CBS/AP/ March 24, 2010, 2:45 PM

Judge: School Violated Gay Teen's Rights

A federal judge ruled Tuesday that a Mississippi school district violated a lesbian student's rights by refusing to allow her to bring her girlfriend to the prom, but he said he would not force the school to hold the event.

The American Civil Liberties Union sued in U.S. District Court to force the Itawamba County school district to sponsor the April 2 prom and allow Constance McMillen to escort her girlfriend and wear a tuxedo.

School officials said in court they decided to call off the prom at Itawamba Agricultural High School because McMillen's challenge to the rules had caused disruptions.

U.S. District Judge Glen H. Davidson denied the ACLU's request for a preliminary injunction. He said he'll still hold a trial, but he did not set a date, meaning any ruling would likely come too late to have the prom when it was originally scheduled.

Davidson did say in his order that the district had violated McMillen's constitutional rights by denying her request to bring her girlfriend and wear a tuxedo.

"We consider this a victory," said ACLU Mississippi legal director Kristy Bennett.

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But Davidson said a private prom parents are now planning will serve the same purpose as the school prom. He wrote in his ruling that "requiring defendants to step back into a sponsorship role at this late date would only confuse and confound the community on the issue."

Ben Griffith, the school district's attorney, said his clients were pleased with the ruling.

"What we're looking at now is the fact that the case is still on the docket for a trial on the merits," Griffith said.

McMillen first approached school officials about bringing her girlfriend in December, and again in February. Same-sex prom dates had been banned in the past, but she had hoped school officials would grant her request.

"I thought maybe the policy had been in place for a different reason," McMillen testified at a hearing on the ACLU lawsuit. "I wanted to let them know how it made me feel. I felt like I couldn't go to the prom."

She was told two girls couldn't attend the prom together and she wouldn't be allowed to wear a tuxedo, court documents show. The ACLU issued a demand letter earlier this month and the district responded by canceling the event.

District officials said they felt not hosting the prom was the best decision "after taking into consideration the education, safety and well being of our students." Superintendent Teresa McNeece said it was "a no-win situation."

Speaking to CBS'"The Early Show" last week, McMillen said "I just want to go to the prom and bring my date, just like everyone else gets to."

McMillen told "The Early Show" that, when she spoke with her school's principal in December about her intentions to bring her girlfriend to the prom, he told her it wasn't allowed. When she asked why, he told her it concerned the tickets for the event.

She said, "He said that something about when the tickets were first started, that it was cheaper for people to come as a date, like just two friends than to come individually, so people would do that and they were just trying to prohibit that."

But McMillen said, "I explained to him that you can't pretend like there's not gay people at our school, and if you tell people they can't bring same-sex date, that is discrimination to them."

The 715-student high school is located in Fulton, a town of about 4,000 in rural, north Mississippi. The entire county school district has 3,588 students.

McMillen, who lives with her grandmother and has a 3.8 grade point average, has kept her 16-year-old girlfriend out of the spotlight at the request of the girl's parents.

Her case has become a cause celebre since the school district canceled the prom March 10.

She has appeared on the "The Early Show," "The Wanda Sykes Show" and "The Ellen DeGeneres Show" to talk about how she is fighting for tolerance. DeGeneres presented her with a $30,000 college scholarship from Tonic, a digital media company. A Facebook page set up by the ACLU for McMillen has over 400,000 fans.

The teen has said repeatedly that gay students should have the same rights as the their straight counterparts, and while she has been praised on the national scene, her words mean little to some in Fulton.

McMillen said she encountered "hostility" from students who blamed her for the prom's cancellation.

Days after the district announced it would not host the prom, local townsfolk posted signs on the high school reading "What happened to the Bible Belt?" and "Why would we condone this?"
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ejcspau says:
I'd like to see where in the constitution is says "Gay people have the right to force normal people to make special exceptions to rules. Gay people are guaranteed the right to force normal people to accept their lifestyle as normal". Guarantee it isn't in there. Give me a break. They chose the sick twisted lifestyle, which isn't normal. Deal with the consequences.
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You are exactly right ejcspau! I agree 100%!
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donna047 says:
Constance already knew that the school would not allow it , but she wanted to get attention for it anyway! You can see she loves the attention she is getting. Constance is wrong and that`s that! It is gonna be a sad day for some people, but it will be too late. I uphold the schools right to cancel the prom. Our children should not be forced to watch gays in public...
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owlgal says:
Funny, in the Congress majority rules but in everyday life every weirdo has their day. Bravo to the school for upholding the rights of the majority.
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LBP0415 says:
as a Christian parent, I uphold the schools right to cancel the prom. this way everyone's "rights" were violated...not just one young lady's. shouldn't the school also have the "right" to cancel the PRIVILEGE of a dance in order to avoid unnecessary confrontation among the students? SMART AND BRAVE move by the school...
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winskibug1962 says:
Well if her lawyer is saying its her right to free speech and she should be allowed to go to her prom with another girl, then I should be able to practice my right to pray to god in the school. What is this world coming too.???? I think our system is so screwed up. I say let her have her right to be gay. But we should have our right to pray. Our great government has a problem with double standards. They pick and choose. Just like abortion. If you get an abortion its legal. but if you shoot a fetus in the mothers womb and the baby dies its murder. So which is it? How is that right?
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DSR_57 says:
How come real life lesbians are almost NEVER hot ??
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DawnBroderick40 says:
Why should we have to accept this? There are a lot of things that can go wrong with the human brain and gays have fought forever to force people to believe that being gay is an abnormality in the brain. So are a lot of other diseases of the brain, but that doesn't mean that I have to accept it as being mainstream culture. A schizophrenic has something wrong with his or her brain and so does a gay person. Same category, something wrong with the brain, but now I'm supposed to force myself to accept it as being normal and letting people with the same condition marry? I don't think so. I think it's ridiculous. They can't have it both ways. I will never change my opinion and neither will many others.
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Westrogon says:
Caeric:
Erestes Pill is a pseudonym for Marshall Kirk
Look him up on wikipedia. I'm fairly sure the
the essay entitled "The overhaul of straight
America" is his work. Correct me if I'm wrong.
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Westrogon replies:
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Sorry:

That's "The Overhauling of Straight America"

I believe it's real because there is nothing on the net denouncing it as a fabrication and wikipedia does have an article about the activist Marshall Kirk saying he wrote as Pill.
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Westrogon says:
test
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CBSName says:
"If everyone was gay there would be no babies."

That makes as much sense as saying if everyone in the world was a doctor, then no one would grow any food and we'd all starve. Thus, no one should be allowed to be a doctor.
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