February 11, 2009 1:41 PM

When War's Violence Comes Home

By
Katie Couric
(CBS)  The Army reported Thursday that at least 128 soldiers took their lives last year - the most since they started keeping records, three decades ago. But sometimes soldiers direct their anger at others - cases of assault against wives and girlfriends are on the rise, and critics say the army is not doing enough about it. CBS News anchor Katie Couric reports in a CBS News investigation that the results can be tragic.

Sgt. James Pitts was a decorated soldier, part of the early ground offensive that stormed Baghdad.

He had spent a year serving with a combat engineer group providing Army operational support.

It wasn't long before the horrors of war became his daily reality.

"The only thing you could predict was that you were gonna get attacked," he said. "The worst part of it was ... smelling the dead bodies, because it lingers forever."

The terrifying images began to take a toll.

Pitts began abusing prescription drugs as a way to escape, and reached out to his command for help. He says they did nothing.

When it was time to come home, he hoped the joy of seeing his wife and 9-year-old son would make everything okay.

"I'm just overwhelmed," Tara Pitts, James' wife, said at the time. "Excited and relieved."

But the excitement and relief didn't last. Her husband was drinking heavily, experiencing flashbacks, having nightmares.

"I can't sleep, I can't get the war out of my head. I got my wife saying she doesn't love me anymore - I got no one in the military I can trust," James Pitts said.

Family members say despite some obvious problems, no one in the Army required, or even encouraged, Pitts to get psychological treatment when he returned to Fort Lewis in Washington State.

According to a police report obtained by CBS New, Pitts was "increasingly agitated" and had threatened to "put a bullet" through his wife's head.

Afraid for her life, Tara Pitts obtained a restraining order. She notified his command, who promised to help. But that help never came.

A week later, Pitts murdered his wife, drowning her in a bathtub. They had had a fight - and her screams, he said, set him off.

"It reminded me of those screams of fear with the mortars," he said. "I grabbed her and she bumped her head - bad. And when I looked down, she was under the water."

He was sentenced to 20 years without parole.

Pitts feels betrayed by an Army that once applauded his bravery.

"Not only did they turn their back on me, not only did they talk me out of counseling four times, but then they flew in from other units to testify against me," he said.

FYI: Find resources about domestic violence.
Read Part I of this CBS News investigation: The Hidden Casualties Of War.
Lynn McCollum is the Army Director of Family Affairs.

Couric asked her: "Doesn't it make you angry to hear these stories about wives who are being killed by soldiers who are actually calling out for help?"

"There's a tremendous amount of effort going into providing that safety network and assistance for those folks," McCollum said. "It's very frustrating and disturbing when we don't reach everyone."

The numbers are alarming. In the last decade, there have been nearly 90 domestic homicides and 25,000 substantiated cases of domestic violence at U.S. military installations.

When CBS News looked at the small town of Killeen, Texas, - home of Fort Hood - another disturbing trend became clear. Of the 2,500 domestic violence cases reported to police last year - half of them involved military personel.

The Army developed a "Battle Mind Training" program to help soldiers transition back into life at home and has pledged to increase funding for family advocacy.

Most agree that all the systems and services the military may offer are only as effective as the people willing to use them to help both traumatized soldiers and their potential victims.

Only then, they say, will double tragedies like the case of James and Tara Pitts be prevented.

"Everything that I thought I was, everything that I had lived for a decade - gone," Pitts said. "Gone."

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by jackybesio April 2, 2009 2:26 PM EDT
wow.
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by shaina1308 January 31, 2009 1:32 AM EST
I was very amazed that there was a report on the abuse of military men and their families.As a victim myself,I can honestly say that it not only happens within the army,but in other branches also.As a navy spouse,I too have been victim to physical abuse by my husband, and when I called for help,the city police we''re who were notified, it was his branch.Not much was done to resolve the issue except for his command "saying" that he was no longer allowed back at the house but that even as I was dependent on him and was 6 weeks post-pregnancy, that he doe not have to provide for me.I was told that he was going to go to counseling classes and parenting classes since the abuse was made while I had our 6 week old in my arms, but all my husband recieved was a sentence to the baraks and three days of lecturing from his authorities.Thank you Katie for pointing this out, maybe now the military would take this more seriously
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by memerider January 30, 2009 9:47 PM EST
spartawigirl, that''s good to hear that help is available if one is tenacious. But I don''t think word gets out on where to go. I think everyone needs help at one point or another, and many don''t even admit it.
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by memerider January 30, 2009 9:43 PM EST
"I know that''''s how most Americans think...To anyone who understands English (and I realise that excludes most Americans..."

Posted by hower4 at 01:13 PM : Jan 30, 2009


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hower4, spread the love.
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by spartawigirl January 30, 2009 6:21 PM EST
My husband served in iraq in 2005-2006 and the only way he got help is that he went to the VA hospital and they are helping him through this. Alot of the other soldiers that went with him did not seek help and are no longer together as a family. I see a real big change since he got the help. The help is out there for the soldiers but it really up to the soldier to use it. If my husband didn''t go for the help I don''t kmow where we would be now. So for you soldiers check with your VA hospital and seek the help to keep your family together and for you wives of soldiers don''t push your soldier. They need to make their own decision to get the help. Believe me the help really works.
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by wl7bzh January 30, 2009 5:56 PM EST
I would love to stay and continue to enlighten you; however, I really must work now.
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Posted by leeanna58 at 01:08 PM : Jan 30, 2009

You can still respond if you want to. I am genuinely interested to discuss history and the teaching of history with you, not least because your perception is so vastly different from mine.

Posted by hower4 at 02:41 PM : Jan 30, 2009

Fer cryin out loud! Would you two kids get a room?
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by leeanna58 January 30, 2009 4:08 PM EST
hower4

I would love to stay and continue to enlighten you; however, I really must work now.
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by leeanna58 January 30, 2009 4:06 PM EST
hower4

I think you are just mad that America fought the King in 1776 and won its independence and now we are not subject to the Queen. Is that why you hate us?
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by leeanna58 January 30, 2009 4:04 PM EST
During the middle ages, the people of Europe were continually sacked by the Norsemen. They had terrible lives of devastation, starvation, homes being burned and crops destroyed. The Scandinavian Vikings raided and settled on the coasts of the European continent in the 9th and 10th centuries. There were the Crusades; there were six Crusades in a period of 176 years. The Crusades lasted from 1095 until 1271. There was the 100 year war, 1336-1453 and the 30 year war, 1618 to 1638. Are those enough examples for you?
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by leeanna58 January 30, 2009 3:55 PM EST
I plead with anyone out there,get help if ANYTHING seems out of whack,jump up & down,shout it from the rooftops,pursue your recovery this is the rest of your life on the line.This man is still considered; My Soldier,My Hero,My Husband and FRIEND. With alot of work and by the Grace of God.I look forward to the day of the front porch and rocking chairs.
God Bless all of you that have served,so unselfishly s
P.S. Thank You Katie & CBS for bringing this crisis
out into the open.,t will open many eyes and doors.

Posted by Tree19601

Kudos to you for your commitment and the sacrifices of yourself, your soldier husband, and your family. Thank you for sharing, and good luck and may God bless you!
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