Friends: Sanford Considered Quitting

Associates Tell AP Disgraced Gov. Intends To Stay In Office; Says Quitting Would Have Been "Easiest"

(AP)  South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford gave thought to quitting, retreating from public scrutiny to rebuild his life as the scandal of his extramarital affair with an Argentinean woman came out, he told The Associated Press Sunday.

Close spiritual and political associates urged him to instead fight to restore his constituents' - and his family's - trust and finish out the 18 months left in his last term.

"Resigning would be the easiest thing to do," he said he thought.

He's sticking it out and faces endless questions about the affair, whether he used public money to visit his lover and whether his 20-year marriage will continue. Add to it a barrage of criticism from South Carolina politicians who think the two-term Republican should step down.

"Part of walking humbly is you've got to listen to your critics out there," the 49-year-old Sanford said. "And all of us will have critics, and the higher you go, I suppose, the more critics you have."

Sanford spoke exclusively with The Associated Press outside his family's beach house on Sullivans Island. He, his wife, Jenny, and sons were in separate cars, headed to his family's farm - where his 83-year-old mother lives - in Beaufort, an hour south.

The governor admitted last week to a yearlong affair with the woman from Argentina who he says he's known for about eight years. Later Sunday, 41-year-old former television reporter Maria Belen Chapur acknowledged in a statement that she had been having a relationship with the governor.

Sanford looked like a man of leisure in faded khaki shorts, T-shirt and bare feet. But behind the casual attire, he appeared contrite and spoke of falling from grace and rebuilding his life.

"I am sorry," he said. "I apologize for letting everyone down."

The Sanfords say they will try to reconcile. One person they've sought help from is their spiritual counselor, Warren "Cubby" Culbertson, whom Mark Sanford thanked during the news conference in which he admitted his affair.

Reconciling with fellow lawmakers and constituents also lies ahead. Some lawmakers want his resignation because he secretly visited his mistress during a state-funded 2008 trip, and because he was out of touch with his staff during his recent weeklong visit to Argentina to see her. His staff had told the public he was hiking the Appalachian Trail before the real story of his mysterious absence came to light.

Sanford has agreed to reimburse the state for some of the more than $8,000 in taxpayer money spent on the Argentina leg of the economic development trip to South America last year. On Sunday, he repeatedly said he never used public money to see the woman.

Chapur, a divorced mother of two sons, said in a statement to news network C5n of Buenos Aires that said she will not talk about her private life, which has already been the focus of intense media scrutiny in the U.S. and Argentina.

Chapur, a graduate in political science from the Catholic University of Buenos Aires, said someone accessed her Hotmail account without permission late last year and leaked e-mail correspondence that described a relationship with Sanford to the South Carolina newspaper The State.

"I have decided to send this statement to clear up certain incorrect things that are being reported, and put an end to a matter that, as you imagine, is very painful to me, my two children, my entire family and close friends," she said in the statement addressed to anchor Eduardo Feinman, who read it on camera. Feinman was Chapur's editor when she worked briefly as a television reporter in 2001.

When it comes to his critics - most notably Republican state Sen. Jake Knotts - and their calls for him to step down, Sanford said he understands where they are coming from.

"I don't begrudge the Jakie Knottses of the world," Sanford said. "He's going to do what he's going to do. I gotta do my part."

The governor's efforts to stay in office appear, in the minds of some lawmakers, to hinge in part on his ability to salvage his marriage. While several critics wants a criminal probe and others want him to step down, reconciling with the first lady does have sway among legislators.

"That's almost become a proxy for how some are looking at this. They're looking at Jenny," said state Sen. Tom Davis, a Beaufort Republican and former Sanford chief of staff. "In large measure, it depends on how things work and how people see things are working out between the governor and first lady."

As far as his marriage, Sanford said he and his wife are working on it.

"If there wasn't healing going on, I wouldn't be here," he said, pointing to his beach house, where he had dinner with his family Saturday night and where he took a run at sunrise on the sand with one of his sons.

Sanford added that he has been overwhelmed by the support he's received.

"It's only in the hard times you get a sense of how blessed you really are," he said.

Regardless of what politicians in the Statehouse think, his Sullivans Island neighbors are supportive.

During Sunday's interview, several folks stopped to say hello as they strolled by on their morning walks. One man, driving a golf cart festooned with red-white-and-blue decorations, paused to invite Sanford and his family to a Fourth of July celebration.

"How are you?" the man asked Sanford.

"Considering the circumstances, all right," Sanford replied with a wan smile.

[stn_sage]

Yeah, right! I bet he considered quitting for all of about FIVE minutes!

He's a LAME-DUCK governor who doesn't get along with the lieutenant governor OR the state legislature, SO not only is quitting the easiest thing to do, it's EXACTLY what he SHOULD do!

It's not courageous nor noble to continue in the job when you got caught
CHEATING on your wife! While using state monies in the process, and being
A.W.O.L. from your job!

By all rights, he should be up on criminal charges; us run-of-the-mill
ordinary folk would be!!

[hungry1968-15]

by sean58z June 29, 2009 5:33 AM PDT
Mark Sanford is not an issue. Pennsylvania has a budget deadline tomorrow. Ed Rendell refuses to negotiate. He insists that the budget will wait until Christmas, unless Republicans agree to a personal tax increase. Thieves are corrupt, not international tourists.






That's NOTHING compared to NY.

Our government is STOPPED, while the democrats and republicans fight over who is in charge.

In 22 days, they've conducted ONE order of official business: one minute of silence honoring Michael Jackson on Friday.

[sean58z]

Mark Sanford is not an issue. Pennsylvania has a budget deadline tomorrow. Ed Rendell refuses to negotiate. He insists that the budget will wait until Christmas, unless Republicans agree to a personal tax increase. Thieves are corrupt, not international tourists.

[jjjc3]

You quit your job, you quit S.C. and the USA for Argentina, you quit on your marriage vows, and you quit on your kids. Now, why can't you be consistent and quit the nonsense. Resign.

[hungry1968-15]

"Resigning would be the easiest thing to do," he said he thought.







And THAT is why he should resign.

[zonkzilla]

Sanford is an arrogant dictator.
He never was going to quit, nobody can tell him what to do.
This resignation talk is all damage control.
He doesn't have to quit, no legislation or anything he wants will ever pass in the legislature so Sanford is as good as being in Argentina with his girlfriend even when he is sitting in his office figuring out ways to mess up the people of South Carolina.
Besides, Sanford's wealthy wife is going to dump him so he will be out on the street if he resigns and can't live in the governor's mansion.

[formrusmcsgt]

Another moron who lets his pork do the thinking........

[stn_sage]

Well, heck! What should we expect? They don't spend their time doing the publics' business like they're supposed to! Running around cheating on the spouses---sometimes at the publics' expense---gives them something to do!

[formrusmcsgt]

Associates Tell AP Disgraced Gov. Intends To Stay In Office; Says Quitting Would Have Been "Easiest"
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What a crock.

Staying on the job is no act of courage or sacrifice here. This fool is attempting to avoid the consequences of his actions.

Nothing more, nothing less.

[indythoughts]

I am amazed he is still in office. Adultery is private. Leaving the state for 5 days with no one having a way to contact you in case of an emergency is unacceptable and warrants dismissal. Keep in mind, it was only due to the fact that he got wind of the firestorm that was brewing that he didn't stay away the full ten days.

[truthislife1]

We don't have all the information, only what the media tells us. Every single married man on the planet is guilty in their minds of the same thing. I hope he re-builds his life and can move on with God's forgiveness and hope. Sure, damage was done that cannot be repaired. I hope he finds a way to re-build his life and heart.

[one4gipper]

Maybe, if a politician is caught in adultery he stays in office and the voters decide the next time around whether they want to retain him. However, Sanford is not just an adulterer. He is also a thief. He used taxpayer money to take a trip to Argentina to see his mistress. This is grand larceny. It is a crime of turpitude. He should be impeached and imprisoned.

[darkferious]

The rule is that Democrats have to resign when affairs are revealed -and endure loud outrage from Republicans for years to come. Republicans, on the other hand, are allowed to apologize and return to public life, like Bob Dole, Newt Gingrich, Rush Limbaugh and other standard bearers of impeccable morality.

[ubrew12]

The 49-year-old Sanford said. "And all of us will have critics, and the higher you go, I suppose, the more critics you have."

Thats also true the lower you go...

[FHMullane]

He is a hypocrite. He should resign.

[ladypirate2]

He should quit! In fact he should be fired or impeached! If any of us pulled his stunt and didn't show up for work for days and left no word with anyone about where we'd be or when we'd be back or how they could contact us, we should expect to be fired and we should be! In fact we wouldn't have a job when we came back!

[Solarrays247]

Not if you were a member of the good 'ol boys club!

[pjk12354]

What a bunch of crap.............Mark Sanford is a liar, a cheat, and a lousy showman..............The only reason he is apologizing is because he got caught.

He is considering staying in office because the money he is getting from kickbacks is way too good. He will stay in office until he is either impeached or his term runs out.

[Solarrays247]

My thoughts exactly! There's too much money at stake! It is evident that he has no personal ethics or morals!

[apple2pie]

How can he NOT resign. He called on Pres. Clinton to resign because of his affair, for Sanford to do anything else is to put a capital "H" for hypocrite on top of his desk.

[rushlimpdrug]

He should resign. Any FATHER that leaves his children behind on FATHER"S DAY
in order to go F_CK the other woman cannot make good judgements.
When the "father" lies to EVERYONE about it and 'fesses up ONLY
after he is discovered to be the liar he is shows he is a total creep.
I would not want a father, or governor like that.

[hungry1968-15]

He should quit just for being the world's biggest hypocrite.

The affair is just icing on the cake.

[John_Merritt]

The only question I have, "Which one of you is responsible for talking him out of it?"