CBS News/ March 30, 2011, 10:53 AM

Teen in anti-bullying video gains online support

A 13-year old Connecticut girl is bringing the serious issue of bullying to the forefront once again through a stark video she put on the Internet two weeks ago that's quickly gaining attention.

Her name is Alye Pollack. And after alerting the website of her hometown newspaper, the Westport Patch, of what she was about to do, Alye posted a poignant, three-minute video on YouTube. In it, the eighth-grader at Bedford Middle School in Westport, Conn. uses hand-written signs to say she is a victim of bullying. 

Bullied teen, Alye Pollack, quietly fights back
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Without ever speaking, Alye describes her pain and the insults she says she endures every day.

CBS News Correspondent Elaine Quijano reported the video has struck a chord. It has thousands of hits, and an outpouring of sympathetic comments. "Be strong, Alye," reads one message, and, "Always know how special you are."

Sophia Green, 14, is Alye's classmate and says she's witnessed bullies go after Alye many times.

"I think it's horrible what people do," she said. "I was on a bus once and people were like, talking about her headphones, and I was like, 'Guys, come on, that's so stupid. You just need an excuse to make fun of her.'"

Sophia says bullies were so cruel to Alye that, before the video was even posted, she slipped an anonymous note into Alye's locker with a message of support.

Green said, "She was like really brave for getting through this and she should just keep holding on."

But in the video, Alye pleads for help and says she's considering hurting herself. The Westport Public Schools superintendent would not discuss details of Alye's case, but said the video took him by surprise.

Superintendent Elliott Landon said, "This surprises me and I don't know why this was not brought to our attention sooner."

He says the district takes bullying seriously -- with tough penalties, including suspension and even expulsion.

For some kids, fighting back is bringing new-found respect. After being taunted and punched in the face, an Australian boy finally body-slammed his much-smaller alleged bully. Earlier this month, he became a YouTube sensation for the violent act.

Now, Alye Pollack is fighting back, too, urging people to think before they speak, and using the same powerful weapons her bullies use -- words.

On "The Early Show" Wednesday, Dr. Jennifer Hartstein, psychologist and "Early Show" Contributor, brought together teens around Alye's age to see their response to Alye's message. Click on the video to see their reactions and Hartstein's tips to fight bullying.

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ArOBobbie1984 says:
Alye is an extremely BRAVE Teenager. I admire her for her strong willed statement, because she definitely represents THE SILENTLY MAJORITY!!! There is hope and help for you Alye.

For all those other students, your School Counselor, Teacher Principal, Parent Representative and even the building Custodian or Cafe food server is there for you. I KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT!! I was bullied when I was in grade school from 4th grade through to 9th grade.

That is Six years. I survived. I am Happily Married with children of my own and I am a licensed School Counselor.

So Children and Teenagers, Be brave and tell an adult. There is always someone that has walked in SIMILAR SHOES AND KNOWS WHAT IT IS LIKE.
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dave3940 says:
Let me start by saying that my daughter was the victim of bullies.

I believe that in many cases these 'bullies' are not really "BAD" kids. They are just misguided. One kid takes offence to something another kid does, and when kid#2 tries to defend herself then the rest of the pack steps up to defend kid#1. Then things start to snowball out of control. The more kid#2 tries to defend herself, the more the pack attacks.

Be careful how you try to fight bullying because you could be making it worse.

We have laws to govern how adults deal with each other. We need to have something similar available to all kids to get universal, impartial mediation before the lynch mob forms.
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808lovely says:
I am 31yrs old and was bullied all through grade school, junior high school and high school usually because I was the new girl, someone's boyfriend liked me or I was shy. One time three girls waited for me to get off the bus in junior high to beat me up all because I was to quiet. I had a lot of home problems in-which made me really quiet & shy. It has still affected me in my adult life by making me insecure & very careful who I allow in my life. I some how find that adults still bully me for very similar reasons. I have tempted to put restraining orders against people and that only makes things worse. So I can see how people stay quiet in order to "not rock the boat" as I have been told. At least when I was young people would be scared enough of authority that they would eventually find someone else to pick on. As an adult people are usually innocent until proven guilty as well as one person's word against another but by then I fear something bad could really happen. I live in area that is very small and it is very likely you see one another every day...just like school. I think this is a very good topic to cover. Bullies can tend to get worse as adults and smarter to know how to work around the system. It's scary to think people are getting less and less fearless of police authority.
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amerilatino says:
This is proof that many parents are raising worthless little jack@ss weasels with no limits who desperately need a busted lip or a bloody nose to set them straight. The alternative is to let them be and watch them go to jail or worse yet, get stabbed, mauled or shot when they grow up.
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hishoneysuckle replies:
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This is so true but if you look at the parents who act heartless and fight and scream with their partners have more children who act just the same way. When the adult shows that its all about them their kids act the same. Thats what I've found anyway.
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carolo43 says:
Was he following the Koch brothers too closely?
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