AP/ March 28, 2011, 6:59 AM

"Facebook depression" seen as new risk for teens

CHICAGO -- Add "Facebook depression" to potential harms linked with social media, an influential doctors' group warns, referring to a condition it says may affect troubled teens who obsess over the online site.

Researchers disagree on whether it's simply an extension of depression some kids feel in other circumstances, or a distinct condition linked with using the online site.

But there are unique aspects of Facebook that can make it a particularly tough social landscape to navigate for kids already dealing with poor self-esteem, said Dr. Gwenn O'Keeffe, a Boston-area pediatrician and lead author of new American Academy of Pediatrics social media guidelines.

With in-your-face friends' tallies, status updates and photos of happy-looking people having great times, Facebook pages can make some kids feel even worse if they think they don't measure up.

It can be more painful than sitting alone in a crowded school cafeteria or other real-life encounters that can make kids feel down, O'Keeffe said, because Facebook provides a skewed view of what's really going on. Online, there's no way to see facial expressions or read body language that provide context.

The guidelines urge pediatricians to encourage parents to talk with their kids about online use and to be aware of Facebook depression, cyberbullying, sexting and other online risks. They were published online Monday in Pediatrics.

Abby Abolt, 16, a Chicago high school sophomore and frequent Facebook user, says the site has never made her feel depressed, but that she can understand how it might affect some kids.

"If you really didn't have that many friends and weren't really doing much with your life, and saw other peoples' status updates and pictures and what they were doing with friends, I could see how that would make them upset," she said.

"It's like a big popularity contest - who can get the most friend requests or get the most pictures tagged," she said.

Also, it's common among some teens to post snotty or judgmental messages on the Facebook walls of people they don't like, said Gaby Navarro, 18, a senior from Grayslake, Illinois. It's happened to her friends, and she said she could imagine how that could make some teens feel depressed.

"Parents should definitely know" about these practices," Navarro said. "It's good to raise awareness about it."

The academy guidelines note that online harassment "can cause profound psychosocial outcomes," including suicide. The widely publicized suicide of a 15-year-old Massachusetts girl last year occurred after she'd been bullied and harassed, in person and on Facebook.

"Facebook is where all the teens are hanging out now. It's their corner store," O'Keeffe said.

She said the benefits of kids using social media sites like Facebook shouldn't be overlooked, however, such as connecting with friends and family, sharing pictures and exchanging ideas.

"A lot of what's happening is actually very healthy, but it can go too far," she said.

Dr. Megan Moreno, a University of Wisconsin adolescent medicine specialist who has studied online social networking among college students, said using Facebook can enhance feelings of social connectedness among well-adjusted kids, and have the opposite effect on those prone to depression.

Parents shouldn't get the idea that using Facebook "is going to somehow infect their kids with depression," she said.

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barbaram99 says:
Every time I turn TV on there is an ad for some medication being pushed. It is in yer face..Facebook is not a site that would make me depressed. I don't have to read what I wish not to. I would talk to my friends face to face if I was in the area. I am across the nation. It is odd that they come up with new illnesses or made up ones. I don't see how they can think on their feet pumped full of meds that they may not even need. Facebook is not the problem. The home maybe the problem.
I have the people as friends I want there and they are them that I know,
If the children are depressed it is them not things or the lack of. When I was a teen my foster mother told me this* I don't care what the other girls are wearing etc. You'll wear what I tell you to.* It was dealt with. I had very few things. I was denied sp needs items which would have helpped. I am not buying a web site would depress teens..
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Fred_Arthur_Tenzer replies:
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The true meaning of a friend is someone who cares about you. Thus, don't refuse to be friends with someone. No one aught to be left without someone who cares about him/her and hangs around with him/her. Create a safe way to see someone who found one online and/or whom one found online in person, face-to-face under friendly terms.
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djseavy says:
It's no wonder kids these days have about every syndrome imaginable - and some imagined! Therapists and other medical workers seem to come up with an infinite stream of cause and negative effect in just about every situation. It's getting to the point that we're brainwashing teens into thinking that if they aren't taking meds for this or that, there is something drastically wrong with them. Perhaps if teens weren't constantly treated as a fragile piece of china that will break at any moment, they'd be able to handle reality and life. True, some do indeed deal with chronic depression. But if you believe everything in the media, 99.9 percent of our kids are on the verge of a meltdown at any moment. And the "illness to fit the situation" mantra is getting old.
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Leelll replies:
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I don't know about us treating our teens as fragile China but many teens are not learning to deal with natural consequences because mom or dad will fix it.
We live in an all Informative world... there have been studies about the number of incidents of child abductions done by strangers in today's world and in the 50's, 60's, and 70's. When they compared population sizes and adjusted the percentages - Child abductions is no higher statistically speaking. I use to run outside and play Kick the Cans with all of the Neighborhood kids and we wouldn't see our parents for hours on end. But I would have a fit today if I didn't know exactly where my kids were just about every second of the day.

Too much information can be stifling but if you had a kid that seemed to get more depressed after computer time then you would want to have read this article.
Ignorance is bliss or are we caught between a Rock and a Hard Place?
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barbaram99 says:
Sure we played out doors. We played the games of our day, Sever up, Mother May I, tag, Simon saids. Marles..Tederball..That was/is a ball hit that is on a rope fixed to a poll. We had recess. we did not spit anywhere.
I was raised in a small town. There was no mall. We had 3 TV stations. CBS,NBC and ABC which have local station nation wide..I did not watch TV.
If the parents send the kids out to play where would they go..Books are now going on e-readers.I don't have one. I member the paper books. Large print books would be want I would read and they are heavy hard to find in the subjucts I would read. I have read young children's books for the sole reason the print is big.
Are there parks left for the children to use.The library.
We used to talk more face to face. Ye never hear the greeting of years ago. Pelple would greet one another in passing. Now it is so rear. People are on the cell or ipod. Now they text what ever that is.Never used it.
for cards games we played crazy 8's,old maid ,fish,war.
kids don't know how to play. who is the blame there..
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usadvisor101 says:
dont worry about it. facebook is already dying off,like myspace. its a boring format and looks like D S.
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OmegaWolf747 says:
Just more fear mongering.
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barbaram99 says:
I do have a facebook acct. I am in my 50s. I have friends on there that I know. I have never seen my friend's faces as I am legally blind from birth. I learnt to read people's tones.
The brings up cyberbulling..It is not just the children that bully. Adults do as well. My rule is I would not say any thing I would not say to a person if face to face in person.
My roommate had a facebook acct and deactivated it.
Years ago it was different..It was a simple time. I don't know who put the fear in children
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RedWings_ninety_one replies:
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Good for you. I am 18 and I don't have an account either.
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TheStolenGiraffe says:
Since when did "depression" become a disorder or something to be diagnosed??? They make it sound like one is never happy when they suffer from "depression". Depression is a part of life...there are good days and there are bad days, some more than others. We need to teach children how to cope with it themselves rather than treating them with pills and therapy.

BTW...Facebook is an abomination of mankind and will only serve to enable groupthink and limit the experiences of human interaction. I have 500 some odd friends on Facebook (mostly all college and high school friends), and I can tell you that within my news feed not one single status or thought posted is unique in content.

It's self advertisement at its best...what and/or where you ate, what music you're listening to, what you're doing, who broke your heart/how much you're in love, and how great you think you are. O yea! And randomly repeated "philosophical" quotes/song lyrics that most people have already heard. And they do all of this for the acceptance of others...to get someone to click "like" or post a comment.
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Leelll replies:
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Depression IS a Mental Disorder. It is not just a matter of not being happy all of the time. I remember wanting to kill myself since the age of 9 and did not begin to take medication till I was 42 years old. I had no idea what life could be like. I was getting unprovoked messages to "just die" "you are nothing" "nobody wants you" "look how ugly you are" "I am so stupid" Hundreds of times every single day! And I mean 100's! I was functioning - on the outside I always wore a smile and was kinda funny, so when I got close to someone and they saw my downs they couldn't believe it - "You are one of the Happiest People I know" was usually their initial response.
With Medication - I can go days without thinking of killing myself and sometimes - even WEEKS!!! I didn't believe the Psychiatrist when she said that with medication you might get to a point where you never think of Suicide. I still can't believe that will be in my future but I am trying. My son was diagnosed with depression when he was 16 - that means that my depression is inherited and had nothing to do with my parents divorce at an early age. It didn't help but it wasn't BECAUSE of that. My son gave much the same story as me that he hated himself, we didn't love him, and it started around 9 or 10. He didn't tell me - he told the therapist then he told me and we put it together. He even says that he remembers before these feelings came - he remembers going through life with little worries and feeling good - then it was gone and things changed. He thought it was because I homeschooled him.
Not everyone that is depressed needs medication but many people do - the most important thing is to go to a therapist if you feel suicidal or hate yourself. They are professionals and they know what they are doing. We are fortunate to live at a time that we have many options to get help.
If you cannot relate to what I am talking about then it is likely that you don't have depression or don't have the same kind of depression as I do... but if you read this and say "Yeah, that's me." Then see a therapist as soon as possible. That's how I knew my son was feeling depression - he watched a show on PBS that talked about Men and depression and said, "That's Like Me" I was floored! I had no idea.
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RedWings_ninety_one says:
Here is an idea...GET A REAL LIFE!
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samXXkiley says:
coucou,
La "d?pendance" des adultes ? Facebook, est palpable, elle a tendance ? les ?loigner du monde r?el, vu le nombre d'heures qu'ils passent dans ce site, ce qui influe directement sur leurs vies, sans parler des pr?judices commis par le site de Zuckerberg, (comme devoiler la vie priv?e des utilisateurs etc)
s'agissant des enfants le probl?me est plus grave, ces enfants, ? cause de l'inconscience des parents, sont laiss?s ? leur propre sort, la mauvaise influence est tr?s visible, ? travers leurs comportements au quotidien, sans parler des risques qu'ils encourent ? l'autre bout de la ligne (harc?lement, intimidation etc)
conclusion : il faut ?tre vigilant, la d?prime et autres maux guettent nos enfants.

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"Dependency" of adults to Facebook, is palpable, it tends to keep them away from the real world, given the number of hours they spend in this site, which directly affects their lives,
not to mention the harm committed by Zuckerberg's site (as unveil the privacy of users, etc.)

case of children the problem is more severe, these children, because of the unawareness of parents, are left to their fate, the negative influence of Facebook, is very visible through their daily behavior,
not to mention risks they face at the other end of the line (harassment, intimidation, etc.)
conclusion: we must be vigilant, depression and other problems threaten our children.
" au revoir"
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rf35 says:
Kids with too much time on their hands. Parents should kick them off the 'puter and out of the house for some real activity but that would probably be considered child abuse these days. I remember when we had read friends that went places together and hung out at each other's houses. You didn't have to send e-mails to ask people to be your friends...that got taken care of at school. Heck, I can't really keep up with the couple dozen or so Facebook friends I have. Can't imagine these nutter with hundreds of friends. What's the point?
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