August 27, 2009 3:27 PM

Kennedy and the "Little Guy"

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(CBS/ AP)  The world remembers Sen. Edward Kennedy for his passionate liberalism, legislative skill and stewardship of a political dynasty.

Kevin Larson recalls a McDonald's lunch.

A decade ago, Kennedy hosted Larson's 6- and 4-year-old sons to thank them for returning a lost diamond ring they had found at a playground. Larson remembers his boys bounding past a reception area filled with important people in suits to McDonald's meals Kennedy's staff had waiting for them in his office.

The graciousness Kennedy showed his family that day was repeated in the coming years in notes and Christmas cards.

"He never forgot the little guy," said Larson, who lives in the Boston suburb of Malden.

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On Wednesday, the little guy remembered Kennedy, a day after he died of brain cancer.

Outside Massachusetts, Kennedy was loved and hated for the national causes he championed, sometimes with thunderous intensity. But state residents also knew Kennedy for his careful tending to constituents, whether it was his calls to each family who lost someone on Sept. 11, help with State Department bureaucracy for a troubled immigrant, or a handwritten note.

"He got the job done," Boston Mayor, and Kennedy friend, Tom Menino told CBS' "The Early Show" Thursday. Menino listed causes such as expanding health care and raising the minimum wage as examples of Kennedy's support for everyday Massachusetts citizens.

"He knew how to deliver for us," Menino said.

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Kennedy took pride in working the hardest and longest on constituent services, so much so that his congressional colleagues could be criticized for paling in comparison.

"He really just truly wanted to reach out, and he just cared about us," said Army National Guard Sgt. Peter Damon, a helicopter mechanic Kennedy befriended after he lost both arms in an accident in Iraq. "I think that's his legacy."

Damon met Kennedy in 2003 while he was a patient at Walter Reed Medical Center in Washington D.C. The two spoke for an hour about everything from Damon's hometown of Brockton to the New England Patriots, but not his injury. Damon later learned Kennedy's son, Edward Jr., lost a leg to bone cancer as a child. "I think he knew not to dwell on it," Damon said.

Kennedy followed up with personal notes, surprise Patriots football tickets and years of consistent correspondence as he helped Damon navigate the veterans health care system. In 2007, Kennedy learned that Damon, an artist, had opened a gallery in his town of Middleborough and arranged with Sen. John Kerry to display some of his artwork in Senate offices.

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"He was just a true friend," Damon said. "We're from just two totally different worlds, but we were able to come together and talk as two long time friends."

Angela Sanfilippo of Gloucester first contacted Kennedy when she was 19 in the late 1960s. Her 2-year-old brother, Vincent, had Down syndrome and local doctors offered little hope to her parents, discouraging them with talk of a short, unfulfilling life.

Sanfilippo knew Kennedy's sister was mentally disabled, so she wrote the senator asking for help getting a more complete diagnosis. Kennedy arranged for Vincent to be examined at a Boston hospital, where doctors brought relief and hope to Sanfilippo's parents by discovering his condition was not as severe as they had been told. Vincent is 43 now, speaks two languages, and has a steady job.

Sanfilippo later worked with Kennedy as head of the Gloucester Fishermen's Wives Association, a fishing industry group. The senator called with condolences every time a fisherman was lost at sea, sent numerous personal notes just to keep in touch, and even shared a cheesesteak with Sanfilippo when they ran into each other at a Washington airport.

"Our relationship never ended," Sanfilippo said.

Lauren Stanford also had a deep relationship with Kennedy, even though she's just 17. They connected after Stanford, who has Type 1 diabetes, wrote all her congressmen asking for help searching for a cure. Kennedy responded. The Plymouth resident was 11 when she met the senator at his Washington office. He put the nervous girl at ease by first sending out his playful Portuguese water dogs.

They exchanged several letters, and Kennedy read one of them, about stem cell research, on the Senate floor. Then, in January 2007, he invited Stanford to Washington to speak about the issue in front of the Senate herself.

One of their last contacts came last year, when Kennedy called Stanford's cell phone while she was at field hockey practice, so she couldn't pick up. It turned out to be a lucky break, because Kennedy left a voice mail that she's saved. It starts, "Hi, it's Ted!"

"I think that he represents what a politician should be," Stanford said. "They shouldn't be scary and intimidating, they should be easy to connect to.

"It's so sad that he's gone," she added, "but he did a lot of good for the people before he left."

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by jackp32 August 28, 2009 9:49 AM EDT
Chappaquiddick Teddy helped the little guy.............by putting the screws to him. Let's rename the bridge that he went over with Mary Jo to the Ted Kennedy Memorial Bridge. A fitting memorial to his legacy.
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by caliguy55 August 27, 2009 10:35 PM EDT
I've said it before, and I'll say it again, conservatism is the antithesis of life itself. Conservatism's philosophical basis is maintenance of the status quo. However, the very basis of life itself is change as dictated by everything from evolution and "natural selection" to the pragmatic considerations of survival itself. He who fails to adapt to the ever changing conditions of the environment and the more esoteric changes of the society in which he lives is doomed to failure. That is why conservatism never has been, and never will be, the dominant motivator of human behavior. On the other hand, the progressive philosophy which embraces change as good and necessary will always win out over conservatism in every aspect of human existence. Conservatives are dominated by ignorance and fear because the very composition of their being is self-defeating and doomed to extinction. But, progressives are always moving forward to the betterment of society because enlightenment and knowledge light their way.
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by caliguy55 August 27, 2009 10:33 PM EDT
I've said it before, and I'll say it again, conservatism is the antithesis of life itself. Conservatism's philosophical basis is maintenance of the status quo. However, the very basis of life itself is change as dictated by everything from evolution and "natural selection" to the pragmatic considerations of survival itself. He who fails to adapt to the ever changing conditions of the environment and the more esoteric changes of the society in which he lives is doomed to failure. That is why conservatism never has been, and never will be, the dominant motivator of human behavior. On the other hand, the progressive philosophy which embraces change as good and necessary will always win out over conservatism in every aspect of human existence. Conservatives are dominated by ignorance and fear because the very composition of their being is self-defeating and doomed to extinction. But, progressives are always moving forward to the betterment of society because enlightenment and knowledge light their way.
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by ivelost August 27, 2009 2:03 PM EDT
The lyin of the Senate. I agree we should name a bridge after him in honor.
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by tomar01 August 27, 2009 2:03 PM EDT
Rest in Peace Ted Kennedy.
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by ivelost August 27, 2009 1:57 PM EDT
The great elder statesman/manslaughterer. Revisionist history at its best. He was no John Kennedy! We will again be reminded of Mary Jo. I wish again to pay my respects to Mary Jo. This country is turning into a sham, and (all) the News networks are a joke.
May he rest in peace.
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by reveal5 August 27, 2009 12:53 PM EDT
The fringe right just does not understand compassion. They just don't understand the concept. They just don't get it. Also, they just do not care. The right wingers just don't care that they just don't get it. As a matter of fact, they don't even know what "it" is. Compassion does not exist on the fringes of American society. The fringe right wing in America prefers to let Americans who are poorer and uninsured and unemployed just suffer and die. They want these Americans to die. That's the botton line. They want to continue to let uninsured Americans suffer and die. Period. Teddy Kennedy had another idea. Ted Kennedy chose life. Ted Kennedy chose to fight for medical care for all Americans as a right and not a priviledge. Ted Kennedy was not a right winger. Rest in peace Ted Kennedy. The history of America will remember the day of your passing as long as American history is written. Rest in peace Ted Kennedy. Rest in peace.
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by reveal5 August 27, 2009 12:38 PM EDT
Let Teddy Kennedy's name and legacy and vision and compassion for the down and out now be added to healthcare reform. Let Teddy Kennedy's model of steely spined adherence to his own values stiffen the spines of Democratic Congressional members. Let Teddy Kennedy's life long fight to bring medical care to poorer, uninsured, and uninsured Americans now become the true vision of Congressional democrats. Let Teddy Kennedy's vision of medical care for all Americans as a right and not a priviledge be brought to fruition. Let not Americans suffer and die for the greed of American corporations any longer. Let poorer and uninsured Americans get medical care they need to live. Let Teddy Kennedy's final victory be a victory for the poorer and uninsured to receive medical care in this richest country ever in the history of mankind. Let Teddy Kennedy be an iconic symbol for medical care reform for the good of poorer Americans and for the good of the largest economic powerhouse in history. Let Teddy Kennedy's name be added to healthcare reform legislation. Let an old Irishman out there somewhere smile and understand his legacy of humor, and wisdom, and song, and working across the aisle, and never holding a grudge, and steely spined adherence to compassion ...Let an old Irishman understand his spirit finally accomplished his most cherished goal. Medical care for all Americans as a matter of right and not of priviledge.
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by reveal5 August 27, 2009 12:57 PM EDT
Yo jxknowles, it would really help if you would identify to whom your comments are addressed, what with the double posting on this site.
by justsane-2009 August 27, 2009 12:30 PM EDT
such hate. does it make you feel better? if so, how sad for you.
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by woeisme1 August 27, 2009 12:04 PM EDT
by User_00000000002945496845 August 27, 2009 7:32 AM EDT
All parties concerned need to come together and pass comprehensive healthcare reform as a memorial to the late Senator Ted Kennedy -- for what a honorable statesman and great American he was.
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Amen!
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by WiseAsOwl August 27, 2009 1:45 PM EDT
Are you purposely trying to make folks sick???
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