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CBS/ May 11, 2010, 6:20 PM

Teens Bring Economic Stress To School

The students at Montclair High School in Southern California are learning the three Rs, but many of them are living the lessons of a fourth R: Recession.

"Hi, my name is Brenda and what the recession means to me is stop wanting what I want and start wanting what I need," said one student in school project where students videotaped themselves.

"Hi, my name is Dulce and what the recession means to me is wearing $10 shoes," another said.

More than 80 percent of the nearly 34 million teenagers nationwide say they are concerned about the economy, reports CBS News correspondent Seth Doane.

"Hi, I'm Kristen Beltran," said Kristen, shooting herself at home. "And what the recession means to me is not being able to afford the things that I really need."

Kristen's dad, a welder, has a quarter of the work he had this time last summer. The mortgage is three months behind. Fifteen-year-old Kristen wishes her parents would let her get a job.

"Are we going to have enough money for groceries? Are my parents going to be able to pay the bills?" Kristen asked.

"These are things you worry about now?" Doane asked.

"Sometimes, yeah," she said.

"And you didn't before?" Doane asked.

"No," Kristen said. "You know - that's adult stuff."

"You can see it in their eyes," said Nathan Robinson, a math teacher. "They're thinking about something else. And it has nothing to do with Algebra 2."

Their teachers say it has everything to do with what's happening at home.

"You want me to learn about this when I can't even go out and buy, you know, something to eat?" asked Melissa Smith-Wilson, an English teacher, about her students' problems.

"It sounds like there are all of these new problems cropping up among the student population," Doane said. "How does it manifest itself?"

"In tears," said Christina Martinez, an academic counselor. "Really, I mean, I don't know what else to say other than that. I have kids crying in my office. I have more parents meeting with me. Sometimes without their kids."

"They don't want to tell the kids how bad things are?" Doane asked.

"I don't think they want to cause their child more discomfort by having that conversation with them present," Martinez said. "So they'll come and they'll tell me, 'I don't know if you know, but we're moving out of this apartment right now. We were evicted.'"

"Hi my name is Faith Herrera, and what the recession means to me is …" said Faith while panning the camera around her house. "Is losing my dream home."

Parents often try to shield their kids, so when things fall apart, like in a foreclosure, it comes as a shock. It sure did to Faith.

"It seemed that our family was going through a great life, and then my dad lost his job," Faith said.

Some psychologists worry that for teens, who are still developing their very identity, the financial and social strains of the recession could lead to a lifelong sense of insecurity.

"It makes me disappointed in myself that I cannot help anybody," Faith said.

"Why disappointed in yourself?" Doane asked.

"Because, it seems like I keep trying and trying, and nothing seems adequate enough," Faith said.

Meaning schools have to provide a lot more than an education.

"We're a bank. We're counseling services. We're a grocery store," Hernandez said. "Backpacks, alarm clocks, school supplies, stacks of paper. We give those things out. And it's pretty regular. And definitely an increase from last year."

"Hey. I'm Felicia and what the recession means to me is my prom dress," another student said on tape.

Because a teacher pitched in with money so Felicia could by that dress. While she has a job and loving sisters, she does not have much else. She sleeps on the floor of her home.

Felicia draws strength from her sisters.

"Hey, I'm Austin and what the recession means to me is waiting for the next paycheck to get new guitar strings," said Austin Seale, who at Los Osos, a nearby school, gets his strength from his parents.

"This can tear families apart or it can bring families together and lucky for me - it's brought my family closer together," Austin said.

Austin said his mom lost her job in the mortgage industry and his dad's hours were cut, but his parents were up front about their financial troubles.

"My parents keep it more open than I think some families do," Austin said.

Experts say that's a good idea - because kids know what's going on anyway.

"And they are always wanting to talk about it in class," Smith-Wilson said. "They want a dialog a lot more about these things. Whereas before, I couldn't get them to talk about things that are going on with their families."

They talk about their dreams too, which for many, includes college.

A generation determined to rise above this recession.

Find Out More

Where you can offer help if you're able, or receive help if you need it:
  • Children's Health Fund
  • National Association of School Psychologists
  • Rainbow Babies & Children's Hospital
  • Kidcare International
  • Children's Defense Fund
  • Montclair High School, HS Staff Scholarship, C/O Elizabeth Gomez, Counselor MHS, 4725 Benito Street, Monclair, CA 91763, 909-621-6781
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    scyouth says:
    Truth, billpl, mrcros and wt - you are prime examples of why the GOPigs lost and are getting further and further behind. You're "I'm alright Jack, FU," attitude is typical of the selfish, self-centered "haves" in this country. I'm a "have" as well, great job, nice house super family, but I also have a soul and care about people less well off than I am. One good piece of news in this story - looks like 80% of the next generation will be democrats!
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    TheTruthDetective says:
    No matter how bad they think it is here, they had it worse in Mexico. Don't come here and complain. Go back to Mexico and stop sucking our country dry.
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    TheTruthDetective says:
    This recession is going to create a generation or two of more responsible adults. Adults who understand that saving is more important than spending. That a small house is easier to pay for and cheaper to heat and cool than the McMansions. That it is cheaper to fill the gas tank on a small car than an SUV. That the job they have may stink but it pays the bills. That life won't always be a bed of roses. These kids will learn the lessons their parents missed, and be better off for it.
    Posted by debinok1 at 10:01 PM : May 19, 2009


    You are describing the horrible way of life seen in Russia as well as other Communist and Socialist countries. You may be O.K. with just getting by like cattle, but most of us have DRIVE and want to strive for excellence that is what built this country. What messed up this country is people like Barney Frank and Obama who listen to the low lifes who don't want to work and still want the nice things that we have. Soooo they FORCE banks to lend money to their low life constituants that can't possibly afford to pay it back. That is where we are today. Fairness????? HECK NO, GET A BETTER JOB.
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    teamseals says:
    It saddens me to see the post by "mrcrosbyll" about the sterotypical views he has on the mexican students. I am teacher at Montclair High School and can tell you first hand that being with my students gives me great joy to be part of their lives. It is people like "mrcrosbyll" that make my job seem more worthy--to explain to my students how the real world views them, to make them work harder to achieve their dreams. As I was so excited to see my students portrayed in the light of the recession, to have their stories told as so many across the United States, I came accross the the ignorant post of "mrcrosbyll".
    I myself am of mexican desecent, but because I don't have an accent would you view me differently?? Would you view me differently because my skin is lighter than most europeans decendants??These sterotypes reminded me once again of the stories my mother had always told me. My mother who immigrated here legally during the 1950's explained to me the harsh reality of what it was like growing up not speaking english and being made fun of by both students and teachers. Her named changed from Juana to Wanda because a teacher could not pronounce it. Yet my mother held her head up high, she was a successful woman who pushed me to reach my dreams and not let sterotypical ignorants classify you.
    I say to my students who may read this post, stand with your head held high, be proud of who you are and achieve your dreams. Do not let ignorant fools tell you who you could be. Empower yourself through your education!!! And pray that tomorrow will be a better day :)
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    debinok1 says:
    This recession is going to create a generation or two of more responsible adults. Adults who understand that saving is more important than spending. That a small house is easier to pay for and cheaper to heat and cool than the McMansions. That it is cheaper to fill the gas tank on a small car than an SUV. That the job they have may stink but it pays the bills. That life won't always be a bed of roses. These kids will learn the lessons their parents missed, and be better off for it.
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    sjc_1 says:
    There is all kinds of pressure. Some are made to feel that it is their fault, that somehow they are the cause of the families difficulties. They have to put off their dreams of going to college. It is usually the families with the lowest incomes and least wealth that suffer the most. The rich are not touched by such petty concerns.
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    billpl-2009 says:
    "....Go starve in mexico that way we don' have to clean up the mess you will leave."-- Posted by mrcrosbyll

    erra....if they leave we'll starve before them, unless you're persuading your kids to grow up to pick strawberries or flip burgers for a living.

    me? my kids are going to college....illegals can stay as long they're working
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    billpl-2009 says:
    "Hi my name is Zack. My dad's 401 and portfolio took a dump, Chase shut down our credit line, Mom's wishing she didn't quit her job 3years ago and mad at dad for using up all his vacation and sick time. We're upside down in our house, nobody wants to buy our Winnebago, Sea Ray, Skidoos or the Hummer. Mom's making me eBay my Stratocaster while refusing to give up her Beamer.....life sucks, but at least we finally have to eat in our fancy kitchen that mom spent 35 grand to remodel!"
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