December 4, 2009 12:05 PM

Tiger Woods' Desire for Privacy Challenged

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(AP)  All anyone needs to know about Tiger Woods off the golf course is what he named his yacht.

Privacy.

Woods gave up a big piece of that when he left Stanford after two years, turned pro with a "Hello, World" ad campaign and a $40 million endorsement deal, then quickly became one of the most recognizable athletes on earth.

He will invite some people into that world, but only so far.

Earlier this month in Shanghai, while playing a pro-am round at Sheshan International in a World Golf Championship, Woods allowed that he was staying in a cluster of mansions located on an island in the middle of the golf course. Some of the estates were valued at $14.5 million, and Woods could not believe the extravagance of these homes.

Approaching the island, he was asked which one he was staying in for the week.

"Oh, one of those over there," he said dismissively.

It was a clear example of the world's No. 1 player giving a morsel of insight, but not much more.

Once asked why he enjoyed scuba diving so much, Woods replied: "The fish don't know who I am."

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He is friends with many, close to only a few. Among his best friends are Bryon Bell, whom he has known since junior high school, and Jerry Chang, a teammate at Stanford.

When he made history in 2001 as the only golfer to hold all four professional majors at the same time, Golf Digest put him on the magazine cover posing with the four trophies, along with his U.S. Amateur trophy.

Did he keep them on the mantel? A special trophy case? His bedroom?

That remains a mystery.

Even for a magazine with whom he has had a longtime relationship, the trophies were moved out of his house for the photo shoot. That $2.4 million home near the driving range at Isleworth is off limits to anyone not part of his circle.

It's amazing that Woods has managed to keep such a thick wall around his personal life in the 14 years he's commanded the spotlight. The last time his name might have been on any police report was when he was mugged going back to his dorm at Stanford in 1994.

In response to a query on his Facebook account in October, Woods said he and his wife, Elin, had managed to stay out of gossip magazines and tabloids. "I think we've avoided a lot of media attention because we're kind of boring," was the reply.

That changed Friday with a press release from the Florida Highway Patrol that Eldrick Tiger Woods, 33, of Windermere, struck a fire hydrant and a tree shortly after pulling out of his driveway. The patrol described the injuries as "serious," making the news important enough to be the lead item on news channels and for networks to interrupt coverage of college football games.

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Then came word of a small photo of Woods on the cover of the National Enquirer, alleging an affair with a New York night club hostess. The woman denied the story and flew to Los Angeles on Sunday to meet with high-profile attorney Gloria Allred.

Woods has had a general distrust of the media since a 1997 interview with GQ magazine in which he was quoted as telling racy jokes in the back seat of a car. He rarely spends much time in an interview, his answers always guarded. If he's not the defending champion, he often will not go to the media center, making reporters come outside to see him.

The only criticism Woods has faced was not taking a stronger stand on social issues, such as the all-male membership at Augusta National, not playing more tournaments, or for cursing and throwing a club during competition.

But in all those cases, it was short-lived.

Questions about his car crash, however, will linger as long as Woods keeps it a mystery. He has dealt with a sporting media most of his life. Now he steps into the realm of celebrity media, which is far more relentless.

Speculation on what really happened that night outside - or inside - his home grows each day. Woods went 13 hours before confirming he was in a "minor accident," then two more days before giving his side of the story Sunday.

He said it was his fault, an embarrassing accident, that he's not perfect, and that any innuendoes were false and malicious. That hardly will be enough to keep the media satisfied.

Woods turned down a request by state troopers to talk three days in a row. Because it is only a traffic accident, he is not required by law to give a statement.

"Although Tiger realizes that there is a great deal of public curiosity, it has been conveyed to FHP that he simply has nothing more to add and wishes to protect the privacy of his family," Mark Steinberg, his agent at IMG, said in an e-mail.

But that small camp of TV trucks parked outside the gates at Isleworth might not be leaving any time soon. Woods still is scheduled to compete in his Chevron World Challenge this week in Thousand Oaks, Calif. As of Sunday night, no one had withdrawn.

Would it not be wise to face the media, no matter how embarrassing, and move on? It seemed to have worked for David Letterman, who even made a few jokes at his expense.

That's simply not his style. Woods can be self-deprecating, but only in the best of times. If he chooses not to show this week in California, he could easily go into hiding for the next two months. Hardly anyone saw him in public for four months after his knee surgery last year.

That won't make the story go away. For all the records he is chasing inside the ropes, this might prove to be his greatest challenge.

AP
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by cbslhg November 30, 2009 7:39 PM EST
In Florida, any domestic violence lands someone in Jail. I hope this is not the case and it was not a coverup.

In any case, leave him alone. If she hit him with a club, she'll do it again.
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by lloydbest1 November 30, 2009 12:03 PM EST
by Lizzz33333 November 30, 2009 11:05 AM EST
"Privacy. Leave Tiger alone. Just another example of police abusing power."
by enrapturelj November 30, 2009 10:53 AM EST
"hologram5--in fact he didn't "choose" that life. He happened to be bestowed with a God given talent and a father who nurtured this talent since age three. But I suppose you think you can just wake up one day and "choose" to be a world class athlete? Good luck with that."
by j_flood November 30, 2009 8:50 AM EST
"Details of the accident are public - that does not extend into his home life - if his marriage is on the rocks, so be it, it's not my business or the media to pry into his home life....."

The above are all related to the right of privacy and the choice one makes of one's career.

No one put a gun to that man's head and forced him to be a great golfer and one of the richest and most well-known men in America. He made that choice all by himself and happened to have sufficient native ability to realize his goal. The major take away from that observation then, is this:
Tiger Woods intentionally set himself up for the kind of life he now has and worked diligently, even obsessively to obtain it.

That said, he made the choice to be a wealthy and famous personality. Fair or not, such a life comes with a price. If you choose to pursue opportunities to become rich and famous and succeed, then you also need to accept the responsibility to be an exemplary role model that such fame necessitates. You need to accept the position that you no longer have the same rights of privacy that those less well endowed than you take for granted. You need to understand that as a public figure, you become public property and your life is no longer your own.....You want to enjoy the perks of a fabulous fortune and the adoration of millions of fans? Then you better be able to accept - with good grace - the headaches that come with it.

Mr. Woods has an awesome talent and has worked very hard to develop it. He has done much to be admired, and I do. But I also believe that such as he have obligations to the community that go well beyond that the rest of us must fulfill.
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by dagrandma November 30, 2009 11:13 AM EST
All I know is that if I hit a fire hydrant and a tree, my local police would be knocking on my door.
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by Lizzz33333 November 30, 2009 11:12 AM EST
To all those "Why did he decline the interview?" Why does he have to give an interview??? Why because you want to know? Because the cops have a power trip and don't know how to leave people alone? The right to privacy is in the constitution for a reason. From people like you. Some of you need to go read up on Thomas Jefferson in my opinion. Tiger busted up his car, he didn't hurt anyone but himself. We have no right to demand he tell the story of what happened. This is why I will protect privacy and don't like government intrusion where it does not belong. Leave the man alone.
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by endurorob_5 November 30, 2009 11:14 AM EST
Pay attention. The suspicion is that Woods did not hurt himself but rather his wife did the damage. That is called domestic violence and requires an investigation.
by endurorob_5 November 30, 2009 11:11 AM EST
nahney November 30, 2009 10:38 AM EST
I had a wreck with just my car and no police came to my house to investigate or ask questions. Why should Tiger be any different. We all want to say celebrities should not get away with things that average people don't get away with, but at the same time they shouldn't be required to do anymore than the average person in an average situation. So what, even if he did have an argument with his wife, or even if she did take a golf club to his car, that is not physical abuse. If she didn't touch him and he didn't touch her, then they didn't break the law and didn't have to say any more to the police. I hate the way all the news anchors keep saying "everyone wants to know" - "there must be more to the story so they need to investigate". NO, They need to drop it and LEAVE TIGER ALONE! If the police found something-then report it. If they didn't, then it's not right to keep pushing for a story.



There is a suspicion of domestic violence and the police are obligated to check into it whether the victim wants them to or not.
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by endurorob_5 November 30, 2009 11:10 AM EST
enrapturelj November 30, 2009 10:53 AM EST
hologram5--in fact he didn't "choose" that life. He happened to be bestowed with a God given talent and a father who nurtured this talent since age three. But I suppose you think you can just wake up one day and "choose" to be a world class athlete? Good luck with that.



You obviously cannot just choose top be but you can sure choose not to be.
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by Lizzz33333 November 30, 2009 11:06 AM EST
Privacy. Leave Tiger alone. Just another example of police abusing power.
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by Lizzz33333 November 30, 2009 11:05 AM EST
Privacy. Leave Tiger alone. Just another example of police abusing power.
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by nahney November 30, 2009 10:53 AM EST
I had an accident with just my car and no police came to my house to investigate. I understand the reporting of the accident, but after they tested his blood, found no drugs or alcohol in his system,he gave the required insurance information, then there is no reason to pursue it. Even if he did have a tiff with his wife, if there is no evidence of physical abuse, then it's over. He will pay for whatever damage was done. We can all wonder what else happened, but it is not required by law to satisfy the public's curiousity. We hate it when celebrities seem to get away with more than the average person would, but then they shouldn't have to do more than the average person would in an average situation. If the news media would drop it, it would be over. It makes me angry to see news anchors keep pushing for more investigations and saying- everyone just wants to know what else happened.LEAVE TIGER ALONE.
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by Willyum40 November 30, 2009 10:40 AM EST
Boy, I cannot believe some of these comments. It seems that we pride ourselves on justice and fairness and often cite that one is innocent until proven guilty. Yet, based on various comments we tend to draw conclusions and then throw rocks. In this country we love to build heros but get a bigger thrill out of trying to destroy them w/o any credible evidence or facts. Leave Tiger alone and take a look at the man/woman in the mirror!
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