Teen in anti-bullying video gains online support
A 13-year old Connecticut girl is bringing the serious issue of bullying to the forefront once again through a stark video she put on the Internet two weeks ago that's quickly gaining attention.
Her name is Alye Pollack. And after alerting the website of her hometown newspaper, the Westport Patch, of what she was about to do, Alye posted a poignant, three-minute video on YouTube. In it, the eighth-grader at Bedford Middle School in Westport, Conn. uses hand-written signs to say she is a victim of bullying.
Bullied teen, Alye Pollack, quietly fights back
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Without ever speaking, Alye describes her pain and the insults she says she endures every day.
CBS News Correspondent Elaine Quijano reported the video has struck a chord. It has thousands of hits, and an outpouring of sympathetic comments. "Be strong, Alye," reads one message, and, "Always know how special you are."
Sophia Green, 14, is Alye's classmate and says she's witnessed bullies go after Alye many times.
"I think it's horrible what people do," she said. "I was on a bus once and people were like, talking about her headphones, and I was like, 'Guys, come on, that's so stupid. You just need an excuse to make fun of her.'"
Sophia says bullies were so cruel to Alye that, before the video was even posted, she slipped an anonymous note into Alye's locker with a message of support.
Green said, "She was like really brave for getting through this and she should just keep holding on."
But in the video, Alye pleads for help and says she's considering hurting herself. The Westport Public Schools superintendent would not discuss details of Alye's case, but said the video took him by surprise.
Superintendent Elliott Landon said, "This surprises me and I don't know why this was not brought to our attention sooner."
He says the district takes bullying seriously -- with tough penalties, including suspension and even expulsion.
For some kids, fighting back is bringing new-found respect. After being taunted and punched in the face, an Australian boy finally body-slammed his much-smaller alleged bully. Earlier this month, he became a YouTube sensation for the violent act.
Now, Alye Pollack is fighting back, too, urging people to think before they speak, and using the same powerful weapons her bullies use -- words.
On "The Early Show" Wednesday, Dr. Jennifer Hartstein, psychologist and "Early Show" Contributor, brought together teens around Alye's age to see their response to Alye's message. Click on the video to see their reactions and Hartstein's tips to fight bullying.
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For all those other students, your School Counselor, Teacher Principal, Parent Representative and even the building Custodian or Cafe food server is there for you. I KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT!! I was bullied when I was in grade school from 4th grade through to 9th grade.
That is Six years. I survived. I am Happily Married with children of my own and I am a licensed School Counselor.
So Children and Teenagers, Be brave and tell an adult. There is always someone that has walked in SIMILAR SHOES AND KNOWS WHAT IT IS LIKE.
I believe that in many cases these 'bullies' are not really "BAD" kids. They are just misguided. One kid takes offence to something another kid does, and when kid#2 tries to defend herself then the rest of the pack steps up to defend kid#1. Then things start to snowball out of control. The more kid#2 tries to defend herself, the more the pack attacks.
Be careful how you try to fight bullying because you could be making it worse.
We have laws to govern how adults deal with each other. We need to have something similar available to all kids to get universal, impartial mediation before the lynch mob forms.