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CBS/ August 12, 2010, 1:14 PM

JetBlue Flight Attendant: Hero or Heel?

Steven Slater, the JetBlue flight attendant who famously quit after a confrontation with a passenger, has been hailed by many as a working class hero. But new details are emerging that seem to paint the hero as a heel.

Everywhere he goes, Slater is chased by cameras. He's being called the new face of workplace misery.


Pictures: Steven Slater

When asked by a reporter, "What do you have to say to all the people that are saying you're a hero?" Slater replied, "Oh it's, it's so encouraging and so special in this, some really great people out there, and I'm getting a glimpse of that."

But according to the Wall Street Journal, CBS News correspondent Jeff Glor reported, Slater's story of suffering at the hands of rude, abusive passengers may be overblown.

The paper spoke to one passenger, 53-year-old school teacher Marjorie Briskin, who said it was Slater who cursed first at a female passenger who simply asked him where her luggage was stowed.

"I didn't think she was rude in the least. (He) was so inappropriate," Briskin is quoted by the paper.

Another passenger, Lauren Dominijanni, reported asking Slater for a towel to clean up some coffee on her seat. She said Slater, "rolled his eyes in a real rude manner".. then barked "No. Maybe when we get in the air. I need to take care of myself first, honey." "It wasn't normal.. I felt so uncomfortable on that flight."

Still other passengers reported that Slater spent much of the flight patrolling the aisle, methodically opening overhead bins, then slamming them shut.

Passenger Lauren Wood blogged about Slater's behavior, ending with "This guy is not a hero. He's a jerk. And an idiot."

Slater's employer, JetBlue, tried to make light of the situation, writing on its blog: "You can't make up this shtick."

Slater is charged with criminal mischief, reckless endangerment and trespassing.

But Slater's ex-wife Cynthia Susanne, who has remained friends with her former husband, disagrees with these reports.

She told "Early Show" co-anchor Erica Hill on the broadcast Thursday these reports seem to be from attention-seekers.

"As far as I can see, it seems like an opportunistic path for some people to come guard right now," Susanne said. "I have known Steven to be only the consummate gentleman, a stellar flight attendant and a fabulous human being. There would be no reason for him to attack a passenger. If he was having an off day, it's a possibility, but there's no way that he would be verbally abusive to any of his passengers. He took his job too seriously."

In fact, Susanne said she didn't expect this kind of behavior from her ex, whom she's known for 20 years.

"Upon hearing the story, I was surprised," Susanne said. "This is really out of character for anything that Steven would normally behave like."

She added, "I'm more surprised more by the effect that nobody is holding this passenger accountable, just yet. I'm sure the media is bouncing this idea around that this person could be a problem. As far as the Steven that I know, there is no way that he would like, snap, as they say, without provocation. I have no doubt in my mind that to get him to this point this passenger had to have been a nightmare."

Susanne said in the time she's known Slater, he's never expressed his frustration at work.

"I think it was a grand gesture to go," she said. "We can question his motives for doing the slide thing. It was a stylish exit. Nobody got hurt. I can't imagine why there would be criminal charges against him."

But the charges leveled at him are serious. Does he realize their severity?

Susanne said, "I'm sure he understands (the charges). I think he should be appalled and I think he should absolutely wonder why the passenger is not being held more accountable for this. I really believe that, you know, it's -- it's getting away with something for these people to be allowed to mistreat our service personnel. The FAA (Federal Aviation Administration) has very strict regulations and protocols. If the flight attendants don't behave on a certain level there can be fines of the airline and serious injury. There are reasons you want you to have a seat until taxiing is done. So, I think there definitely should be more to this from the opposite side."
Susanne said this incident is "a sign of the times."

"Judging by the media explosion and the overwhelming support by the public, it seems that other people can relate to the fact that we are overrun with rudeness in these times," she said. "I do believe that he just had enough. After 20 years of flying and taking care of passengers and taking care of customers with such esteemed care, to be pushed to this level, I think shows exactly what we're going through."

The media attention surrounding Slater has also including rumors of a reality TV show.

In response to that gossip, Susanne said, "Wouldn't that be fabulous? He is a really wonderful person. I think that the world obviously is his oyster at this point, so he's going to make all the best decisions. He will he handle it with all the grace that he has."
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guest173 says:
seems like this guy couldn't handle kids. what a crybaby
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lissa4 says:
What he did was absolutely looney! Thankfully nobody got hurt, he did what he did, damage is done, and now he wants his job back? That part absolutely floors me, lol! Sorry Steve you quit. Now move on! That's where I think he wants his movie rights!
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JayAdler1 says:
There is one item that caught my eye from the beginning of this convoluted story. This fellow never seemed to be solvent. Tonight I heard that he had retained a Legal Aide lawyer. You have to be almost in overdraft to convince them to come out. I worked in civil service for a long time so I know if you work in his capacity for an airline you may hit $50,000 after 20 years. There are benefits and perks. He was also described at the onset of living with a partner. So now we have two individuals that should have a respectable amount of money in the bank after the years he put in.Of course I nor any other inquiring person has the right to ask him why he got into a position like this. There is no law that says reporters cannot snoop around and ask questions. I went out on the limb and brought this up because if he volunteers the reason or someone stumbles upon it, the fact that he apparently has no money at his station in life will probably answer all the dangling questions.
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fedup12 says:
But the guy just looks like a doush.

Glorified bus nazi.

Jeez if he had a problem which he apparently did just quit. He should have done it LONG ago.

No one going to hire his but now. And good riddance.
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fedup12 replies:
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Honestly dont you just want to wipe the smarmy smile off this doush's face?

Just sayin.
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Myopinion046 says:
Homosexuals can't handle criticism and lack self-discipline and self-control it would seem. Baby want a lollypop...pacifier...or what?????
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fedup12 replies:
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amen.
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documemts says:
This guy has more balls than the straight guys do.
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fedup12 replies:
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No if he had balz he should have stuck around and faced the music. As it was he ran like a little girl.
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MannieP says:
Regardless of the provocation, slater deployed the emergency slide. This took an aircraft out of service for at least one day and cost Jet Blue about $150,000 in labor, material, and recertification to put in a new slide. And that doesn't include the lost revenue for the loss of the aircraft. You don't just roll one of those things up like an air mattress and stuff it back in the box.

The loser is also a felon, and should do hard time.
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MannieP replies:
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It's still a funny story, though. :-)
documemts replies:
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You obviously have an ax to grind. You can't be a felon until your judged by your peers
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OxyCon says:
So let me get this "straight", the ex-wife of a man who left her for another man is surprised about his behavior. Lol, now that's funny!

Look, Slater basically went into homosexual melt-down mode and threw a hissy fit. That is all. Nothing to see here. Why do you think the police found him in bed with another man when they went to arrest him? It was probably make-up time.

There's alot of these overly dramatic homosexual hissy fits going on around the country right now. Just look at how traitor Bradly Manning deliberately caused serious harm to our country because of his homosexual problems that he couldn't deal with.
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Pattypye says:
This is news? Come on guys, we've got important things going on in the world.
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lissa4 replies:
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understand your comment, but you are here reading it no?
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vonmissy says:
this story is still funny no matter what angle its covered in. even the passengers that thought he was rude- funny. probably uptight morons anyway. most likely never worked in any service industry job. I love the idea of what he did, and I do not care about FAA regulations. I had been a flight attendant pre 9/11 and wish I could have done something like this. People are such idiots and lose all sense of common decency when they fly. I am sure the lack of control does something to them. regardless, there is a certain point that one reaches after endless rudeness. Apparently, Slater reached his point. I am guessing getting dinged in the head by an idiots luggage probably was it.
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