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CBS/ December 7, 2010, 3:00 PM

Elizabeth Edwards Living End of Life "Her Way"

Elizabeth Edwards' doctors say her long battle with cancer is coming to an end, and she may have only weeks to live.

She's at her Chapel Hill, N.C. home, surrounded by friends and family.

CBS News correspondent Nancy Cordes reports doctors have told the wife of former presidential candidate John Edwards treatment would no longer affect her outcome. Doctors say she is not in any pain and is saying her final farewells to loved ones.

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Edwards, 61, posted a message on Facebook signaling her six-year battle against cancer may be closing.

Edwards wrote, "The days of our lives, for all of us, are numbered. ... The days I do have are made all the more meaningful and precious."

As political spouses go, Edwards broke the mold.

She is a lawyer with a lengthy resume and raised four children: grown daughter Cate, Wade, who died in a car accident in 1996, and Emma Claire, and Jack, who came later.

Lately though, she's been identified most with her private battles, first her health, and later her troubled marriage to John Edwards.

The former senator was John Kerry's running mate in the 2004 presidential election. The day they conceded defeat, Elizabeth announced she had been living with breast cancer during the campaign. After chemotherapy, surgery and radiation, the family hoped the worst was over.

In November 2006, she said, "I seem to be cancer free, knock on wood."

Yet, soon after her husband launched his second presidential bid in 2006, doctors told her the cancer had returned, this time spreading to her bones, and could not be cured.

In 2008, John Edwards admitted publicly what he had already confessed in private, saying, "She understands what I understand, which is that I am imperfect. I made a very serious mistake."

That "serious mistake" was that he'd had an affair with campaign videographer Rielle Hunter.

Later, Edwards would also admit fathering a child with Hunter. The Edwards' marriage imploded.

On Monday, she reached out to all those on Facebook who stood by her these turbulent few years.

She wrote, "It isn't possible to put into words the love and gratitude I feel to everyone who has and continues to support and inspire me every day...To you I simply say: you know. With love, Elizabeth."

Betsy Gleick, executive editor of People magazine, which first reported Elizabeth Edwards' current condition on its website, said, "She is at home, she is surrounded by loved ones. Her children are all there. She has good friends there. Her sister is there. And they are sort of hanging out and talking and looking at photos, and that's what we know. She's obviously very sick. She had stomach pains over Thanksgiving, and they found that the cancer had spread to her liver."

CBS News Medical Correspondent Dr. Jennifer Ashton said Edwards' doctors have shifted their focus from curing the cancer to treating her symptoms.

Ashton said, "The unfortunate reality when you're talking about cancer, and cancer treatment, is that not all cancer is curable. So, a large part of cancer treatment involves treating the cancer, and the sites to which it has spread. Really, once cancer is in the liver, the big concern is that the liver is not able to clear the toxins that our body produces, and actually there usually isn't that much pain. Some people might get a little disoriented. They might get a little tired and eventually slip into a coma. But obviously, this shifts the medical focus from cure to treating the patient's symptoms and making them as comfortable as possible. So, it's not that you're not treating the patient anymore. You're just not trying to cure the cancer."

When asked if Edwards is looking at hospice care, Gleick said Edwards is viewing her treatment as she did her life.

"She is doing this her way," Gleick said.

"Early Show" co-anchor Erica Hill noted part of her plans have been to prepare her children. Hill said Edwards has been writing letters and preparing her children.

Gleick said, "She has been writing letters to them, she has been going through her things for years. And she has been writing these books. I mean, she's trying to be both a public example and a private example of the things that she mentions on her Facebook posting -- the sense of resilience and faith -- and that is how she is coping with this."

Among those around Edwards is John Edwards.

"He's there," Gleick said. "He's in and out. He lives nearby. He is the father of their three children, who are there. He will be taking care of these children, and he's very much a presence."

Ashton said having friends and family around during this time is beneficial.

She said, "It's something that I've said quite a bit in my own practice. It's a privilege to be with someone when they come into the world. But it is similarly a privilege to be someone as they leave the world. And so being surrounded by their closest friends and family is so important. And it is an example of grace to know, both as a doctor and as a patient when to say, I've had enough."
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dkohutkyle says:
Please pay attention to the message and get a mammogram each and every year. I am living proof that it may have saved my life. I am a 54 yr old woman who has been diligent in my mammogram screenings each year since the age of 40. On Feb. 16, 2010 I was diagnosed with Invasive Lobular Cancer, it was Stage One,small and ER positive, it did not infiltrate my blood stream or my lymph nodes. Treatment was a lumpectomy, 6wks of radiation and hormone therapy for 5yrs.
This cancer would never have been detected with a breast exam until it was at a much later stage. If skipped my mammogram this year I would be writing an entirely different story. Do not miss your yearly mammmogram, your life depends on it.
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luvny-2009 says:
Chapel Hill, N.C. - Elizabeth Edwards, the political wife whose public battle with breast cancer, coping with marital infidelity and continued advocacy for the downtrodden raised her profile above that of her husband, died Tuesday. She was 61.
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Kayp1 says:
My heart goes out to Elizabeth and her Kids, I know she hate to be leaving her kids behind. I hope John realize the pain and hurt he has brought to her. I was shocked at the news I so thought he was a better man. I guess as the saying goes "you can't judge a book by it's cover".
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whozzzzure says:
Today I took out my wool skull cap -- the only one left that I wore during my chemo for estrogen postive breast cancer. Today, I wear it for Elizabeth, our Warrior for us all who face this beast. All ladies who are survivors, whether in treatment, in remission, or in Stage 4 -- wear your head covering from your baldness of times past or present, wear your pins, wear your pink boas. Wear them now as we mourn one more Warrior who's life is now coming to a close. I wear mine proudly for women such as Elizabeth Edwards. And, I tell my students why I wear my head covering and why the time is now to erradicate this beast that takes those we so love. Women who have fought this disease and continue to fight this disease understand what she has endured, and we celebrate her life and her courage.
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1SadDay says:
I am so sad to hear that Elizabeth isn't doing good. She's been such a strong woman fighting this cancer for so long. I just hope she doesn't suffer. God Bless her and give her family strengh throughout this tough time.
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CitaJ says:
Dear Mrs. Edwards, You are such an incredible role model and woman. I am praying for you and I know that God will welcome you as another one of his angels. Thank you for standing up against cancer.
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hologram5 says:
You are a strong woman Elizabeth, my family will keep you in our hearts and prayers during this tough times. May you find peace and solace in your life.
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me_n_my_angel says:
Mrs. Edwards.... I was amazed at how high you held your head during such painful turmoil involving the circumstances you faced in life. You are truly a wonderful woman and a role-model for all Americans, regardless of sex. We could all learn from her. I know that God is watching and waiting; and, he will have Wade standing by his side to welcome you to eternal life! May you also be greeted by all your loved ones who have passed before. Your new life as an angel, in heaven with God, will be filled everyday with joyous blessings.

I will pray that John realizes the error of his ways and continues to be a loving parent to your children.
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pragmatist1 says:
God bless you Mrs. Edwards. Your suffering will soon be over and you'll be home. Thank you for your courage, grace and exemplary life.
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LADYHEARTWELL says:
Elizabeth, You have been a shinning example to those around you and to those who have followed you through the years. Even still you are showing us all how to live with grace in spite of illness. Your strength will inspire your family how to unite and love and to show bravery just as you did when you lost your beloved Wade. Somehow I feel confident that God and his angels of love and mercy are surrounding you to provide the strength to continue be with the family you love so much. You have defined grace on this earth and then your example has taught us to live grace in all areas of our living. I pray for the unity of your family as the final act of grace your loved ones have learned from you. God's speed, dear Elizabeth.
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