SAN FRANCISCO, July 17, 2008

Same-Sex Couples Flock To Say Their Vows

Frustrated Opponents Warn That California Voters Will Ban Gay Marriage Again In November

    • Two men are sworn in as a married couple at City Hall in San Francisco, Tuesday, June 17, 2008. Photo

      Two men are sworn in as a married couple at City Hall in San Francisco, Tuesday, June 17, 2008.  (AP Photo/Marcio Jose Sanchez)

    • Helen Zia, left, and Lia Shigemura, center, kiss as Zia's mother Bei Linzia, right, looks on after the couple was married by San Francisco City Attorney Dennis Herrera at City Hall in San Francisco, Tuesday, June 17, 2008. Photo

      Helen Zia, left, and Lia Shigemura, center, kiss as Zia's mother Bei Linzia, right, looks on after the couple was married by San Francisco City Attorney Dennis Herrera at City Hall in San Francisco, Tuesday, June 17, 2008.  (AP Photo/Marcio Jose Sanchez)

    • Jon Van Sciver, center, slips a wedding ring onto the finger of his partner Craig Morgan, right, while officiant Aron Miller, left, reads them their vows after obtaining a marriage license at the San Diego County Administration Building June 17, 2008 in San Diego. Photo

      Jon Van Sciver, center, slips a wedding ring onto the finger of his partner Craig Morgan, right, while officiant Aron Miller, left, reads them their vows after obtaining a marriage license at the San Diego County Administration Building June 17, 2008 in San Diego.  (AP Photo/Chris Park)

    • Bob Sodervick, right, waves the gay pride flag outside of City Hall in San Francisco, Tuesday, June 17, 2008. Photo

      Bob Sodervick, right, waves the gay pride flag outside of City Hall in San Francisco, Tuesday, June 17, 2008.  (AP Photo/Marcio Jose Sanchez)

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(CBS/ AP)  County clerk offices across California opened for their first full day of same-sex marriages Tuesday, with hundreds of happy gay and lesbian couples ready to take the plunge in what in some cities was a party atmosphere.

A gay men's chorus was singing on the front steps of San Francisco City Hall, brightened up by rainbow flags and supporters handing out cupcakes to happy couples.

Annmary and Lori Franks returned to city hall where there were married four years ago in a flood of illegal weddings, reports CBS News correspondent John Blackstone - this time to do it legally. The couple, together for 18 years, brought their three daughters with them, all decked out in pink.

"We get to say that we have two moms and everyone else says 'Oh, I want two moms too,'" one of their daughters told Blackstone.

Helen Zia and Lia Shigemura sang "The Chapel of Love" as they walked to the city attorney's office to get married. The couple, clad in beige jackets and slacks, exchanged vows with Zia's mother by their side.

"This is the most meaningful day of my life. I've always wanted to get married," Shigemura said. "I just never thought it'd be possible."

From San Diego to Eureka, couples readied their formal wear, local licensing clerks expanded their staffs and conservative groups warned of a backlash as the nation's most populous state joined Massachusetts in sanctioning gay unions.

Some couples were from out of state. Unlike Massachusetts, which legalized same-sex marriage in 2004, California has no residency requirement for marriage licenses.

The May 15 California Supreme Court ruling that overturned the state's bans on same-sex marriage became final at 5:01 p.m. Monday, and clerks in at least five counties extended their hours to mark the occasion.

Already, dozens of same-sex couples have seized the opportunity to make their relationships official in the eyes of the law.

In West Hollywood, more than 100 people, wearing everything from T-shirts to tuxedoes, were in line Tuesday morning in front of an auditorium that was turned into a licensing center in the city's main park. Six white cabanas with chandeliers and silk flowers were ready for weddings.

Among those getting marriage licenses were actor and gay rights activist George Takei and his longtime partner, Brad Altman; they are planning a September wedding.

"Today we are all here to give flesh and blood reality to that ruling. We are going to make history," said Takei, who played Sulu in the "Star Trek" television series and movies. "Congratulations to all of us and may equality live long and prosper."

Every county was required to start issuing new gender-neutral marriage licenses Tuesday with spaces for "Party A" and "Party B" where "bride" and "groom" used to be.

"Am I Party A or Party B?" Contra Costa County Clerk Stephen Weir jokingly asked his partner of 18 years, John Hemm.

They were the first to marry at Weir's office Tuesday morning. Outside, three opponents of gay marriage from the Westboro Baptist Church picketed, carrying signs with sayings such as "God is your enemy."

Members of the sect are most often seen at military funerals in demonstrations claiming U.S. combat deaths are God's punishment for the nation's tolerance of homosexuality.

The protesters were easily outnumbered by about three dozen supporters of gay marriage, who held signs that read "Hate is not a family value" and "My marriage is not threatened by theirs, why is yours?" Police vehicles lined up near the demonstrators.

In rural Kern County, local clergy members volunteered their services because the county clerk stopped performing all weddings rather than perform any gay weddings.

"I have lost count of how many I have done," the Rev. Byrd Tetzlaff, a Unitarian minister, told Blackstone.

On Monday, San Francisco Mayor Gavin Newsom, who helped start the series of lawsuits that led the court to strike down California's one-man-one-woman marriage laws, presided at the wedding of Del Martin, 87, and Phyllis Lyon, 83.

Newsom picked the couple for the only ceremony Monday in City Hall to recognize their 55-year relationship and their status as pioneers of the gay rights movement. More than 650 same-sex couples have made appointments to get marriage licenses in San Francisco before the end of the month.

Newsom called officiating the wedding "this extraordinary and humbling gift." After the mayor pronounced Martin and Lyon "spouses for life," the couple kissed, then emerged to a crowd of well-wishers who showered them with rose petals.

The celebrations are tempered by the reality that in a few months, Californians will go to the ballot box to vote on an initiative that would overturn the high court ruling and again ban gay marriage.

On Monday, three lawmakers and a small group of other same-sex-marriage opponents gathered outside the Capitol to criticize the Supreme Court decision. They urged voters to approve the ballot measure.

"This is an opportunity to take back a little bit of dignity ... for kids, for all of us in California," Republican Assemblyman Doug LaMalfa said. "It really disturbs me that the will of the people was overridden by four members of the Supreme Court."

In both San Francisco and Beverly Hills, where two women became the first same-sex couple in Los Angeles County to marry legally, small groups of protesters waved signs with sayings like "Repent or Perish." They were outnumbered by supporters waving rainbow-striped flags.

Groups that oppose same-sex marriage have pursued several legal avenues to stop the weddings. On Monday, just hours before the ruling went into effect, a conservative legal group asked a Sacramento court to order the California agency that oversees marriages to stop issuing gender-neutral marriage licenses.

A hearing was set for Tuesday.

About a dozen protesters gathered across the street from the Sacramento County clerk's office in the morning, carrying signs that read, "Marriage = 1 man + 1 woman" and "Resist Judicial Tyranny."

Juliya Lyubezhanina, 16, came to protest with about 10 other teens from the Slavic Trinity Church.

"They claim to be Christians, but they apparently just don't read the Bible because it's all in there," she said. "It's something to just pray about. It's not a time to be joyful."

A UCLA study issued last week estimated that if the ballot measure is rejected, half of California's more than 100,000 same-sex couples will get married over the next three years, and 68,000 out-of-state couples will travel here to exchange vows.


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by my5200-2009 June 17, 2008 2:04 PM PDT
I vote for love. Congradulations to all of the newly married couples. I wish you a lifetime of happiness.
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by my5200-2009 June 17, 2008 2:04 PM PDT
I vote for love. Congradulations to all of the newly married couples. I wish you a lifetime of happiness.
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by broadwayphi June 17, 2008 2:09 PM PDT
Don''t we have better things to argue about?
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by drivelphobe June 17, 2008 2:10 PM PDT
One man/one woman defines marriage. This perverse travesty and violation of nature must be stopped and it will in November.

Maybe a compound in the middle of a desert for these anomalies might be voted in by the populace. Just a thought and a good one at that.
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by broadwayphi June 17, 2008 2:10 PM PDT
...like, voting in people with pro-worker policies?
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by broadwayphi June 17, 2008 2:14 PM PDT
My motto:

I don%u2019t care who you screw, but try to screw me and all bets are off.
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by mudrose-2009 June 17, 2008 2:18 PM PDT
Come November the people will restore marriage to it''s rightful definition - One Man-One Woman.
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by three-o-six June 17, 2008 2:34 PM PDT
I have been trying to get them licensed in my state as well, but I thought that a Varmint license was more appropriate than a Marriage license.
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by hermitdave June 17, 2008 2:35 PM PDT
It figures the Fred Phelps Christian NUT-BALLS would be there to protest. You just know Fred is a frustrated old closet queen.
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by drivelphobe June 17, 2008 2:40 PM PDT
vbnvbn...

We are all deciders. We have the right to vote and the right to free speech. I am voting to eliminate same gender marriage because it goes against nature. Procreation is nature''s bonding between the opposite genders, resulting in offspring. What do same gender relationships provide other than self-serving physical gratification? It will end in California in November 2008.

This issue isn''t something new. The entire world is disgusted by this behavior. This marriage issue will be the downfall of tolerance for queers.
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by jlagat June 17, 2008 2:43 PM PDT
Don''''t we have better things to argue about?

Posted by broadwayphi at 02:09 PM : Jun 17, 2008

Do you mean how California is still the center of the universe and the 90+ pages of flaming posts in a matter of a couple of hours proves it?

Then, no.

Remeber, we Californians love ourselves just as much as the rest of America hates us.
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by kennedy7955 June 17, 2008 2:43 PM PDT
We have a needless war, and idiot for President, our congresses selling out every day but the focus of these protesters is *** getting married. Holy moly...

*** getting married is great news, at least some portion of the population wants to get married.
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by kennedy7955 June 17, 2008 2:44 PM PDT
I can''t imagine why the CBS system just *** the word g-a-y.

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by ken1dall June 17, 2008 2:46 PM PDT
I wonder if any of them are planning to start a family. Their parents must be soooo proud.
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by kennedy7955 June 17, 2008 2:48 PM PDT
I suppose marriage between a man and a woman where there are no children is a sin in the eyes of you nutjobs?
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by ken1dall June 17, 2008 2:51 PM PDT
Children are an option between a man and woman. Because something is legal does not make it moral.
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by jboxton June 17, 2008 2:53 PM PDT
I say let ''em get married. I bet their weddings are HILARIOUS! They probably parade around in big feather boas, flamboyant dresses and butt-less chaps. They are a silly bunch of people.
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by antoniof123 June 17, 2008 2:55 PM PDT
Frustrated Opponents Warn That California Voters Will Ban Gay Marriage Again In November

And we frustrated opponents of the Republican war are too but you make us put up with it.
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by faith_in_w June 17, 2008 2:55 PM PDT
Oh yuck! CBS must have a like a boatload of photos. I must pray to God to give strength to my christian eyes in order to survive.
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by xxunknown June 17, 2008 2:57 PM PDT
WHOO HOO. HAPPY MARRIAGE!
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by libh8er June 17, 2008 2:57 PM PDT
How wonderful.....4 or 5 activist judges overturning the will of millions. America''s best days are for sure behind her. Welcome to Sodom Pt 2.
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by ken1dall June 17, 2008 2:58 PM PDT
What next? marriage between 2 men and 1 woman, 3 men, people and dogs, etc., etc.... Who''s the loser??
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by kennedy7955 June 17, 2008 2:58 PM PDT
"I wonder if any of them are planning to start a family. Their parents must be soooo proud."

This world would be lucky if all us straight people would only have children if a criteria were met such a being mature, educated, financially and emotionally prepared. Have you seen the kids in your neighborhood? You are worried about g-a-y-s having children and whether their parents are proud?

If a gay couple have their act together, we should as a nation be so lucky that they would have kids. We would be luckier if the straight people would stop having kids until and unless they are equipped for the job.
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by traacymorgan June 17, 2008 3:01 PM PDT
Liberals, Queers, Terroist Apologists.

Join the Pride Parade.

OBAMA 08!
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by ken1dall June 17, 2008 3:02 PM PDT
Up until the 1980s these people were considered mentally ill.
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by kennedy7955 June 17, 2008 3:03 PM PDT
rafterman...good point except the bloggers you are talking to would outlaw *** if they could.
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by gkc99 June 17, 2008 3:03 PM PDT
One good thing about gay marriage--it really pi$$es off the Jerry Falwell Fascist Brigade and all the Holy Roller Endtimers!
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by jlagat June 17, 2008 3:04 PM PDT
How wonderful.....4 or 5 activist judges overturning the will of millions. America''''s best days are for sure behind her. Welcome to Sodom Pt 2.

Posted by LibH8er at 02:57 PM : Jun 17, 2008

No, it''s 4 or 5 activist judges overturning the will of ''1'' million petitioners out of a state with a population of 36 million.

You may think America''s days are behind us, but it''s nice you to acknowledge that California has such a big influence on American culture that what happens in California can only spread everywhere else.
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by kennedy7955 June 17, 2008 3:04 PM PDT
rafterman...good point except the bloggers you are talking to would outlaw g-a-y-s if they could.
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by kennedy7955 June 17, 2008 3:05 PM PDT
It turns out that the word g-a-y-s is a bad word to be censored on this site. Unbelieveable.
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by iamhuman June 17, 2008 3:05 PM PDT
It''s all ways nice to read what people think, now for the ones who are negative - try saving the ones who say they are streight, but play with the ones that they like too. I like to see people who believe that this will make them more complete, so more power; oh yes people who think that they can "Save the World" thank you for reading this/all comments and the colorful articles! Now be GAY = Happy
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by ken1dall June 17, 2008 3:08 PM PDT
Yeah rafterman, We have really come a long ways.... But a child still has the right to know his father.
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by mudrose-2009 June 17, 2008 3:09 PM PDT
The Marriage Amendment has been certified and is on the November ballot. The people will restore marriage to its rightful definition come November.
Marriage One Man, One Woman.
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by louann1962 June 17, 2008 3:10 PM PDT
Why are all you homophobes so scared of gay marriage? Scared your spouse/girl/boyfriend might leave you for a same *** person, or are you afraid that your in denial of your own sexuality? I''m straight and it sure doesn''t threaten me.
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by ponco seno June 17, 2008 3:12 PM PDT
Is there business if they want to poke each other...
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by mudrose-2009 June 17, 2008 3:12 PM PDT
Why are all you homophobes so scared of gay marriage? Scared your spouse/girl/boyfriend might leave you for a same *** person, or are you afraid that your in denial of your own sexuality? I''''m straight and it sure doesn''''t threaten me.

Posted by louann1962

No you aren''t. You just want everyone to think you are. You are a heterophobe. You wnat g/ay marriage, get a g/ay marriage amendment and put it in the constitution.
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by ken1dall June 17, 2008 3:12 PM PDT
Who is to be afraid of. I always call one when I redecorate.
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by mudrose-2009 June 17, 2008 3:13 PM PDT
And it will be overturned (again) in court. When it comes to bigotry, the courts have traditionally protected minorities from the masses. Bigotry will never win at the polls.
Posted by rafterman1

Judicial Fiat doesn''t win at the polls either. Want **** marriage, put it in the U.S. Constitution - ya know the one that exhales.
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by louann1962 June 17, 2008 3:15 PM PDT
Why are all you homophobes so scared of gay marriage? Scared your spouse/girl/boyfriend might leave you for a same *** person, or are you afraid that your in denial of your own sexuality? I''''''''m straight and it sure doesn''''''''t threaten me.

Posted by louann1962

No you aren''''t. You just want everyone to think you are. You are a heterophobe. You wnat g/ay marriage, get a g/ay marriage amendment and put it in the constitution.


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Posted by mudrose at 03:12 PM : Jun 17, 2008


I''m sure my six children and husband of 21 years would disagree with you.
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by radbean June 17, 2008 3:17 PM PDT
Because it is an abomination to God''s plan of procreation. Now I can understand that many of you probably don''t believe in God, and that''s fine. But just as you have a right to believe in the right to gay marriage, I have the right to believe it is immoral.

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Louann1962 wrote:

Why are all you homophobes so scared of gay marriage? Scared your spouse/girl/boyfriend might leave you for a same *** person, or are you afraid that your in denial of your own sexuality? I''''m straight and it sure doesn''''t threaten me.
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by mudrose-2009 June 17, 2008 3:18 PM PDT
I''''m sure my six children and husband of 21 years would disagree with you.
Posted by louann1962

Yeah, daddy girl. I''m sure.
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by faith_in_w June 17, 2008 3:20 PM PDT
notmudrose, that is not me. I look like a normal person, not a queer.
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by guyfrompa46 June 17, 2008 3:21 PM PDT
I don''t understand what all the fuss is about. If it doesn''t affect you why do you care who marries who?
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by irliberal June 17, 2008 3:25 PM PDT
I don''''t understand what all the fuss is about. If it doesn''''t affect you why do you care who marries who?

Posted by guyfrompa46 at 03:21 PM

Religious zealots feel compelled to push their ideology into the world of law and influence into the world of politics. Nothing new, just still despicable.
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by irliberal June 17, 2008 3:28 PM PDT


(why does CBS NEWS censor political expression?)

Posted by traacymorgan at 03:27 PM

Maybe because you do it so often from under a white sheet and hood.
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by mudrose-2009 June 17, 2008 3:28 PM PDT
I don''''t understand what all the fuss is about. If it doesn''''t affect you why do you care who marries who?
Posted by guyfrompa46

The people have set their social constructs. In the state of california they have done it not once but twice. Their Constitution states 1977 statute of marriage as one man-one woman. Proposition 22 clarified it. This is a Democracy - it is not an Oligarchy. Majority rule here. The people have decided that Marriage Between a Man and a Woman is the best social construct within which to rear children. Judges have no business telling the people what works best for them. Don''t like it ask that a g/ay marriage amendment be added to the Constitution.
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by jbright9 June 17, 2008 3:29 PM PDT
I hope all these couples are very happy. Best wishes to all.
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by mudrose-2009 June 17, 2008 3:30 PM PDT
Religious zealots feel compelled to push their ideology into the world of law and influence into the world of politics. Nothing new, just still despicable.
Posted by IRLiberal

My don''t you like to project.
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by irliberal June 17, 2008 3:31 PM PDT
I hope all these couples are very happy. Best wishes to all.

Posted by jbright9 at 03:29 PM

That''s the spirit. 8-)
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by mjm121 June 17, 2008 3:31 PM PDT
Posted by traacymorgan at 03:27 PM : Jun 17, 2008

racist, bible thumping, cheating, bomb shelter building, right wing lunatic...why are you so scared?
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