August 7, 2009 5:50 PM

Mark Sanford's Family Moves Out

(CBS/AP)  The wife of South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford moved out of the official governor's residence with their four sons Friday, a little more than a month after he admitted to a yearlong affair with an Argentine woman he called his "soul mate."

First lady Jenny Sanford and several other women moved boxes and clothing from the governor's mansion in Columbia. In a statement, Jenny Sanford said she was heading to the family home on Sullivans Island, some 120 miles east, for the upcoming school year. (Watch video of the family moving out.)

"From there, we will work to continue the process of healing our family," she said. "While we will be leaving Columbia, we will return often, and I will remain engaged in activities in my role as First Lady, acknowledging that my responsibilities to my family come first."

Mark Sanford issued a statement saying his wife's statement "speaks for the family, on this decision that we felt best, both for our process of reconciliation, and for the boys in the upcoming school year."

"I stand by this family decision and accordingly ask the media to honor the zone of privacy that Jenny has asked for on behalf of the healing process and our four boys going forward," he said.

Jenny Sanford is a former Wall Street vice president who helped launch her husband's political career only to endure his tearful public confession in June. She had separated from her husband and sought refuge with her sons at the couple's coastal home two weeks before news of the affair broke.

The boys had attended Heathwood Hall, a private school in Columbia. A family friend who spoke with The Associated Press on the condition her name not be used said Jenny Sanford has discussed enrolling her sons in Porter Gaud, a similar private school in Charleston. The friend asked to not be named out of respect for the Sanfords.

The departure came two days after the Sanfords returned from a two-week family vacation in Europe.

Jenny Sanford has called her husband's behavior "inexcusable" but said she was willing to give him another chance, although she said reconciliation would not be easy.

Sanford, 49, disappeared for nearly a week in late June to see his Argentine lover, Maria Belen Chapur, leaving his staff, his wife and the rest of the state in the dark about his whereabouts. Initially, his office told reporters Sanford was hiking on the Appalachian Trail.

Jenny Sanford told the AP said she learned about the affair in January when she came across a copy of a letter her husband wrote his mistress. In the ensuing months, her husband asked several times to visit the other woman, requests she denied, the first lady said.

"It's one thing to forgive adultery; it's another thing to condone it," she told AP during an exclusive interview soon after the governor revealed the affair.

Days later, after the governor told AP he was relying on religious faith to help salvage his marriage even though the love of his life was in Argentina, Jenny Sanford said it was up to the people of South Carolina whether they want to give their governor a second chance.

"His far more egregious offenses were committed against God, the institutions of marriage and family, our boys and me," she said at the time.

The Sanfords met in New York in the 1980s when Sanford also was working in finance, at Goldman Sachs. The couple married in 1989 and relocated to South Carolina, where Sanford worked in real estate before serving three terms in Congress.

Until revelations of the affair with the woman Sanford met on a trip to Uruguay in 2001, the governor had been considered a possible 2012 Republican presidential candidate.

© 2009 CBS Interactive Inc. All Rights Reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten, or redistributed. The Associated Press contributed to this report.
Add a Comment See all 116 Comments
by johndevinejr August 10, 2009 12:14 PM EDT
by the_majesty August 7, 2009 1:13 PM EDT
Fact --- An affair is involved in 80% of all marriages.
So why is the media making a big deal out of this.
It's a none issue.

The reason the media makes such a big deal out of Sanford is that he was one of those arrogant, pious, hypocrites calling for Clinton's resignation citing the "sactity of marriage". It is not his behavior it is his hypocrisy that is being displayed.
And he deserves it too.
Reply to this comment
by zonkzilla August 10, 2009 7:48 AM EDT
I see Republicans have no moral values at all since they are making excuses for anything the Republican governor does and anything he does is great because he is a member of the Republican party.
Well maybe it is just because to Republicans the party comes before everything, even laws or God.
Hey I think I remember another political party with the same thinking back in the 1930's.
Reply to this comment
by hamiltongrad August 10, 2009 2:23 AM EDT
Obvious, that the man was not having his needs met at home.
Reply to this comment
by hmmIwonder August 9, 2009 5:29 PM EDT
"He who lies for you will lie against you" = I'll lie "anytime and every time" when it's about "me", "me want both ways" and "me want me gain both ways".
Reply to this comment
by rondivoo August 9, 2009 3:14 PM EDT
It would be a good thing if some of the "specie(sic)" leaving comments here would be extinct. I have never in my life seen such ignorance, inability to write a proper sentence, total lack of grammatical, punctuation and correct spelling knowledge, and obvious inferior education. It is scary! You who are displaying your ignorance should at least be aware of it and not post on here for all the world to see.
Reply to this comment
by areuforreal August 10, 2009 12:23 PM EDT
I totally agree with you. Some of these posters are stuck on stupid, to say the least.
by carolcape August 9, 2009 1:51 PM EDT
Yes, there are affairs, but he was in a public office and a high profile position. And this woman should just walk out of that marriage. Imagine, going back picking up the pieces when he is on TV saying, the woman he had the affair was his "soul mate". Well, if he was my husband he could have his so called soul mate and be damned. This marriage will never be the same,he will be thinking of the mistress everytime he is with her. I say kick him to the curb, take her alimony or whatever she gets and don't look back.
Reply to this comment
by bradkt1 August 8, 2009 7:34 PM EDT
Hey Mark...

...the coast is clear now...
Reply to this comment
by stryker54 August 8, 2009 5:39 PM EDT
Just wondering? How many Dems have cheated on their wives? This isn't a Repub. or Dem. promblem. It is nationwide acceptance it is ok to cheat untill caught. Men and Women both do it. Not just a man thing or a Repub or Dem. thing. Called HUMAN BEHAVIOR. It's because most people find it too easy and their vows and commitments to each other mean nothing except to a few that follow them. There are some folks out here with simple moral principles, all the others that cheat. They are JUNK.
Reply to this comment
by Sloughfoot August 8, 2009 12:56 PM EDT
Blue bloods, with all the money in the world, private schools, numerous homes and a "Soap Opera" lifestyle. Perhaps they deserve each other.
Reply to this comment
by 1corinthians739 August 8, 2009 5:14 AM EDT
The Two Shall Become One Flesh...

Marriage is for Life!

http://www.cadz.net/tony.html

http://www.marriagedivorce.com/mdreform2.htm
Reply to this comment
See all 116 Comments
.
Scroll Left
Scroll Right More »
CBS News on Facebook