And The Happiest Place On Earth Is...

Morley Safer On Why The Danes Are Considered The Happiest People On Earth

(CBS)  "The number one predictor of well-being is close friendships and close relationships in general, which includes of course, family relationships. Much better predictor of well-being than affluence is," Ben-Shahar says.

Ben-Shahar says Americans could learn a lot about happiness from the Danes. "It is about having realistic expectations. It's about not trying to fit in more than we can handle. We can't handle it all. We can't have it all. But we can have a lot," he says.

"You've lived in the states. You visited the states," Safer asked a man. "Would you live there?"

"It's got a grandness to it that you can never imagine here in Denmark. Because it's on a much larger scale. And the differences are much, much bigger. But I wouldn't want my children to grow up there," the man replied.

"Just describe for me the qualities that a successful person would have in this country," Safer asked.

"Well, in order to see myself as a success I would want to be happy and have a lot of time with my family. I think that's very important to me. And the money is not that important," he replied.

"It is more about the softer values, such as not being stressed, and feeling passionate about what I'm doing. 'Maybe this job is not gonna pay me a lot of money. But I'm gonna love getting up and doing it every day,'" another said.

Asked if one can equate money with happiness, a man told Safer, "No."

"If you have a sufficient amount of money, then I don't think it will make you a lot happier to get really rich. And we're already at a good level here in Denmark. So I don't think we'll be happier if we increase our wealth," another remarked.

But these un-melancholy Danes, as laid back as they are, do not lack ambition. "I think that we have very high hopes. Just like any other people who, we just don't get so disappointed when we don't see them through," a man explained.

Asked what he would advise Americans to do, the man said, "Well, okay. I have an advice. Don't depend too much on the American dream. Yeah. I think you might get disappointed."

[Sewel_Road]

Here is a video titled "I Want To Live In A World Where..."
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LjJKiCgFlGU

[kephara]

We Americans are a good people; sincere, hardworking but sadly, easily manipulated into being smug, arrogant and self-delusional. We are led to believe that the "American Way" is best and that the rest of the world is envious of us. We are mistaken. The Danes - and many others - live the lives they wish with freedom, security and prosperity. I''ve spent a great deal of time in Denmark and with each visit, my love for this beautiful country and admiration for their way of life grows. We should be so content.

[johnatmls]

My happiness dramatically increased about 25 years ago when I heard a quotation of Benjamin Franklin: "I always expect the worst, and many times I am pleasantly surprised". It was an epiphany for me as my entire life had been based on the power of positive thinking, I pursued it relentlessly and it wasn''t working. Suddenly after reading this quotation I realized it''s wisdom. I can honestly say I am much happier because of it.

[cheriwabi]

I''m appalled that anyone would take advice from a bunch of mediocre Sponges. Just happy to drift along and be paid by the government to sit home or take classes. Then the gall to tell us Americans to give up on the American Dream. This piece of journalism was mediocre. Happiness /or rather fullfillment is reaching ones potential not settling to live the life of a lap dog.

[gavinjohnson-2009]

No mention of the high concentrations of omega oils in herring. omega oils are great mood stabilizers.

[reujack]

This is the kind of "change" I''d like to see in the U.S.

[autmnchicago]

I too was absolutely offended that CBS would allow the final statement of its segment to bash the American dream. I''m sorry, but what does a naive and apparently untravelled and inexperienced guy from Denmark know about achieving the American Dream? Was our country not founded on having the freedom to do anything we wish to make our own realities, vs. other countries whose limitations and subtle communism dillutes their world to realites that are only allowed? I was insulted that we would even leave someone to vocalize that our dreams are a disappointment. CBS you''ve absolutely lost my respect. Great journalism. Way to support your own country and everything we stand for.

[gavinjohnson-2009]

No mention of the high concentrations of omega oils in herring. omega oils are great mood stabilizers.

[gkc99]

Americans are suckers to believe that slaving full time with a piddly 2 weeks vacation per year is as good as the employers can give.

The advantage to being a worker in Europe is strong unions and a government that''s not owned by the Billionaire class the way the Bushit administration is.

Plus, paid for medical care and a decent retirement.

Americans, on the other hand, just let themselves be used up by the employers. And when it serves the employers interests, they outsource jobs to Asia.

Perhaps the US should also take a look at the immigration policies of the prosperous European countries.

[feelfree4u]

One has to wonder why some Danes are devoting so much time and energy towards provoking and demonizing Muslims, if they are so happy.

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Why is there an ad here from the greedy oil pirates and shameless war profiteers of Exxon-Mobil?

Denmark doesn''t have any oil for them to steal, do they?

[arj4031]

Although I''m somewhat skeptical of the methods of determining "happiness", it''s interesting that so often things have to be in terms of rich or poor/high or low expectations etc. Whatever happened to the "moderate", and having somewhat "realistic" expectations while being pleasantly surprised by the exceptional? I guess dichotomy is most interesting, particularly to the media. But I agree that many rich people aren''t happier, because they''re often so bent on acquiring more stuff instead of appreciating what they have. For some, the ability to meet basic needs, do what one really desires to do in life, have decent relationships, and have some security into retirement is quite enough. And more than so many people in the world have.

[relee9]

I AM APALLED THAT THE SEGMENT AIRED ON KIRO7, IN WashinGton ENDED WITH THE STATEMENT "THAT AMERICANS SHOULD GIVE UP ON THE AMERICAN DREAM." AND NOT ONE RESPONSE BY THE INTERVEIWER WAS MADE. IS CBS AND MORLEY SHAFER SO NAIVE, OR JUST PLAIN DUMB, TO NOT RECOGNIZE THE MILLIONS OF AMERICANS WHO HAVE FOUGHT AND DIED FOR THE ABILITY TO PURSUE THE AMERICAN DREAM? AS A RETIRED MEMBER OF THE MILITARY, I WAS VERY MUCH OFFENDED BY THE COMMENT, AS WELL AS THE LACK OF RESPONSE BY MORLEY, THAT THE "DREAM" AND DEFENSE OF IT IS WHAT MAKES THE UNITED STATES THE GREATEST COUNTRY ON EARTH,

[byxcv0]

In fact Danes in my opinion enjoy too much "happiness." Its the only civilized western nation where a person may legally purchase *** with an animal and the first nation to offer free fertilized embryo implants to lesbian couples. I think there is something rotten in Denmark.

[mmph19]

I spent three weeks in Denmark last year in a rented farmhouse near Mons. My husband and I traveled extensively around the country in towns, cities, and the countryside. Every store closes there so early and it was difficult to get a restaurant meal after 6:00pm in all but the most urban of areas. Shops and stores opened late the next morning. These people are happy because they''re getting lots and lots of sleep. See Leslie Stahl''s story. Forget the sleep labs in Chicago, send a few researchers to the Baltic.

[jack-john]

Easy explanation. There ain''t nuthin like a Dane, nuthin in the world. There ain''t nuthin you can name that is anything like a DANE!!!!!! ;)

[jack-john]

Easy explanation! "There ain''t nuthin like a Dane, nuthin in the world, there ain''t nutin you can name that is anything like a Dane! ;)

[jack-john]

Easy explanation! "There ain''t nuthin like a Dane, nuthin in the world, there ain''t nutin you can name that is anything like a Dane! ;)

[cbeckley9]

6 weeks per year vacation time is laughable.

In Denmark I would never have been able to build a business from nothing and take an average of 8-9 weeks vacation per year - and I intend to increase that to 12 weeks per year in the coming years.

Denmark might allow the average person with average abilities to be happy, but those that have ambition and talent will always have their spirits crushed... that''s why the best and brightest will always move to America.

There are enough socialist countries in the world already. The politicians and media are pushing to make America just like Europe. Why not let there be one country remain as its founders intended that allows people the freedom to grow to their full potential?

[cbeckley9]

6 weeks per year vacation time is laughable.

In Denmark I would never have been able to build a business from nothing and take an average of 8-9 weeks vacation per year - and I intend to increase that to 12 weeks per year in the coming years.

Denmark might allow the average person with average abilities to be happy, but those that have ambition and talent will always have their spirits crushed... that''s why the best and brightest will always move to America.

There are enough socialist countries in the world already. The politicians and media are pushing to make America just like Europe. Why not let there be one country remain as its founders intended that allows people the freedom to grow to their full potential?

[MollyClaire]

I watched the "Science of Sleep" and "And The Happiest Place On Earth Is...". One question was unanswered: How much sleep do the Danes get?