July 31, 2010 10:53 PM

48 Hours: Diary of a Showgirl

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(CBS)  It was the start of a murder mystery that had it all: sex, lies, greed, a savage crime and a beautiful showgirl.

That showgirl, Marjorie Orbin, is now in Phoenix, Arizona's Estrella Jail, charged with the brutal murder of her husband, Jay Orbin.

"On Oct. 23, 2004, a man - a transient living in the desert - came across a container wrapped in heavy black plastic. He decides to open the container. He sees the torso of a body," Det. Dave Barnes of the Phoenix Police Department explained. "All of the insides, all of the internal organs, intestines were missing… I thought, 'Who could do this to human being? Cut off his arms, his legs, his head?'"

Prison stripes are a far cry from the diamonds and furs Marjorie was accustomed to.

In a "48 Hours" exclusive - six months of Marjorie's video diaries from jail and unprecedented access to a woman facing the possibility of death row.

Marjorie's Video Diary: At 18, I was told that I could not have children. So I made a conscious decision at that point in my life I would only be responsible for myself. I danced, I traveled. I worked hard, played hard, went through a few marriages.

Marjorie was married seven times by the age of 35.

"I went into every relationship that I had looking for the Prince Charming," she said.

In between Prince Charmings, Marjorie's fairytale sometimes took an x-rated detour: she became a stripper.

"I never felt disrespected and I didn't do anything that I wouldn't be afraid of telling my mother," she told "48 Hours Mystery" correspondent Peter Van Sant.

It was at one of these strip joints that Marjorie got to know one of the regulars, a gregarious, big-hearted 26-year-old named Jay Orbin.

He did have a real good personality. And he was funny. …He was definitely interested in me and was pursuing me.

Marjorie finally agreed to go out with Jay.

"We went out dancing, we had a number drinks. And were really having a fun time and it was very romantic and he was very, very amorous," she said.

Jay fell head over heels. But Marjorie, who was only 24, wanted a more glamorous life.

He was a good guy. And I didn't want to hurt him. But I needed to get out of there. So, I left.

Marjorie went back home to Florida and reconnected with a man who became her ticket to a life in the fast lane.

"I've known him since I was 17 and when I went back to Florida, I began to work for him," she said of Michael J. Peter, a multi-millionaire who created upscale strip clubs around the world.

"We traveled all over the world. We did a lot of things together," explained Marjorie.

Peter made Marjorie his star dancer and choreographer in his clubs and gave her a featured role in his movie, "No More Dirty Deals."

"We had lived together for a number of years and were engaged. The industry is very difficult," Marjorie told Van Sant. "When someone that you love has girls climbing all over them all the time and offering him everything, it's difficult to take."

Peter's wandering eye caused a breakup and Marjorie took her talents back to Las Vegas. In 1993, a traveling salesman from Phoenix called. It was Jay Orbin, a man she hadn't seen in 10 years.

"He said that he was going through Vegas and saw a billboard across the strip with my picture on it. Said, ya know, 'I'm here in town would you like to meet for a drink?' And after we talked for a while, I agreed to come have a drink with him. We spent the entire night talking and having drinks here and snacks there. And talked all night until the sun came up."

Jay returned to Phoenix the next day, but their relationship continued.

"People like to paint us as polar opposites, but really, we were not. We had the exact same ideals on everything important," Marjorie told Van Sant.

The most important, she said, was having children.

The only thing that I ever wanted that I never was able to have was a child, and he wanted a wife and a child more than anything in the world. And he told me, he said, "I want you to come here. I'll do anything that you want.

Jay, by then, the owner of a successful Native American arts business, offered to pay for fertility treatments if Marjorie would marry him and move to Phoenix. But Jay's mother, Joanne Orbin, wasn't certain that this was the girl for her son.

"I couldn't believe that my son was bringing her into the house and saying he was engaged to her," she told Van Sant.

When asked if she was impressed by Marjorie, Joanne said, "Not really."

"Did she look beautiful to you?" Van Sant asked.

"She was beautiful, yes," Joanne replied, adding, "not as beautiful as she thought she was."

She was so jealous, so jealous of the way he adored and - and catered and - and accommodated me in any way. She was very jealous.

If Jay noticed any tension, he didn't seem to care. The seemingly mismatched couple eloped.

We got married at the Little White Wedding Chapel on Las Vegas Boulevard. And it was beautiful.

"He calls me up and he says, 'I met the love of my life…and we got married," recalled Jay's big brother, Jake.

Jake Orbin, who was then living in San Diego, came to visit a few months later.

"They both love each other," he said. "She was the perfect housewife… made the meals and cleaned the house… took care of everything that needed to be done around the house."

But the fertility treatments were taking a toll, often making Marjorie ill.

But I was willing to take the bad stuff in hopes of having more chance of having a child.

And finally it happened. Marjorie gave birth to what they called their miracle baby: a boy named Noah.

"It was the most important - most important day of my life," Marjorie cried, when asked how she felt the first time she held her son.

"It meant everything to you?" asked Van Sant.

"Yeah. Yeah," she replied. "Both of us. It meant everything to both of us."

They seemed the perfect family. But then everything changed.

I spent 10 years here in Phoenix being a mom, a wife, a business partner… That all ended in September of 2004. An unforeseen, tragic incident that I came upon after the fact - caused the death of Jay Orbin.

Copyright 2010 CBS. All rights reserved.
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by Sandra1022 January 2, 2011 3:02 PM EST
Today, this episode aired again and watching this woman behaving as if she cared about anyone in the world besides herself, is worthy of a "B" movie. I don't know that she even realizes or cares how fake and dishonest she sounds. She turns on the water works and turns off the waterworks within seconds. Her expressions change from crying and feeling bad for herself to contempt.
The fact that she went shopping in the manner that she did when her husband was missing is not the after effects of shock, but of someone that is cold, calloused and has lost all sense of truth and reality. One of the worst liars that deserves to rot in prison.
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by LuluPowers November 1, 2010 7:19 PM EDT
I just watched this episode on 48 Hours on ID (ran on 10/31/10). I don't believe a word out of Marjorie's mouth. She's a trick. She's been using men her whole life and getting away with it. She got busted this time and her bf, Weisburg, was not willing to take the fall for her. Boo Hoo, skank! Rot in jail. It's obvious she was in this up to her neck. Her video diary was a joke. The best part is: the joke is now on her!
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by nicklanoue November 28, 2009 11:18 PM EST
You guys need to get your info straight. For one thing Weisberg was out of town during the murder. 48 Hours did NOT tell alot of info that they were given. The police pulled phone records and credit card records He was not there. They have No evidence that he was there. She acid wash and painted the floor by her self neighbors saw her do it herself. They made it sound like she has not seen her son or they keeping him from her. Noah does not want to see her they ask him if he wanted to see her and he said NO. And yeah 280 pound guy for her to lift well mabye you should get some info she bought a ramp. Also why would her cell mate go against her she got nothing out of it. I wish only you guys new the info But NO 48 hours did not tell half of the info they were given they also did stuff the family ask them not to. KAY IS SO MUCH PRETTY THEN MARJORIE. MARJORIE USED TO BE PRETTY SHE NOT ANYMORE THAT HAS. BEING PRETTY HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IT. Mabye you guys should get your info straight. Thanks
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by hercule1122 November 27, 2009 9:33 PM EST
Wow, so we are told she is beautiful. What is the point? Baby face Nelson was not too bad either. She and her jewish paramour deserve the death penalty since he was clearly involved although the police mucked that up. They are murderers, and anyone with a brain can read them.
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by raydernation November 24, 2009 3:59 PM EST
I agree Category23 theres no way she did the physical part of this murder. It happened just like she said it did. The husband comes home unexpectedly, drives into his garage, and this clown Weisberg confronts him, obviously the husband reacts, and he (Weisberg) smokes him. Ding-a-ling meantime says "we got to do something" they decide to cut him up, put him in the freezer, she goes to that store gets a rubber maid container they put the husband in and Larry takes himn into the desert where he could be found so ding-a-ling could get the insurance money. Her mouth and actions did her in ultimately. Wouldn't cooperate, spending $40k in a matter of weeks. The big mystery is how this guy Weisberg got off, the Phoenix Police Dept should be embarrassed at this case. Both of them should be in prison not just ding-a-ling. Reminds me of another case on Dateline NBC though that featured the Phoenix Police that they botched big time, and let the real killer get away like Weisberg. Trust me he's the trigger man. Ding-a-ling just went on along. The guy had a temper he showed it by confronting SWAT, who in their right mind would do that, so the husband didn't stand a chance, unless he was strapped which he wasn't. Very sad case, I feel for the husband and his relatives, his mother knew from day 1 that ding-a-ling was a strait up ho. The husband got p**y whipped, to men out there please pay attention when you meet women like ding-a-ling out in this World, always keep your eyes and ears wide open. They're gonna give you clues as to how they are from Day 1, or better yet like they use to and still say in my old neighborhood, "beware of women with a hookers body"
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by catagory23 November 24, 2009 8:19 PM EST
raydernation - I believe that just about sums it all up.
by nicklanoue November 28, 2009 11:18 PM EST
You guys need to get your info straight. For one thing Weisberg was out of town during the murder. 48 Hours did NOT tell alot of info that they were given. The police pulled phone records and credit card records He was not there. They have No evidence that he was there. She acid wash and painted the floor by her self neighbors saw her do it herself. They made it sound like she has not seen her son or they keeping him from her. Noah does not want to see her they ask him if he wanted to see her and he said NO. And yeah 280 pound guy for her to lift well mabye you should get some info she bought a ramp. Also why would her cell mate go against her she got nothing out of it. I wish only you guys new the info But NO 48 hours did not tell half of the info they were given they also did stuff the family ask them not to. KAY IS SO MUCH PRETTY THEN MARJORIE. MARJORIE USED TO BE PRETTY SHE NOT ANYMORE THAT HAS. BEING PRETTY HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IT. Mabye you guys should get your info straight. Thanks
by catagory23 November 24, 2009 12:03 AM EST
There is absolutely no way that the blonde lady portrayed in this story could have operated a portable jig saw to dismember a body, much less figure out how to change the blades. I don't see her lifting the container filled with a human torso of a big man in it either. It would be way too heavy for her.

This crime has Weisberg all over it as the happy trigger man and mastermind of the cleanup of the crime scene. However, I don't understand how Marjorie's lawyer missed that. I don't understand how 48 hours missed it either.
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by phxnative November 24, 2009 10:02 AM EST
Seriously, do u think she is just a "dumb blonde"?? Marjorie is a smart, manipulative, opportunistic sleeze who brags about how she has been all over the world, blah blah blah. She fails to mention all Jay provided her. As far as being able to lift the container, remember, he was DISEMBOWELLED!!! That sick sadistic freak!
by T-Fed November 23, 2009 1:09 PM EST
She can wear her hair anyway she wants cause she is pretty, special, and has been framed by Da Man. Great comment earlier about trusting anything that comes out of the mouthes of strippers and hookers... casue we all know what went in. Rot in prison you skank.
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by thesevenveils November 22, 2009 4:12 PM EST
hOW come the prison she is held in does not have regulations for hair. Her hair should be cropped slightly above the shoulders.
And why is she allowed to wear makeup? Who is she trying to look pretty for?
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by duffyn November 22, 2009 1:38 PM EST
Hey john merrit you cannot judge an entire category of people by race, religion, or job! EZ to paint with a broad brush but shows an iq of around 80.
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by John_Merritt November 22, 2009 8:36 AM EST
Didn't read the article, don't care to. The general rule of thumb for me is that strippers and prostitutes cannot be trusted. You will be fooled everytime. That is there illusion to the men of this world.
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by mike18881 November 22, 2009 9:33 PM EST
I totaly agree. I didn't read the article either. Why trust a strippers word about anything.
by rsmik November 22, 2009 10:01 PM EST
Sounds like a couple of people have some regrets ;p
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