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CBS/ AP/ March 31, 2010, 9:31 AM

Bullying Puts School Vigilance in Question

A gay teenager in New York wins $50,000 from a school district that failed to stop taunts about his sexual orientation. The Justice Department investigates complaints that administrators ignored racial bullying in a Philadelphia school.

And in Massachusetts, a 15-year-old girl hangs herself after she is mercilessly harassed for months - taunting and threats that school administrators knew about but did not stop.

Now, with nine students charged in the bullying of Phoebe Prince, who hanged herself at her family's home in January, questions have arisen about how accountable school officials should be for stopping bullying.

Barbara Coloroso, a nationally known anti-bullying consultant, had been contacted by South Hadley school officials months before Phoebe's death, after a young boy in nearby Springfield killed himself. She spent a day there in September, training teachers and administrators on how to recognize and deal with bullying.

Coloroso said school officials made mistakes by failing to stop the bullying and, after Phoebe hanged herself, by allowing at least some of the students involved to continue to attend classes and a school dance with no visible signs of discipline.

" I spoke with the educators and parents in the community about how important it was to have those three Ps," Coloroso said on CBS' "The Early Show" Tuesday.

"Strong anti-bullying policy; procedures in place that protect the targets and hold bullies accountable; and programs in place that would say 'No more, not here, never' to mean and cruel [behavior] and teach young people how to stand up and speak out."

Coloroso Discusses the Dangers of Bullying

"The questions to ask are: Did they follow their own rules and did they keep Phoebe safe? Obviously not. And, did they deal effectively with the bullies? Obviously not," Coloroso told The Associated Press on Tuesday.

Authorities say Prince, who had recently emigrated from Ireland, endured months of verbal assaults and threats after she briefly dated a popular boy. She was harassed mostly in school, but also on Facebook and through other electronic forms.

District Attorney Elizabeth Scheibel said the inaction of school officials was troublesome but not criminal.

More than 40 states have anti-bullying laws that generally require schools to adopt a set of preventive policies. But Marlene Snyder of Clemson University's Institute on Family and Neighborhood Life said laws and policies don't necessarily help if schools don't follow through with intensive training for teachers and staff.

"In defense of teachers, very few of them have ever had training on bullying prevention, much less how to intervene without making the situation worse," she said. "Some people don't understand the dramatic and devastating effect that this kind of treatment can have on a child."

In upstate New York, the Mohawk Central School District agreed Monday to do more to protect students from harassment as part of a settlement with a gay teenager who claimed he was relentlessly bullied.

The boy, described only as 15-year-old Jacob, now goes to another school, and his father said he hopes other districts take note of what happened in the working-class village.

"I wish some other schools would follow in the footsteps of this school and make changes," said Robert Sullivan, who has a different last name than Jacob. "A lot of schools are going through the same thing as this school."

In Georgia, 11-year-old Jaheem Herrera committed suicide at his Atlanta-area home last year after his parents say he was repeatedly tormented in school. School officials denied it and an independent review found bullying was not a factor, but his family rejects that conclusion.

And at South Philadelphia High School, Asian students say they've endured relentless bullying and racial epithets by black students while school officials ignored their complaints. The Asian American Legal Defense and Education Fund filed a complaint in January with the U.S. Justice Department.

In the Massachusetts case, school officials had previously said they did not know about Phoebe's harassment before she committed suicide. They have said some students accused of taking part in the bullying have been disciplined and will not return to class.

Administrators and School Committee members did not return calls and e-mails seeking comment. In a statement, Assistant Superintendent Christine Swelko said "a small group of students" was removed from school Tuesday. She would not say how many or whether they had been expelled.

She said the school, through its anti-bullying task force, was continuing to review its policies and programs.



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texmom says:
Parents need to raise their children to have respect, the schools should protect our children, and people who harass should be dealt with. The kids that did the bullying and the "School Officials" ARE RESPONSIBLE!! As far as the parents of this poor child who ended her life, my heart breaks for you and I pray you find peace.
As for the law enforcement not only do you need to go after the bullies, you need to go after the school who allowed the bullying to go on.
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tiredwheelchair says:
As a kid I was bulled in school for not having the best cloths, or coming from a family that had money, At 17 I quit school left home and joined the Army.Now 38 years later I return home to Clayton New York in a wheelchair, after 25 years of miltary service. Do you know what I found ?
The only thing that changed about the Bullys is They just got older and meaner, Once again I`ll be leaving Clayton New York This time for good. As I sit here writing this and thinking back, I told myself, If I ever got a chance to leave here, I would and never ever come back, I still wonder why the heck did I ever return
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Missbelll says:
My heart goes out to all these parents and family members of these children. I was bullied as a child,still have the scars. When I had children and they got older I couldn't believe how much crueler children had become. It is a tragedy when things happen to the innocent children but let me say that this is not that different from the children that have taken guns on a shooting rampage.I truly believe that parents should speak out at what really took place at Columbine. I know a boy in prison for the rest of his life because his parents were alcoholics and drug addicts, and the children at his school teased he relentlessly. He begged the principle to help him. The blackened eyes that teachers seen didn't help this boy.The children only cared that he didn't fit in with them and had dirty clothes. So which side of the coin do you people want..they commit suicide or the shooting rampage? Bullying should have been brought out after Columbine, not hidden away or swept under the carpet. All children should be taught respect of all things,and that too is just a fantasy
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ModMom2010 says:
ClownsOnLeft_Jokers2Right

Oh Mighty Kreskin! How psychic of you to know what we did or didn't go. Or maybe you're not psychic but ones of those who feel the need to be a jerk online??

Since my post was about the school district's failings and telling the whole story would be a couple of pages long I didn't feel the need to give the whole ugly story. As a matter of a fact we did go to the police but once we removed our daughter from the school the assistant principal who interviewed the bully changed his story and claimed he never told us about the bully's admission. (Funny how he was promoted to principal a few weeks later). Which turned the situation into a he said she said. After the police refused to act we took it to our state Representative, then the Federal Department of Education, ultimately all the way to the governor's office. All we were told was there was legislation pending before the state legislature and to be sure and tell our state rep how we wanted him to vote. The Republican Representative whose district we had the misfortune to live in said something to the effect he felt it was a matter for the individual districts to decide.

And that's only a very tiny part of the hell our family was put through. There don't you feel like a real jerk? Because you should.
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barbaram99 says:
Poor pitiful teacher..We pay yer pay check..Us who have no children..Yet ye whine..It is the nanny govt. It started years ago when I was a child..We knew adults could not do certain things..I was not allowed to watch TV etc..It would had made not difference as I could not see it..I had to atted school as it was the law..Yet it was useless.They failed me in the foster homes and school..I never was able to get the basics..It was teaxhers that was hateful to me..I leave the classroom in tears..The only thing school was good for I did not have to face the abuse there. Yet there were teachers were awful. I asked them to not call me a hateful name..I once had a large print reader and other sp needs items in my school desk..A student whined about it..The next day the school issued sp needs items that was in my desk were replaced by what other had in their desks..Useless.Ye have the gall to write about ye want us to do in combating an issue that is as old as the human race..When I tryed to stand up for myself and pointed out yer rudeness years ago..I was a girl..Ye blame tv, visual games etc..It not the tech.. The foster home did not know to raise a blind child with other handicaps..Me. Nor the fully sighted abale bodie school..I member my fisrt sp ed teacher and I was 10,,She had to figure out how to show me how to print ..I could not see that dam blackboard..Mrs Bagley had to show me by placing her hand over mind..Other wise I could never write..The school barred certain things that would have have me..I can understand no cell phones in yer classroom. I am now 55. I am aware yer sighted. I am grateful for what little education I got..There are people that breed..They not want the child..So they dump the helpless child on the town for others to take in for the money only..I later met my mother and she dumpped me at 4.. I have seen seen children boss their parents..I have seen children run about. Children throw themselves to the floor..The parent did nothing..In my day I was told to sit..I sat. Sure I dressed up a teacher when I was piupil If she needed it..We had a dress code..Ye would refuse a sp needs student his/her sp needs things..A deaf student a hearing dog in class, a blind a cane or dog..Yet there are teachers that abuse the students..There is teachers who know better than date a teen.. I can understand a dress code..How do ye deal with the transgender..The bully wants power and control.I was shocked at what they will do. Bullys are in all ages..I member my teacher asking me where I learnt that..I told her the foster home..Ye think bullying is a kid thing..No way..The blame lays in the home,school,work place,church etc..We have a problem with Rage..Manners were not taught..Parents raise their children the same way they were..My foster parents were in their 50s and 60s. Who do we blame..School was better years ago in some ways..It run like a prison today..Yer can't this/that..I can understand that needs to order.. They had problems years ago and the adults turnt their faces away from the issues..Children bully over things they have, over clothes, etc Look at the greed and the high cost of every thing..Their caretakers working and the children on their own..Church is not the answer..My teachers at school had a term lazy faire parentinging. There are homeless pupils in homeless shelters..Something not in my day..I am aware it is 2010..There are poor teachers..
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ModMom2010 says:
My daughter was relentlessly bullied to the point of threatening to kill herself. We did everything by the book (the school districts own handbook) only to be ignored and in one case have our daughter and myself verbally abused by her schools principal. We went to the superintendent and were lied to repeatedly, we went to the school board and watched them sweep it under the rug. Since Michigan has NO anti-bullying laws they knew they could ignore their own policies with impunity. Even after the worst bully admitted to threatening her life, their response was to call his grandmother!!

Our youngest's entire 1st grade class was held hostage by 1 child who terrorized his classmates for 3 years Unfortunately he had a crush on our child and singled her out. We finally got some response only after I told them the next incident would result in our filing charges. Even then they did the absolute minimum to protect only our child ignoring the other 24 kids in the class. Even after he injured 2 teachers.

We were forced to home-school for 2 years until after much research and soul searching we enrolled them in a neighboring district that actually follows it's own guidelines and protects the children.
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ClownsOnLeft_Jokers2Right replies:
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Even after the worst bully admitted to threatening her life, their response was to call his grandmother!!

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Um, last time I checked, if someone is threatening to kill you or your family....you can go to the police.

That's what I don't get about all of this.

Why don't the parents of the kids who are being bullied, go straight to the doorstep of the kid's parents who are doing the bullying?....and if they don't let up and stop, you go to the police and get a lawyer and threaten to sue them.

I mean seriously...how much is your kids life really worth to you?
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enough-already says:
I'm flabbergasted that we have devolved to the point that we have people who can make a living by being "an anti-bullying consultant". What's next?
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ClownsOnLeft_Jokers2Right says:
Where were the parents of this bullied girl who killed herself?

Did they sit there and do nothing and just watch it happen? Did they never talk to her to know that she was suffering or that there was something wrong with her?

Man, how oblivious are parents these days?
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consciousnes says:
Why is it that parents always want the schools to raise their children?
If anyone should be called to the bar about the Bullies actions, it should be thier parents. THEY are the ones who raised their children to be bullies just as they are. Their lack of interest in their children's lives has allowed the children to make decisions based on the electronic games they are allowed to be played, the violence on the TV tha they watch 6 hours a day, as do the parents who allowed the TV and the school to raise their children.
Throw the parents in jail, put the kids in juvenal hall until the parents get out and maybe, just MAYBE the parents might set up and take notice of what thier kids are doing and becoming.
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pragmatist1 says:
Schools have a responsibility in this, but so do the parents of the victim and the parents of the abusers. Just laying blame at the feet of the school is a cop-out. The real issue is a total lack of proper parenting and disregard for the responsibility. This includes parents of the victim getting them counseling and even removing them from the school. This includes parents of the abusers getting their kids counseling and also removing them from the school. As long as parents and kids aren't held accountable for their actions, bullying will continue. It's been around for decades and no one seems to want to do anything about it.
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