generations. We're talking a life sentence, with no parole.
You've made the cranberry sauce two days ahead, so that's fine. And your side dishes are tried-and-true: the mashed potatoes, the sweet potatoes, the pearl onions, the string beans. But the make-or-break is the stuffing!
Now, do you stuff the bird or cook the stuffing on the side? Well, in my house, if you cook the stuffing on the side, it's no longer stuffing, it's dressing. Some Southern friends of mine call it dressing no matter where it's cooked, inside or out. I've tried to convince them otherwise, but then, they're not taking Thanksgiving advice from a New Yorker.
One other thing: If you're trying to lose and not gain weight on Thanksgiving, you can't come to my house. We break calorie records year after year, and are proud of it. It makes the late afternoon post-turkey nap that much better.
So, let's get back to the stuffing.
Your choices begin with the bread: white, wheat, pumpernickel, and cornbread. And let's not forget wild rice, wild mushrooms, and sausages such as andouille or chorizo. Do you put nuts in it, such as walnuts or almonds? How about dried fruits, such as apricots or cranberries?
And what about the old classic: oyster stuffing? I admit it's tempting, but I've never done it. Not everyone likes oysters, especially when they're embedded in bread and cooked for three or four hours.
Honestly, I don't think I can take the risk. Remember: Future generations will not forgive or forget, and I, for one, do not want my daughter stuck with a legacy of bad Thanksgiving stuffing.
So, I celebrate the turkey with the same stuffing every year. Why? Because I know it works, and it's only once a year. It's South by Southwest, two of my favorite regions. Are you ready? Let's get cooking.
First, I sauté carrots, celery, onions and garlic in good old Wisconsin butter. Next, I add a good spicy pork sausage known as chorizo.
And add a lot. Let them know it's in there.