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@katiecouric: Teen Dating Violence

January 12, 2010 11:42 AM

Nearly 30 percent of teenagers say that they have experienced teen dating violence, according to a survey by the Liz Claiborne and Family Violence Prevention Fund.

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by ahumanright January 17, 2010 2:36 PM EST
Contrary to the statement in the post below, stats from the CDC indicate that young females initiate violence against their partners more often than do young males. Here are some key facts.

http://pn.psychiatryonline.org/cgi/content/full/42/15/31-a

Here's a link to a bibliography of over 200 more studies indicating that females are at least as likely as males to physically attack their partners.

http://www.csulb.edu/~mfiebert/assault.htm

According to the transcript of Senate Hearing 101-939 from December 11, 1990, Joe Biden, the champion of the Violence Against Women Act and then Chairman of the Senate Judiciary Committee, made the following statement:

In my house, being raised with a sister and three brothers, there was absolute-it was a nuclear sanction, if under any circumstances, for any reason, no matter how justified, even self-defense-if you ever touched our sister, literally, not figuratively, literally. My sister, who is my best friend, my campaign manager, my confidante, grew up with absolute impunity in our household.

Ms. BUEL. She was a blessed woman.

The CHAIRMAN. And I have the bruises to prove it. [Laughter.]

I mean that sincerely. I am not exaggerating when I say that.

An image of the transcript, taken from p.171-172, is available at the following link:

http://www.fathersandhusbands.org/BidenSenHearing101-939p171-172.png

A pdf of the full transcript of the hearing is available here:

http://www.fathersandhusbands.org/BidenHearing.pdf (about 69MB)

It?s very revealing.

The library of congress can direct you to a library that has this transcript on file if necessary.

The switchboard number is (202) 224-3121.

Blogs on the Tiger Woods situation are overflowing with comments from women condoning the idea of Woods being beaten in the face with a golf club for his transgressions. Is it any wonder our society views this issue in this way? The first step in solving this problem is eliminating gender specific laws and public policies driven by the agenda of gender based agencies (such as the US Department of Justice's Office on Violence Against WOMEN) and gender based ideologies. A crime is a crime. It's time that girls stop growing up with absolute impunity in our society.
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by ProjectSafeGirls January 16, 2010 7:50 PM EST
Thank you so much Katie, Jane and Catherine for sharing a wealth of information.

Teen violence is definitely a wake-up call to our youth, parents, teachers, school administrators and communities. This is no longer a taboo subject and it is imperative for us to work collectively to educate and teach our young people "what is a healthy relationship" and what are the warning signs and red flags of abuse as it comes in many different forms.

Anyone can be a victim....anyone can be an assailant; it does not affect one race, one gender (although stats reveal females are more victimized), one economic group, one age group, etc., abuse/assault can rear it's ugly head at any given time.

There is no excuse for abuse - zero tolerance.

Please continue to be a voice. Thank you for advocacy.
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by DVPC January 14, 2010 5:43 PM EST
As the MADE State Action Leader for the state of Georgia, I encourage you to share this video and visit www.loveisnotabuse.com/made to sign the MADE Petition. This will ensure that every middle and high school is teaching a dating abuse curriculum. Everyone deserves a healthy relationship! Great Job Jane!
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by Swthrt87 January 14, 2010 12:30 PM EST
Thank you Katie for giving an in-depth look at this ever growing problem. Education is key for all; parents, teens, educators, school boards. The more we talk about it, the more we make it less "taboo", the better chance we have in stopping the problem before it starts.

Let's keep talking everyone!
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by Swthrt87 January 14, 2010 12:30 PM EST
Thank you Katie for giving an in-depth look at this ever growing problem. Education is key for all; parents, teens, educators, school boards. The more we talk about it, the more we make it less "taboo", the better chance we have in stopping the problem before it starts.

Let's keep talking everyone!
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by lexiwest January 13, 2010 4:36 PM EST
Thanks for this piece. Teen dating violence is so dangerous that putting a spotlight on the issue will indeed help our youth. You might want to focus on healthy aspects of relationships to help youth understand that there is a positive way to manage conflict and that relationships aren't always perfect, but there can always be respect within the relationship.
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by cmalex January 13, 2010 4:16 PM EST
Thank you for bringing more attention to this issue, especially that 60% of teens know someone who is being abused. It's important to know the warning signs: isolation, changes in behavior or dress or acting nervous around the partner. National programs like Start Strong (startstrongteens.org) are teaching pre-teens about what makes up a healthy relationship in schools in 11 communities across the country. We need more of these programs - and for parents and other mentors to teach early and teach often so that girls don't assume that rape happens to everybody and boys don't feel that being put down or insulted is normal.
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by apple4156 January 13, 2010 2:04 PM EST
Katie seems fixated on the notion that the perp is always "a charismatic popular" guy. Not true! Perps come in all shapes, forms, and genders...although i take issue with one idiot's claim on here that men are victimized more than women. Classic male response.
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by kenhamlett January 13, 2010 11:35 AM EST
It looks like ahumanright has covered every angle of the situation.

The teen violence is really strange. It seems that "sex object" has been replaced with "punching bag"
There may be no elegant solution but hopefully we can find a realistic solution.

This rates 3 bars. It raises awareness but has only a small portion of the facts. Of course we would have to admit that the stress induced in school may be a significant factor.
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