July 12, 2010 10:41 AM

LeBron's Breakup with Cleveland is Personal

(AP)  The elimination ceremony boiled down to a single sentence, uttered by the most coveted bachelor of them all.

And it ended, as such endings always do, with tears — and the self-righteous fury that inevitably follows being rejected live on national television. Like a bunch of jilted contestants, Americans glued to their television screens watched, crestfallen, as LeBron James handed that coveted final rose to the Miami Heat, eliminating his remaining suitors in one cruel instant.

In Cleveland, grown men cried into their beers. And from New York to Chicago and beyond, fanning across millions of riveted ESPN viewers, the moment of truth stung like a personal betrayal.

But isn't this what America asked for? We wanted the show, the spectacle, the slow build-up to the big reveal. We love watching contestants get mercilessly booted into oblivion in front of the cameras — but we certainly don't want to be the rejects ourselves, thank you very much.

And that's exactly what happened Thursday night. The morning after, people are wondering: How did a decision by one basketball player jump clean out of the realm of basketball and become an American cultural moment that will be talked about for years to come?

That's called masterful marketing, says Gerry Patnode, who leads the school of business at York College in York, Penn. James played coy for weeks, dragging out his decision as the frenzied speculation went into overdrive. Rather than leave his home turf, he invited teams from various cities to come visit him instead. Meanwhile, hope and anxiety built like a balloon about to pop.

Preliminary Nielsen Co. ratings showed more than seven of every 100 homes with TV sets were tuned in to the ESPN special. In Cleveland, the attention was extraordinary: one in every four homes watched James announce he was leaving his hometown.

"It built suspense. It kept sequencing or ratcheting up what would the choice be," Patnode said. "Everybody started to speculate what it would be like if LeBron came to my city."

It was also, at another level, a bit of well-played psychological warfare. James tapped into fans' insecurity, their need for constant vindication, says Dr. Alan Hilfer, director of psychology at Maimonides Medical Center in New York.

"Everybody wanted to be able to say, 'he chose us,"' Hilfer says. "That means we're the good guys, we're a good city. We're a good team."

But for all the hype and the oft-repeated comparisons to Michael Jordan, James hasn't won a single championship in his young career, a fact that was duly noted on the front page of the Cleveland Plain Dealer on Friday morning in the form of a full-length image of James seen from behind as he walks away. An arrow pointing to the fingers on James' right hand is accompanied by this caption: "7 years in Cleveland. No rings."

As the city's anger swelled on Thursday night, with people burning jerseys in the streets, Cleveland Cavaliers owner Dan Gilbert penned a furious open letter to fans, sounding very much like a jilted boyfriend penning a bitter missive about an old flame.

"This shocking act of disloyalty from our home grown 'chosen one' sends the exact opposite lesson of what we would want our children to learn," wrote Gilbert, who also called James a "coward" and a "narcissist."

Like many a prodigal son, James must now deal with the disillusionment of people like Gilbert, who is acting like a disappointed father, Hilfer says.

"The loyalty factor is something that everyone can be forgiven for," says Hilfer. "The fact that he wasn't loyal was unforgivable."

The sports memorabilia business Fathead offered LeBron James jerseys online Friday at price reduced from $99.99 to $17.41. (Famous traitor Benedict Arnold was born in 1741. Coincidence?)

Most experts say James should have seen the vitriol coming from miles away.

"Surely he's seen enough of those old TV sitcom episodes where somebody tells three people they're going to go to the prom," says Robert Thompson, a pop culture expert at Syracuse University. "It never ever works well."

It was like the finale of the cult ABC drama "Lost," which finally ended in May to much fanfare, Thompson says. Like "Lost," James set himself up with too many complications, too many plot twists, to allow for a satisfying ending, Thompson says.

Had James picked Cleveland, fans probably would have been more sympathetic. That's a narrative we would pay to watch. The hometown hero forgoes the temptation of sunny, wealthy Florida to stay in chilly, recession-hit Ohio — all for the love of his doting fan base. That's the rosy Hollywood story that even fans in Chicago or New York would have been hard-pressed to criticize.

Besides, loyalty is a strange word in the world of professional sports, where money trumps all on both sides, Patnode says. Sports franchises have proved many times over that they'll inevitably choose business over loyalty. Do the Cavaliers have a right to be upset when a player does the same thing?

"Friendship and talent and such is wonderful, but James himself said it last night: It's a business," says Robert Passikoff, founder of Brand Keys, a New York-based brand loyalty research group.

And in an age where reality television rules the airwaves, Americans should brace themselves for more sporting spectacles in a similar vein, experts say.

"The Decision," as LeBron's special was famously titled, may inspire marketing executives to try to create sporting events out of behind-the-scenes athletic choices to lure an audience and drum up revenue.

"There are only a few athletes out there with the juice to hijack an hour of ESPN," Thompson says. "Tiger could do it. I have a sneaking suspicion we may see a lot more of that kind of thing."

And as for fans, they should know better. Herein lies the age-old problem of idolizing sports heroes, a one-way relationship that has a high probability of ending badly. You're making an emotional investment in someone who's not returning the favor.

"LeBron James is not worried about you," says Lou Manza, professor of psychology at Lebanon Valley College in Annville, Penn. "You might go to the games and cheer and everything, but he's not hearing your cheer. He's hearing the crowd."

More LeBron James Coverage:

LeBron Gets Cheers in Miami, Jeers in Cleveland
LeBron James Picks Miami Heat for New Team
Jim Gray: Dan Gilbert Will Regret Dissing LeBron
CBSSports.com's Ken Berger: Pick Changes Landscape
CBSSports.com's Mike Freeman: No Title Lock for Heat




By Meghan Barr

© 2010 The Associated Press. All Rights Reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten, or redistributed.
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by LaPatria7 July 10, 2010 11:11 AM EDT
The Fraternity among Sports Athletes weighed heavier than any loyalty to his Home Town. Seven years in Cleveland did not produce a Championship, although Lebron did take them to the Finals. The fact remains that Lebron has bought the hype about "His Brand" and nicknames like the "King" or "King James" only fueled the exaggerated Ego elixir that makes even good young men like Lebron succumb to the inebriating effect. Now we will have the "The Kings from the East" in Miami and if they don't bring multiple Titles then the "Lebron Brand" will take a hit, but he has made enough money to overcome the disappointment. The Cavs need to get over their loss ASAP and hope for another special draft pick because it looks like they will be in the Lottery pick for a few years to come. My condolences.
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by newsnews2 July 10, 2010 5:29 AM EDT
3 things:
1. there are more important things than this such as gulf oil spills
2. money is not point
3. did Gilbert do his best for his star employee? a big fish needs a big pond! did he offer a big pond to swim? did he get other good players or even a good coach?
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by AlamoDoc July 9, 2010 9:33 PM EDT
Wow, if only doctors, policemen, and teachers could get the kind of adoration and appreciation reserved for athletes like this King James. No wonder America is on a decline.
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by esq777 July 9, 2010 8:26 PM EDT
"LeBron James isn't worried about you" Great quote, and so true. It's incredible how everyone gets so wrapped up in athletes and celebrities. These people could care less about their "fans" -- they are just taking their money and laughing all the way to the bank.
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by myopinionpal July 10, 2010 8:28 AM EDT
A quote from the movie Life said by Eddie Murphy,

YOU RIGHT WHEN YOU SAID WHAT YOU SAID!!!!
by scubbasteve01 July 9, 2010 8:04 PM EDT
A Letter To Dan Gilbert:

Dear Mr. Wilson Lebron James is moving to Miami and there won't be a Championship again here in Cleveland. Is there really a Santa Claus? Why can't we win all of those big games here in Cleveland? I still believe in this town. But Mr. Gilbert trashed Lebron on his way out of town. Is Lebron really a bad guy?''

Letter from Virginia Smith from Cleveland, Ohio for EDITOR, Steven Wilson, BULL****Press Weekend Edition.

" Dear Virginia yes their is a Santa Claus and he is in our hearts and minds not just all over the world but in Miami.
As well as your great city of Cleveland. But Lebron leaving is a direct result of Loyalty, Marketing, Money in Sports and how if you don't win you leave town to get that ring and trophy somewhere else. You see Virginia no one likes to cry in their beer. But Lebron's
time in Cleveland only gave him the 2 time MVP Award not the championships that he wanted. The unfair comparison to Michael Jordan didn't help him either along with the title of the '' KING.'' Sore losers? 7 years of it I think worst than Philly fans.
Coward, narcissist, $17.41 Fathead.com buddy? The press around the DECISION didn't help his image either.
So is Lebron a jerk, Virginia? No, I don't think so. He just understands that this is a big business and that he needs to take care of his business if he wants tow in and obviously he's smart enough to realize that it won't happen in his hometown of Cleveland.
We should all understand that when we see players signing big contracts like this that yes it really is just a big business.
Mr. Gilbert trashing Lebron was a classless act considering basketball is a team sport unlike tennis and golf. In the games when Lebron wasn't playing well and the teammates that Gilbert paid for to surround him in those key playoff games CHOKED that he mentioned when they were expected to move their game to the next level. Did Mr. Gilbert in the face of defeat expect them to perform well and him to score 65 points a game to get a big win? Well they didn't play well Mr. Gilbert and the money that you spent was wasted. Yes Virginia there is a Santa Claus and if Dan Gilbert could get his hands on him he would pay him big money to not choke during Christmas Eve and disappoint all of the children all over the world. Cleveland will of win a championship of course on Playstation 2 or Xbox. So he would be well advised to get his controller ready to play. Cleveland Rocks! "

Cleveland rocks, baby! SICK!
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by thanksgreed July 9, 2010 7:45 PM EDT
Maybe it's just me, but the fact that this dude stopped the world over this is appalling when I think of what's happened in the Gulf to all of those people. I just think it's ridiculous.
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by LovesCapitalism July 9, 2010 8:51 PM EDT
Yes, it is just you...as much as the gulf is a news worthy story...it got old after a month of failed goverment "intervention"...i.e. finger pointing and golfing...so instead of worring about fish, try finding a subject people care about...like sports
by thanksgreed July 9, 2010 9:59 PM EDT
You're right, sorry BP.
by csurfer July 9, 2010 7:33 PM EDT
-This shocking act of disloyalty from our home grown 'chosen one' sends the exact opposite lesson of what we would want our children to learn, wrote Gilbert-

Sounds like there's a bunch of sore losers out there who obviously haven't been taught the meaning of the word sportsmanship. A definition... Sportsmanship expresses an aspiration or ethos that the activity will be enjoyed for its own sake, with proper consideration for fairness, ethics, respect, and a sense of fellowship with one's competitors. Being a "good sport" involves being a "good winner" as well as being a "good loser".
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