Sheriff: Family Was Afraid of Russian Boy
The president of Russia is calling it a "monstrous deed" - the decision by a Tennessee woman to send her adopted son back to his homeland, alone.
Now authorities in Shelbyville are investigating the actions of Torry and Nancy Hansen, the adoptive mother and grandmother of 7-year-old Artyom Savelyev.
On CBS' "The Early Show" this morning, Bedford County Sheriff Randall Boyce said his department is checking into what (if any) crime was committed.
"We'll have to go through this with kind of a fine tooth comb and see exactly what has been done here. Was this a poor judgment on her part, or has something illegal been done?"
Boyce also said it was not known if the adoption had been finalized, as court records on adoptions are sealed. "We'll have to get a court order to get in to see if the adoption was final," he told Rodriguez.
Also being investigated is the manner of Artyem's travel from the U.S.: "Was it illegal to put a child on an airplane and send him halfway around the world?" said Boyce. "We're told that in the United States, a child eight years old can be put on an airplane and sent wherever, and that's okay, but seven years old is not."
Boyce said what his investigators have been hearing so far indicates continued problems in the Hansen home: "What we're getting mostly is that he had violent issues and that they were more or less afraid of him, as far as trying to burn the house while they were asleep. I think he threatened some of these things. But it's still early. We're not exactly sure what the whole deal is."
"It Got to Be Where You Feared for Your Safety"
Nancy Hansen told The Associated Press that the motives of her daughter - a 33-year-old, unmarried nurse - were sincere.
"The intent of my daughter was to have a family and the intent of my whole family was to love that child," she said Friday.
The family was told the boy, whose Russian name is Artyom Savelyev, was healthy in September when he was brought from the town of Partizansk in Russia's Far East to his new home in the heart of Tennessee horse country. The skinny boy seemed happy, but the behavioral problems began soon after, Hansen said.
"The Russian orphanage officials completely lied to her because they wanted to get rid of him," she said.
Hansen chronicled a list of problems: hitting, screaming and spitting at his mother and threatening to kill family members. Hansen said his eruptions were often sparked when he was denied something he wanted, like toys or video games.
"He drew a picture of our house burning down and he'll tell anybody that he's going to burn our house down with us in it," she said. "It got to be where you feared for your safety. It was terrible."
Hansen said she thought that with their love, they could help him. "I was wrong," she said.
She said her daughter sought advice from psychologists but never had her adoptive son meet with one. They chose an English-language home study program, hoping to enroll him in traditional school in the fall. He would play with his cousin, Logan, at the family's property in Shelbyville, where there is a large backyard and a swingset.
In February, Hansen said, the family could take no more. The boy flew into a rage, snatched a 3-pound statue and tried to attack his aunt with it. Hansen said he was apparently upset after his aunt asked him to correct math problems on his school work.
Hansen bought the plane ticket, and the family arranged to pay a man in Russia $200 to take him from the airport and drop him off at the Russian education ministry. He arrived alone Thursday on a United Airlines flight from Washington.
When Artem arrived in Moscow, he was carrying a note that read in part:
"I am sorry to say that for the safety of my family, friends, and myself, … I no longer wish to parent this child. As he is a Russian national, I am returning him to your guardianship."
It went on to say that "he is violent and has severe psychopathic issues."
Sheriff Boyce said reaction to the news in his community and from around the country has been mixed.
"We've had phone calls from everywhere," he told "Early Show" anchor Maggie Rodriguez, "some people saying, you know, they had been involved in an incident like this and they didn't blame her for what they done, that they had been lied to by the adoption agency. Some said, you know, that we hope we prosecute her to the fullest of the law because they're losing their adoption rights to their child.
"It's a sad situation, and I guess there's not going to be a real good end to it one way or the other."
Also on "The Early Show," international adoption expert Joyce Sterkel of the Ranch For Kids Project, which helps "at risk" adopted kids, predominantly from Russia, said that she was not surprised that some parents are sympathetic to Torry Hansen's situation.
"I would say overwhelmingly, anyone who has parented a post-institutionalized child with difficulties is very sympathetic with this mother, even though they may not agree with the manner by which she handled it," Sterkel said.
Sterkel said while many expect "love heals," that a child's genetic foundation, including inter-uterine exposure to alcohol during a mother's pregnancy, cannot be loved away.
"It's a problem everywhere [that] pregnant women drink, and certainly in Russia that's the case. That can cause permanent organic brain damage."
Tennessee adoption agencies say Hansen had other options.
Debbie Robinson, executive director of Miriam's Promise adoption agency in Nashville, told CBS News, "This child could've been placed with a qualified, licensed agency for placement services so that . . . somebody like us, or Catholic charities, could've found a family."
Sterkel said that adoptive parents who find themselves in a situation with a violent child often have few options.
"Saying the woman can go back to the adoption agency and turn the child over to them - no adoption agency will take a 7-year-old child with these problems," Sterkel said. "Social services probably will not help you. They will not take the child into foster care. You have the child, and once you've totally exhausted all your financial resources, then perhaps you can get some help. But as long as you have any financial resources, you won't get any help, you'll have to pay for it.
"I've seen parents spend tens of thousands of dollars on psychiatric facilities, elaborate treatments, medications, and all of it failed," she said.
Adoptions Suspended
CBS News correspondent Whit Johnson reports that Torry Hansen's decision to send her adopted son packing has sparked international outrage.
Russian authorities have temporarily suspended adoptions by American families after the Tennessee mom sent the 7-year-old on a one-way flight back to his homeland alone.
Russian Foreign Minister Sergey Lavrov has called the boy's return "the last straw" after a string of foreign adoption failures, and officials in Moscow have called for a suspension of all U.S. adoptions in Russia - which totaled about 1,600 last year, according to the non-profit U.S. advocacy group the National Council For Adoption.
The Russian education ministry immediately suspended the license of the group involved in the adoption - the World Association for Children and Parents, a Renton, Washington-based agency - for the duration of an investigation.
"If Russia chooses to suspend these adoptions, these are Russian citizens - that is Russia's right," said State Department spokesman P.J. Crowley. "We would like to see these adoptions continue, but we understand the concern that Russia has, [and] we share that concern."
Copyright 2010 CBS. All rights reserved. Now authorities in Shelbyville are investigating the actions of Torry and Nancy Hansen, the adoptive mother and grandmother of 7-year-old Artyom Savelyev.
On CBS' "The Early Show" this morning, Bedford County Sheriff Randall Boyce said his department is checking into what (if any) crime was committed.
"We'll have to go through this with kind of a fine tooth comb and see exactly what has been done here. Was this a poor judgment on her part, or has something illegal been done?"
Boyce also said it was not known if the adoption had been finalized, as court records on adoptions are sealed. "We'll have to get a court order to get in to see if the adoption was final," he told Rodriguez.
Also being investigated is the manner of Artyem's travel from the U.S.: "Was it illegal to put a child on an airplane and send him halfway around the world?" said Boyce. "We're told that in the United States, a child eight years old can be put on an airplane and sent wherever, and that's okay, but seven years old is not."
Boyce said what his investigators have been hearing so far indicates continued problems in the Hansen home: "What we're getting mostly is that he had violent issues and that they were more or less afraid of him, as far as trying to burn the house while they were asleep. I think he threatened some of these things. But it's still early. We're not exactly sure what the whole deal is."
"It Got to Be Where You Feared for Your Safety"
Nancy Hansen told The Associated Press that the motives of her daughter - a 33-year-old, unmarried nurse - were sincere.
"The intent of my daughter was to have a family and the intent of my whole family was to love that child," she said Friday.
The family was told the boy, whose Russian name is Artyom Savelyev, was healthy in September when he was brought from the town of Partizansk in Russia's Far East to his new home in the heart of Tennessee horse country. The skinny boy seemed happy, but the behavioral problems began soon after, Hansen said.
"The Russian orphanage officials completely lied to her because they wanted to get rid of him," she said.
Hansen chronicled a list of problems: hitting, screaming and spitting at his mother and threatening to kill family members. Hansen said his eruptions were often sparked when he was denied something he wanted, like toys or video games.
"He drew a picture of our house burning down and he'll tell anybody that he's going to burn our house down with us in it," she said. "It got to be where you feared for your safety. It was terrible."
Hansen said she thought that with their love, they could help him. "I was wrong," she said.
She said her daughter sought advice from psychologists but never had her adoptive son meet with one. They chose an English-language home study program, hoping to enroll him in traditional school in the fall. He would play with his cousin, Logan, at the family's property in Shelbyville, where there is a large backyard and a swingset.
In February, Hansen said, the family could take no more. The boy flew into a rage, snatched a 3-pound statue and tried to attack his aunt with it. Hansen said he was apparently upset after his aunt asked him to correct math problems on his school work.
Hansen bought the plane ticket, and the family arranged to pay a man in Russia $200 to take him from the airport and drop him off at the Russian education ministry. He arrived alone Thursday on a United Airlines flight from Washington.
When Artem arrived in Moscow, he was carrying a note that read in part:
"I am sorry to say that for the safety of my family, friends, and myself, … I no longer wish to parent this child. As he is a Russian national, I am returning him to your guardianship."
It went on to say that "he is violent and has severe psychopathic issues."
Sheriff Boyce said reaction to the news in his community and from around the country has been mixed.
"We've had phone calls from everywhere," he told "Early Show" anchor Maggie Rodriguez, "some people saying, you know, they had been involved in an incident like this and they didn't blame her for what they done, that they had been lied to by the adoption agency. Some said, you know, that we hope we prosecute her to the fullest of the law because they're losing their adoption rights to their child.
"It's a sad situation, and I guess there's not going to be a real good end to it one way or the other."
Also on "The Early Show," international adoption expert Joyce Sterkel of the Ranch For Kids Project, which helps "at risk" adopted kids, predominantly from Russia, said that she was not surprised that some parents are sympathetic to Torry Hansen's situation.
"I would say overwhelmingly, anyone who has parented a post-institutionalized child with difficulties is very sympathetic with this mother, even though they may not agree with the manner by which she handled it," Sterkel said.
Sterkel said while many expect "love heals," that a child's genetic foundation, including inter-uterine exposure to alcohol during a mother's pregnancy, cannot be loved away.
"It's a problem everywhere [that] pregnant women drink, and certainly in Russia that's the case. That can cause permanent organic brain damage."
Tennessee adoption agencies say Hansen had other options.
Debbie Robinson, executive director of Miriam's Promise adoption agency in Nashville, told CBS News, "This child could've been placed with a qualified, licensed agency for placement services so that . . . somebody like us, or Catholic charities, could've found a family."
Sterkel said that adoptive parents who find themselves in a situation with a violent child often have few options.
"Saying the woman can go back to the adoption agency and turn the child over to them - no adoption agency will take a 7-year-old child with these problems," Sterkel said. "Social services probably will not help you. They will not take the child into foster care. You have the child, and once you've totally exhausted all your financial resources, then perhaps you can get some help. But as long as you have any financial resources, you won't get any help, you'll have to pay for it.
"I've seen parents spend tens of thousands of dollars on psychiatric facilities, elaborate treatments, medications, and all of it failed," she said.
Adoptions Suspended
CBS News correspondent Whit Johnson reports that Torry Hansen's decision to send her adopted son packing has sparked international outrage.
Russian authorities have temporarily suspended adoptions by American families after the Tennessee mom sent the 7-year-old on a one-way flight back to his homeland alone.
Russian Foreign Minister Sergey Lavrov has called the boy's return "the last straw" after a string of foreign adoption failures, and officials in Moscow have called for a suspension of all U.S. adoptions in Russia - which totaled about 1,600 last year, according to the non-profit U.S. advocacy group the National Council For Adoption.
The Russian education ministry immediately suspended the license of the group involved in the adoption - the World Association for Children and Parents, a Renton, Washington-based agency - for the duration of an investigation.
"If Russia chooses to suspend these adoptions, these are Russian citizens - that is Russia's right," said State Department spokesman P.J. Crowley. "We would like to see these adoptions continue, but we understand the concern that Russia has, [and] we share that concern."
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The adopting families should not be held responsible for being lied to.
red necks please adopt Asians kids .. ( no offense for Asians poor souls ) but it will work with red necks just practical advice .. and Russian kids can be adopted JUST BY REALLY intelligent people as those ones who posted here
she was just a red neck that all ...
Russians have allergy to red necks ..and red neck to Russians why to try ?? you saw outcome .. and what about marriages OMG even do not want start government need do IQ test for people who want adopt Russian child or have Russian woman.. seriously ..it is my solution
IQ test for everyone who wants to adopt from Russia..how ridiculous it sounds but it may help A LOT and save both parties from mistakes and disappointments
just be realistic who you adopt or want to marry
It NOTHING to do with child .. my son also was here and criticized for aggressive behavior when they just play karate .. and i was invited to social services .. but now my sons in the best colleges of the states league colleges where red necks even do not know the names of those colleges .. and you knwo what my boys told me on such hypocratical rules ?/ they said
-We will show them !!
I asked them to relax and forgot .. they were loved and understood at home . I doubt that she loved that boys about wghat kind freaking LOVE we can talk if she did what she did you do think child is stupid ?? he just paid her back ..
You really don't blame the woman at all? What a crock. I sincerely hope to God you are not being considered for adoption/foster care. The fact is, that this irresponsible "mother" acted as poorly as the state and federal agencies that you criticized in your post. As she is hiding behind her lawyer instead of coming forth and attempting to truly tell her side of things we will probably never know what she expected, but to blame the orphanage staff for misrepresenting the boys mental status sounds alot like she believed what she wanted to in order to just get the child. Would you put a 7 year-old child on an international flight by themselves?
School-aged children (6-11 years)
Feelings of responsibility and guilt
Repetitious traumatic play
Feeling disturbed by reminders of the event
Nightmares, other sleep disturbances
Concerns about safety, preoccupation with danger
Aggressive behavior, angry outbursts
Fear of feelings, trauma reactions
Close attention to parents? anxieties
School avoidance
Worry/concern for others
Behavior, mood, personality changes
Psychosomatic symptoms (complaints about bodily aches/pains)
Obvious anxiety/fearfulness
Withdrawal
Specific trauma-related fears, general fearfulness
Regression (behaving like a younger child)
Separation anxiety
Loss of interest in activities
Confusion, inadequate understanding of traumatic events (more evident in play than in discussion)
Unclear understanding of death, causes of "bad" events
Giving magical explanations to fill in gaps in understanding
Loss of ability to concentrate at school, with lower performance
Spacey or distractible behavior
Symptoms in Preadolescents and adolescents (12-18 years)
Self-consciousness
Life-threatening re-enactment
Rebellion at home or school
Abrupt shift in relationships
Depression, social withdrawal
Decline in school performance
Trauma-driven acting out, such as sexual activity or other reckless risk-taking
Effort to distance self from feelings of shame, guilt, humiliation
Excessive activity/involvement with others, or retreat from others in order to manage inner turmoil
Accident proneness
Wish for revenge, action-oriented responses to trauma
Increased self-focusing, withdrawal
Sleep/eating disturbances, including nightmares
My grandson WHO ADORES ME was a perfectly normal 10-year-old when he stayed with me last summer. In early autumn, he was molested in front of his own mother, who was too high from snorting Vicodin to realize or react. The guy cut his hand and threatened to really hurt him, if he told anyone.
In mid-January my grandson again came to stay with me. He acted out in very bizarre and dangerous ways. I did some research and saw that the list of the things he did lined up perfectly with the list of PTSD symptoms for his age. I asked him if anyone had ever touched him in a bad or wrong way, and the entire story poured out of him.
HE SHOWED NO EMOTION while telling me of his horrific experience. THIS is one reason why children aren't believed! They detatch their emotions while relating what happened, but will become accident prone, to give themselves an outlet for crying and saying "It hurts! It hurts!" They will (unknowingly) exaggerate injury and fear of danger, and have psychsomatic pain. They will lie, steal, break and deface things, have temper tantrums, be unable to stay asleep at night. One night he tried to break into my room, which really scared me...
He cut himself and pulled out a permanent tooth. This is piquerism: When a child causes himself physical pain, to distract himself from his great emotional pain. Piqurism can be a sign of imminent SUICIDE. Finally, my grandson threatened to stab himself in the heart. We had to take him to the ER, where he was committed to a facility for a week, put on medication and therapy, and sent to live in a level four foster home.
I will post PTSD symptoms in a second post. PLEASE! Whenever you see a "bad kid," realize they very likely have PTSD, BECAUSE THEY HAVE BEEN TRAUMATIZED IN SOME WAY. HAVE COMPASSION, AND GET THEM HELP!
It is obvious from your post that you are someone with a great deal of compassion for children and understands the wounds that accompany childhood abuse. I'm a little confused though that you say "the adoptive mother is right." Surely you don't agree with her decision to throw this kid onto a plane by himself like so much baggage? While she may have been misled about his mental state, she HAD A RESPONSIBILITY as a "MOTHER" to do whatever she could to improve this child's life rather than send him back into the situation that created his grief in the first place. Perhaps I just misread your comment, but there are too many people defending the atrocious actions of this irresponsible woman.
People need to be ready and aware that children who are being adopted do not always have it so good where they are and they may come with different issues- furthermore- what is the difference between that and a child who is born to a family and has developmental issues or other sorts of birth defects or has emotional issues later in life- typically parents will stand by their children then...
Adoption should not be treated lightly or casually by any party and the way this story is portrayed it really does seem like the mother treated this child like he could be returned like a pet or something-
I am an adoptee who was adopted as a baby and I still go through struggles trying to fit in, or being asked many questions, even questions such as do your parents love you more because you are adopted...etc...ridiculous questions and I understand that people can be curious- but my point is even though I was adopted as a baby and I have loving parents who support me no matter what and I am now an adult- I still have issues I have to face as adoptee- now look at this boy who is seven and who was just adopted and may have gone through very very difficult things where he was and now he's being basically abandoned by a home he thought would be permanent- that is so much worse...
Adoption is a sensitive issue and on a normal day with adoptees who live in a secure and loving home may come across certain issues they have to deal with- but add on being adopted at an older age and going through difficult things- of course they are going to have problems...so that means that they should be adopted by a loving, understanding, patient person who is up to handling whatever comes up and able to go through the right processes to get help when it becomes too much- at the very least if someone decides to send a child back- they should go with that child or get someone to bring the child back...or contact the agency first- do something more...
Children whether they are birth children or they are adopted do not ask to come into this world- they are brought into it and they need to be taken care of- and treated with love and care- and parents need to understand the HUGE responsibility it is to parent before they decide to take it on...
So I hope that next time a problem such as this arises, a person would think long and carefully before they decide to adopt and know that they can take on a child with issues...research it VERY thoroughly...and take the necessary steps to get help if needed...
So, I do wonder if there were as many options available to this adoptive mother as people seem to think there is. And, I wonder if the orphanage really did deceive her about this child.
I do think their solution was bizarre (to send him back to Russia) but I can understand their concerns. It's a very sad situation, all the way around.
I suppose there will be new regulations after this. Possibly better home checks, to make sure that adoptive families are doing OK for a year or two after the child has been placed in the home. I would think the agency coordinating the adoption shares some responsibility to both parents and child to make sure everybody is compatible. Surely they can't expect EVERY adoption that they arrange to work out perfectly. I would think it's essential to have some plans in place, when things go wrong.
Anyway, I wonder what will come of it.
She had a kid that didn't trust her, she didn't feel like putting up with the task. At the age of 7, how could you fear a 7 year old? They all make irrational statements that they don't truly understand anyways. Don't they still believe in Santa? Easter Bunny, you think that is saner?
I think she lost her mind to endanger the child to pedophiles while sending him to change planes by himself, go to the bathroom by himself at airports, etc.. She abandoned this kid to this aircraft without knowing how he would be cared for. She should be charged with abandonment and, if proven, abuse.
I do have just onwe solution
adoption from Russia and marriages from Russia has to be or stooped or just in to consideration not just money should be taken not just level of income .. but parents to be or husband to be need to pass some tests before and those test must be created by Russian side - test on love and not just on money and desire to have the "toy"