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Advertisement | Candidates On Losing Their TempersPresidential Contenders Answer Katie Couric's "Primary Questions"Dec. 17, 2007 ![]() ![]() Question: Lost TemperIn her latest Primary Questions report, Katie Couric asks the ten leading presidential contenders when they last lost their temper and what ultimately became of the situation. | Share/Embed (CBS) HILLARY CLINTON Couric: When was the last time you lost your temper, and what came of it? Clinton: I try not to lose my temper because I really don't like it. It's not that I don't do it, but I try not to. I think honestly the last time was when our dog woke me up at 5:00 to put him out. (LAUGHTER) I was not happy about that, you know. He comes up and he just won't quit, and just keeps nosing me. And I was, I just woke up out of a cold sleep and started yelling at him. (LAUGHTER) And I really felt guilty, because the poor dog had to go out. But I try not to lose my temper. Couric: Any other incident, though, where you got angry or really mad at something, and you know, everybody gets sort of… Clinton: Right. Couric: …gets ticked off. Clinton: You know, Katie, I used to do that a lot more when I was younger. I was much less patient. I was much more judgmental. I really, would get, set off by something that I thought was wrong or unfair. But with all I've been through for the last 16 years, I just try not do that anymore. I try not to, you know, get that flash point. And if something's upsetting me or annoying me, I try to stop. Literally count to ten. Think it through, and then try to figure out what to do about it. JOHN EDWARDS Couric: When was the last time you lost your temper? And what came of it? Edwards: Oh, that's a hard question. Probably yesterday. (LAUGHS) It happens pretty often. Couric: At least you're honest about it. Edwards: (LAUGHS) I think. Couric: Most people have said, "You know, I haven't lost my temper in a very long time." Edwards: Oh, that's just a lie. (LAUGHS) That's just a lie. That's not the truth. I think I lost my temper in the last day or two. And I'm sure it was about some meaningless thing. I can't remember specifically. Couric: Why do you think it happened? And how did you deal with it? Edwards: Why did it happen? Probably I was tired. (LAUGHS) And somebody was suggesting I do something that I didn't agree with. Couric: And how did you deal with it? Edwards: How did I deal with it? I told them what I thought was the right thing to do, and I did it. JOE BIDEN Couric: When was the last time you lost your temper? And what came of it? Biden: It's been a while. I lost my temper 22 years ago when I was running for president, and a lot came of it. But I'm trying to think. I haven't lost my temper in a while. I've been frustrated, but I've not blown up and lost my temper. I used to have a I joke and say, two craniotomies I had for these aneurysms. They took the top of my head off. I joke and I say, well, they cut the temper cord. There's a lot more equanimity in my last 20 years and after what I've gone through than there was before. No one thing is that critical that it determines outcome. Unless it's life or death. Couric: Come on though Senator. Biden: I'm serious. Couric: I mean, I'm sure you got annoyed at somebody… Biden: Oh, no, no, annoyed. No, no, no, no, no. Couric: I don't mean, got red in the face and slapped somebody. Biden: Well, I used to lose my temper and turn around and snap at somebody and say, “You know, you know, shut up.” Or do whatever. I haven't, I haven't lost my temper in a long while. I've been frustrated with some of the…staff who tell me things they know they don't know. I get frustrated, occasionally with some of the things I hear being stated by candidates from both parties running for office. I think, I know, you know, my frustration is, you know that's not true. What are ya sayin' it? (CHUCKLES) But I ... really haven't, Katie. I mean, you know, you could, as they say, ask around. I mean, I haven’t lost my temper in a long while. Couric: I take your word for it, Senator Biden. JOHN MCCAIN Couric: When was the last time you lost your temper and what came of it? McCain:: Probably within about ten minutes ago. (LAUGHTER) Couric: What happened? McCain:: Oh, I don't, I think the last time I seriously lost my temper, I can't remember. Am I impatient and frustrated and sometimes angry when I see incompetence or corruption? Yeah. And I can be abrasive about that. Because I really want people and me to live up to certain standards of behavior in public life. And right now, our approval rating is 11 percent, [the Congress.] And so, I probably, the last time I can remember being really angry was probably at a Senate Armed Services Committee hearing, when Donald Rumsfeld was assuring everybody that the war was going fine. Couric: And I think you used a few choice words not that long ago, too, right? McCain:: Yes. One of my colleagues… Couric: That wasn't at the hearing, though, was it, Senator McCain? McCain:: Well… Couric: Was that a different one? McCain:: (LAUGHTER) You mean a few choice words to one of my colleagues, you mean? Couric: Yes. McCain:: Yes, that, I regretted. And we are good friends. It was a private meeting, and sometimes we have spirited discussions. I don't think I lost my temper. I was just a little frustrated. Couric: Do you think you're too tough, having said that? I mean, obviously you say you're impatient. Do you feel sometimes you're too hard on people? McCain:: It's not that I feel that I'm too hard on people, as it is that maybe I feel too passionately. In other words, maybe I become emotionally involved in issues that perhaps I should be more objective about. And look, I've made so many mistakes in my life. Last night, I was asked about my relations with certain parts of the party, like the religious right. I believe in reconciliation. I reconciled with the anti-war movement, the Vietnam War. I reconciled with the Vietnamese. I reconciled with Jerry Falwell. I think reconciliation with your enemies, whether they be political or personal, is an important part of life. MITT ROMNEY Couric: When was the last time you lost your temper? And what came of it? Romney: You know, I talk about becoming intense. I never talk about losing my temper. (LAUGHS) I don't think I lose my temper. But I become ... Couric: Well, when was the last time you became intense? Romney: I become intense. Well, there was a TV or radio talk show host the other day in Iowa that began drilling me about my faith. And I became intense in confronting what he had said. And we went back and forth. Unbeknownst to me, he had a hidden camera on the console. So this then popped up on the Internet - as our exchange. And I was intense. I wasn't angry. I wasn't out of control. But I was intense. Couric: Would you say you lost your temper a bit? Romney: No. No, I didn't lose my temper. I was intense. And expressed my views directly and forthrightly. I remember once I really learned to manage my temper when I was angry with one of my sons when they were very, very young. And Ann and I talked about it afterwards and said, "You know, it doesn't make sense to ever really lose your temper with a child." And, I said, you know, "I'm not gonna do that anymore." And I have not, I just haven't gotten angry and lost my temper that I can recall in a long, long time. Couric: Come on. (LAUGHS) Romney: Oh, you get, you get… Couric: I mean, there must be times… Couric: When you feel like you're going to… Romney: They're the road experience. Couric: You're going to get really angry or you just get furious, even if it's just an instance. Romney: Oh, sure. Oh, of course. And-- Couric: When was the last time you did that? Romney: You know, sometimes on the road when I'm driving, if someone does something, you know, I might (LAUGHS) express my anger. I don't do in a visible way. Couric: You don't do any rude signs, do you? Romney: No. No rude signs, no. They, they've been flashed in my direction. But rarely in the or never actually near the direction, you know, I've kicked a door a couple of times. I remember kicking a door the other day. Not the other day. It was probably a few months ago. Couric: Why'd you kick the door? Romney: Well, I heard something that a particular member of the news media had said. And it was wrong. It was exactly the opposite of what was real. And it's frustrating to see things that you that you know being distorted. But I don't tend to express that openly or publicly. Couric: What happened when you kicked the door other than stubbing your toe? Romney: That was it. That's typically the result of anger is being hurt yourself and not accomplishing anything for it.
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