February 11, 2009 4:14 PM

Dress Code Debate: 2nd Passenger Censored

(AP)  A second young woman has come forward to claim that Southwest Airlines employees made her cover up on a recent flight, leading jet-setters to ask: Will my outfit fly?

Setara Qassim said a flight attendant confronted her during the trip from Tucson, Ariz., to Burbank, Calif., and asked whether she had a sweater to go over her green halter-style dress.

Qassim, 21, told KNBC-TV in Los Angeles she was forced to wrap a blanket around herself for the rest of the flight. She complained that if Southwest wants passengers to dress a certain way, it should publish a dress code.

Last week, 23-year-old Kyla Ebbert said a Southwest employee pulled her aside as she was preparing to board a plane departing San Diego for Tucson in July and told her she was dressed too provocatively to fly.

Ebbert, who took her case to NBC's "Today Show," said she was allowed on the plane after adjusting her sweater and short skirt. She said she was humiliated and felt the stares of other passengers who had overheard the verbal dressing-down.

Dallas-based Southwest Airlines Co. acknowledged the incident involving Ebbert, but airline spokesman Chris Mainz said the company had no record that Qassim ever complained.

Messages left with Qassim at her California home were not immediately returned to The Associated Press.

Southwest - which dressed its stewardesses in hot pants and called itself "the love airline" back in the 1970s - relies on employees to decide whether a passenger's attire may offend other customers, Mainz said.

"We don't have a dress code. We rely on our employees to use common sense, good judgment and good taste," Mainz said. "It's so rare for us to have to address a customer's clothing issue."

American Airlines claims the right to refuse to carry passengers for a variety of reasons, including being drunk, barefoot, having an offensive odor or being "clothed in a manner that would cause discomfort or offense to other passengers."

"It's generally a graphic on a T-shirt that might be uncomfortable" to another passenger, said American Airlines spokesman Tim Wagner. "We always find ways to mitigate it as best possible, with not allowing someone on a flight being the last option."

David Castelveter, spokesman for the Air Transport Association, the trade group of the major U.S. airlines, said he didn't know of any airline having a dress code for passengers.

Lynda White, who teaches etiquette classes and calls herself "The First Lady of Manners," said many young people have gotten lax on what to wear and how to act - possibly influenced by Hollywood stars. She recommends "business-casual" outfits for the plane because you might be seated next to a potential employer or business contact.

"If you wear provocative clothing, tattoos, or you smell of alcohol or cigarettes, who's going to believe you?" she said.

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by photogeezer September 16, 2007 5:07 PM EDT
More offensive to me than provacatively dressed women are people in tank tops and shorts who will be pressing their flabby, pukey flesh all over you while they are putting their stuff up or, worse, sitting beside you. But, then, a lot of things in life are less than pleasant. I wouldn''t berate them; I''d juet let it go, knowing that after a couple of hours, I''m free of them.
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by michellem99-2009 September 16, 2007 3:45 PM EDT
I would have rather be that girls are taught to dress. I am a woman..They dressed as trash and now whine about it. They have becoming outfits that these ladies can wear. There is no need for us to dress as ******. Breasts in others faces,bare bellies,skirt way up our asre. If I dressed that way I be marched to my room to change outfits. No whining. GO..No baggy pants. I am poor and sorry ladies if you want to wear that in the home. A pretty woman is one that takes pride in her person..They get cat calls,eyes, cause they failed to wear decent things. It time they are taught to dress properly. I can''t afford to dress in the latest styles. My jeans and t shirt are plain. Cover up what you should.. The pretty face should be seen not other parts.
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by sharncedar September 16, 2007 12:42 PM EDT
The first woman was a real dog, actually she looked gross, bad, her face was gross, her body was lousy except for large and gross boobs she obviously sticks in everyone''s face to try to get attention.

Hey, little dumb s*luts, why don''t you try to get attention for the quality of your character of the quality of your intellects?. What''s that? Don''t have any character or intellect? And that''s exactly why you need to dress like hookers, not even a normal hooker, but more like some heroin-addicted $15 a mouth hooker.

What you little b*imbos need is an education that the kind of people who pay attention to you because you are an easy lay or because you reveal your private parts in public are first o all gross men who are the lowest members of society and second of all they don''t respect you, they think you are trash even while they are banginb you or chatting you up. Apparently your parents didn''t have time to teach you anything about life.
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by scottyusa September 16, 2007 10:21 AM EDT
The next time I fly southwest and there is a pretty girl in a mini skirt and a halter just sit her right next to me. I may even be able to stay awake for the whole fight!
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by watcher269-2009 September 16, 2007 9:37 AM EDT
The real reason this is being done - is so the pilots will be able to concentrate on their jobs and not the women and trying to get them to join the mile high club. Or, maybe the flight attendants are Gay and they are distracted by this and can''t do their jobs. Or, maybe the company is run by people who believe that their beliefs should be imposed on others - After all, Nudity is not Christian - War IS! Or, Maybe since America is SO FAT these days that if offends Fat women in America to see someone who isn''t and they complain......

Let people wear what they want - Or, maybe they should tell you (corporate leaders) how to behave and dress and...... Glad we live in a "Free" society!
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by toolmangler-2009 September 15, 2007 11:23 PM EDT
We have "first Class", "Coach" why not add "Comes as you are" at a lower rate.
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by ratmonkeyx September 15, 2007 7:22 PM EDT
Oh yeah, Lynda White.. "THE FIRST LADY OF BULLS$I!"
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by ratmonkeyx September 15, 2007 7:08 PM EDT
I am absolutley appalled at the behavior of Southwest Airlines and can only hope that this will impact their busininess in an already competitive market. There was nothing wrong with the clothes the women were wearing. The only thing wrong with this picture is that someone actually complained! Fortunatley I think the generation that actually would take the time and effort to complain about this will be dead soon, along with their ridiculous and irrelevant standards.
Shame on American Airlines!
Shame on the hypocrites that have the gall to complain about such things!
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by michellem99-2009 September 15, 2007 5:46 PM EDT
I never wore the outfits the ladies wore..They do remind of the style they donned in the early 70s..I was never ever allowed to wear that.It violated my dress code. Foster mum would march my asre by to my room and CHANGE into the right blouse and skirt that went to knee..WHAT WOULD THE FLIGHT ATTENDANT DO IF A MAN DRESSED AS A WOMAN..If they be smart they shut that piehole..I have seen males dress that way. I do feel the ladies did show too much skin..So do men as they go shirtless. I use the city bus and the guys wear their pants too low.. the crack ..The driver has have to tell them to pull their pant up. The times they are a changing.
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by rushlimpdrug September 15, 2007 2:18 PM EDT
Posted by jmann27273

Common sense?
who''s common sense?
is it common sense or dictated morality?
I have seen people boarding planescoming from vacations wearing some very stupid clothes but that is their business, they are enjoying their life.
I have seen young men walking in public with their pants hanging below their azz with extensive underwear showing.
That is not common sense, yet allowed
Your common sense makes no sense.
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