Birth Control For Maine Middle Schoolers

School Board Approves Birth Control Options For Students In Grades 6 Through 8

(CBS/AP) 

“If we're required to report anything that we think is illegal, we certainly will do that,” said Gardner, who said health centers already comply with state law and report cases in which child abuse or sex abuse are suspected.

Gov. John Baldacci said he had reservations about the program and was trying to learn more.

“I appreciate local officials trying to address a need in a medically appropriate way, but these are children,” he said in an interview with the AP. “An appropriate balance must be struck addressing the troubling situation that a small number of students find themselves in and recognizing the important role that parents and other family should play.”

McCarthy, the principal, said he sympathizes with those who have reservations about the program.

“I think it makes people nervous to think middle school students are having sex. Frankly, it makes me nervous. But there's a small population out there that needs protection,” he said.

“A teen who gets pregnant, their life is radically changed in a negative way,” he told CBS News. “They don’t finish school (and) they’re socioeconomically much deprived.”

Carol Schiller, the mother of a boy and girl who graduated from King, said she was “elated” at the committee's vote. She said critics shocked that 11-year-olds have sex should “get over it.”

“It's much more important that we reach out to these kids and get them the tools they need to stay safe, stay in school and get an education,” she said.

But parent Scott Webber told CBS News he disagrees. “I don't think it’s their business, really, to be handing out condoms or giving birth control pills without the parent's consent."

Michael Heath, executive director of the Christian Civic League of Maine, said he was concerned that young children would have access to any form of birth control, with adults playing a supportive role.

“It's at best troubling, at worst an outrage,” he said.

[erasmus6]

GrammaWhamma and MichelleM99

Thanks for answering my question!

[michellem99-2009]

erasmus6 Dear .I read term Nanny Gov''t in the UK and Maine..It is some times called the nanny state. It is on the idea of a nanny telling us what we can/can''t do and like it or not..do as yer told..It means to me that the gov''t wants to rule every thing we say and do..And the Gov''t is trying to,do just that..It is much different to than then I was much younger.

[grammawhamma]

erasmus6: Hi. I think what it means is that the government trys to baby sit us or to make decisions for us. For example: like banning the use of transfats at restaurants, or forcing McDonalds to get rid of super sized meals.

[michellem99-2009]

I am telling the parents. I had a class mate and every time she had her period it was hell for her and she had no understanding of why she had it..She was like a small child in growing body. I am not joking..Children are raped more than is talked about..There were times I dreaded that period..Men know that girls have it and they go hunting for them.
Males are dumb as they only think of their control over a young girl.. Not all males..We live in an age where sexx is every where. Who will look out for our children. There are children that are on the list and that has hurt them when they are grown.They can''t live where they want..They do the shiit work cos they f---ed as children by having sexx.

[erasmus6]

Someone tell me what a NANNY GOVERNMENT is!!! I have heard this before but have no idea what it is.

We don''t use a lot of nick names for things here, but I notice in the U.S. you do quite often.

[grammawhamma]

Michelle: Please tell me you are not serious about giving young girls pills to stop their menses...or boys pills to prevent erections! You complain about living in a nanny government but would condone something like that!!?? That''s almost as bad as the government ordering lobotomies on everyone so we all stagger around drooling but stay manageable.

Kids need education about s.ex and morals...if they aren''t getting it at home then they need to be taught this at school. Medication is not the answer unless the girl is already sexually active and then only with parent''s permission. Give them condoms instead.

[michellem99-2009]

I was a high school pupil in the 70s and there was married pupuls at school and girls showing that they were bearing babies. I was shcocked as Mum was forced out..This is in Maine. I am aware young girls forgive the term go in heat about the time of the period and it is strong..I hated it. I never gave in it. The period is the thems that a girl can bear babies. Yes by our moderen thinking it is too young..I asked my friend why so young. I think they should the their peroids as adult ladies..There is a pill to stop a girl''s cycle why not look in to that. They need to come up the same to stop a boy''s from making the means of his seed,,male birth control..The male pride...a means so he can''t father child until he is an adult..We can go to the moon but can''t keep children from having children until they are adults and can raise them.

[grammawhamma]

dmhphils: I mostly agree with what you are saying...however, abstinence is a nice goal but it is unrealistic. It will work only for a very slim minority. Give the kids condoms at school without parents permission...and give them birth control pills but only with a parent''s consent. Like I said in a previous post....many Catholic priests don''t even practice the abstinence they preach.

[michellem99-2009]

we are not church goers as they think one book has all the answers well it does not. It is so old and out dated. America is not and never has been a Christian nation. That don''t sit well with yer. Too bad..WE CAN WORSHIP AS WE SEE FIT BUT THERE IS SEP OF STATE AND CHURCH. Thank God for that.

[michellem99-2009]

I AM SORRY BUT DON''T PREACH.

[dmhphils]

"Protecting a child''s privacy at the expense of the parent''s right to know".....that is the statement on the video of this article. What a crock! If the parents who have kids in King Middle School don''t unite and stop this, it will explode in the lives of these kids later in life. Somebody please stand up and blow the friggin whistle......stop this insanity! You parents are being stripped of your control over your children......you are like the proverbial frog being slowly boiled to death!!

[dmhphils]

We have an "abstinence" program for drug abuse...."just say NO" to drugs and nobody objects to that even though people still do drugs, but to just "say No" to *** outside of marriage, and *** to many is like a drug addiction, we can''t abide. So, if "just say no" to drugs is promoted, why not promote "just say no" to ***? The difference is that many many parents and people in general don''t agree that *** outside of marriage is wrong or even harmful because as adults they are doing the same thing.....they don''t abstain so why tell their children to abstain?

[dmhphils]

Since I have this board all to myself, I will just spill it out. We are not asking the question "why is this happening to our children?" because the answer would so upset our lifestyles and we know it is our fault and cannot face it. This generation of children is the fruit of a nation that has thrown off all restraint morally and refuses to believe they must answer to God or even acknowledge that if God exists, He would have the right to require anything from us. You think this generation is scary.....wait for the next. This is why when someone like Dr. Orr comes along advocating abstinence, she is looked upon as if she were insane.

[dmhphils]

Why doesn''t anyone ever say, "Hey, lets back up the truck and find out what we are doing wrong and why this is happening with our children?" Why is it that a little girl that is usually playing with dolls pregnant? Nobody is so naive they would doubt that our kids at 11-18+ are sexually active......but that is not the issue. We cannot just give them the tools to become better fornicators.....we must turn this around. Dr. Orr can help to turn this around.

[dmhphils]

If I were to search all the kids on the playgraound at recess, and found that the majority were in posession of birth control pills or condoms, I would say its time to fall on our knees and beg for the mercy of God. I would say we need to examine what we have become in the name of "freedom" and realize that freedom without morality or holiness is not freedom, but bondage.

[michellem99-2009]

Gramma I am not joking as this is a subject needing to be dealt with. Children need to be made aware a baby IS a living thing and not a doll. They think a baby will make them grown up. It will not. I visited my birth mother and we touched on this. She broke down in tears. Why..This very issue we are talking about.She told me she was too young when she had us. I knew that. If she had it to do OVER as we know she can''t she would have not had us that young. It hurt her to tell me that. I am glad she learnt from it tho she lost us. Most girls never think of this. They would rather give and not worry that may happen. They fall for the traps..WAKE UP...

[grammawhamma]

You''re right Michelle...I looked it up now too. I was joking anyway.

[michellem99-2009]

Gramma,saitpeter is gun powder. I done looked it up. Yer been told a lie..

Everybody should give up and let Big Pharma win. Everybody needs to be taking prescription(unnatural products)every day, all the time, regardless of age. How did our grandparents and great grandparents ever survive without the constant medication that is being ram down our throats?

[grammawhamma]

Good idea Michelle....give the boys saltpeter!