
Redshirting: Holding kids back from kindergarten
July 8, 2012 4:00 PM
Morley Safer reports on the rising trend of "redshirting," delaying kindergarten until children are 6 years old. Will this make these students more successful in school and life?
Redshirting: Holding kids back from kindergarten
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Eventually, my mom sympathized with me and helped me take a 'gap-year' in 12th. When I went to my college after that, I suddenly became the smartest, toughest, and even wisest person. My friends came to me for advice and eventually that was the profession that I would choose. I didn't feel so shy anymore and the confidence I gained helped me do well in my life. I topped my undergraduate college charts was in the top 1% of the graduating class of 400 students (not that I cared about it but it just happened), and eventually came to US on a scholarship with full merit. Graduated with a Ph.D. and research from UC Berkeley; I am an educator and am a full time independent college admission advisor. I too see the same trend and pattern among my 'younger' high school students now and feel sorry for those who are struggling to gain traction or some basic visibility among peers. It's like they don't exist (most of them tell me the same thing).
It's not the maturity or intelligence but the confidence level, and from my own experience, I know that I would have loved my high-school more had I stayed back for one year. Eventually, I loved my college and my classmates and was a good-fit, no matter where I went. The teen years are terrible for a shy kid and redshirting can do wonders for a kid who is slightly self-conscious. Had my parents not supported me with a gap year, I would have never had the opportunities that I am enjoying in my life today and would have been labeled as a 'failure' for the rest of my life.
Today my child is at an age where I will be making that decision in a couple of years. Right now he is four and in preK and I have no plans about gaming the system; so at age 5 he will be in Kindergarten. But like me, my child is petite, and shy. He speaks three languages fluently, is truly gifted, but his motor skills are on the 'slow' side. If I find that he is struggling with presenting himself to his fullest ability, I have no qualms about holding him back—--we will wait and see.