Philanthropist Brooke Astor Dies At 105

Patron Of Culture And The Arts Believed Money Should Be "Spread Around"

(AP)  Brooke Astor, the civic leader, philanthropist and fixture of New York high society who gave away nearly $200 million to support the city's great cultural institutions and a host of humbler projects, died Monday at the age of 105.

Astor, recently the center of a highly publicized legal dispute over her care, died of pneumonia at Holly Hill, her Westchester County estate in Briarcliff Manor, family lawyer Kenneth Warner said.

"Brooke was a truly remarkable woman and an irreplaceable friend," longtime family friend David Rockefeller said. "She was the leading lady of New York in every sense of the word."

New York City Mayor Michael Bloomberg says Astor was the quintessential New Yorker and all are saddened by her death. Bloomberg, who has said that he plans to make philanthropy his next career, also praises her good will and kind nature and says New York would not be what it is today without her gracious support.

Astor, says Nancy Reagan, was a great lady. "We'll not see the likes of her again," said the former first lady.

Although a legendary figure in New York City and feted with a famous gala on her 100th birthday in March 2002, Astor was mostly interested in putting the fortune that husband, Vincent Astor, left to use where it would do the most to alleviate human misery.

Her efforts won her a Presidential Medal of Freedom, the nation's highest civilian honor, in 1998.

"Money is like manure, it should be spread around" - a line from a Thornton Wilder play - was Astor's oft-quoted motto. There was a lot to spread: Vincent Astor's great-great-grandfather John Jacob Astor made a fortune in fur trading and New York real estate.

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Photos: Brooke Astor

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Brooke Astor gave millions of dollars to what she called the city's "crown jewels" — among them the New York Public Library, Carnegie Hall, the Museum of Natural History, Central Park, the Bronx Zoo and the Metropolitan Museum of Art, where the flags were lowered to half-staff after her death.

But she also funded scores of smaller projects: Harlem's Apollo Theater; a new boiler for a youth center; beachside bungalow preservation; a church pipe organ; furniture for homeless families moving in to apartments.

It was a very personal sort of philanthropy.

"People just can't come up here and say, `We're doing something marvelous, send a check,"' she said. "We say, 'Oh, yes, we'll come and see it."'

The final year of Astor's life was marred by a family feud over her care, including allegations that the grand dame of society was forced to sleep on a couch that smelled of urine while subsisting on a diet of pureed peas and oatmeal. Court papers said her beloved dogs Boysie and Girlsie were kept locked in a pantry.

The allegations emerged in July 2006 court documents that provided a daily source of sensational headlines. In a settlement three months later, her son, Anthony Marshall, was replaced as her legal guardian with Annette de la Renta, wife of the fashion designer Oscar de la Renta.

[tikka12]

"Our Miss Brooks" was the name of a half-hour sitcom in the 1950s starring Eve Arden, a wisecracking actress of TV and earlier films. Miss Brooks was either a teacher or principal in a fictional high school. This TV show had nothing whatsoever to do with Brooke Astor, a private-life New York socialite. A socialite is a female whose primary occupation in life is hanging out in society circles -- galas, fund-raisers, lunches, private dinners, etc. To do this requires money which usually comes in the form of inheritance or husband. In modern times, she may also work at something. There are no age limits, so 105 is as good as 21.

[tikka12]

"Our Miss Brooks" was the name of a half-hour sitcom in the 1950s starring Eve Arden, a wisecracking actress of TV and earlier films. Miss Brooks was either a teacher or principal in a fictional high school. This TV show had nothing whatsoever to do with Brooke Astor, a private-life New York socialite. A socialite is a female whose primary occupation in life is hanging out in society circles -- galas, fund-raisers, lunches, private dinners, etc. To do this requires money which usually comes in the form of inheritance or husband. In modern times, she may also work at something. There are no age limits, so 105 is as good as 21.

[ijeannie]

isnt she the lady that people coined the term 'our miss brooks'?

[lanaedawn]

I believe that she is the embodiment of a socialite in the sense the word was supposed to be used. All these young girls running around spending daddy's money on cars and vacations and nights at Le Deux and Mr Chows are NOT socialites-they are spoiled brats.

[mudrose-2009]

A real live charmer. Why she was even declared a living landmark by the New York Conservancy and was award the Medal of Freedomby then President Clinton. Who could resist anyone who named her doggies "Boysie" and "Girlsie". And it was really interesting to note that Mrs. Astor coined the phrase, "Money is like manure; it should be spread around", a phrase used by the writers of Walter Matthau's character in Hello Dolly. Now we all know its origins. She also requested that the inscription on her tombstone read: "I had a wonderful life". Thanks to you, Mrs. Astor, many New Yorkers did too. God Bless you in your travels as you chart new waters in eternity.

[hollysetser]

I don't think it matters how old you are. Long has you have class ... as she did! ... regardless of money, you can do what you want. She was just a very classy lady that was blessed with money to do good things.

[obiwan234]

Can you call a 105 you old woman a "Socialite".

I guess when you are that old and have that kind of money you can be called anything you like.

[hazelknows]

dude looks like a lady..........

[thisandthat1]

I made a mistake ...Astor was her third and last husband....not the second.

[thisandthat1]

Yeah, Iceman, that was last year. It was in all the papers at the time. And, Olebd, one of her three husbands (the second one) was the grandson of John Jacob Astor, who went down with the Titanic. He left her about $67,000,000 plus lots of other good stuff when he died back in the 50's.

[olebd]

Seems like she had fun with all her money. How did she come about such good fortune?

Most importantly, I wonder if she left ME anything? I like having fun!

[iceman_1960]

Elder Abuse Controversy

"On July 26, 2006, the New York Daily News ran a front-page cover story on the family feud between Astor's son, Anthony Dryden Marshall, and her grandson Philip Cryan Marshall, regarding to the welfare of the centenarian Astor, then 104 years old. The story detailed how Astor's grandson, an historic preservationist and associate professor at Roger Williams University, had filed a lawsuit seeking the removal of his father as the socialite's guardian and the appointment of Annette de la Renta, the wife of designer Oscar de la Renta, instead.

According to accounts published in The New York Times and the New York Daily News, Astor was diagnosed with Alzheimer's Disease several years ago and suffered from anemia, among other ailments. The lawsuit alleges that Marshall has not provided for his elderly mother and, instead, he has allowed her to live in squalor and that he had cut back on necessary medication and doctor's visits, while enriching himself with income from her estate.

On August 8, William F. Buckley Jr., who lived in the same building as Astor, wrote about the ordeal in his syndicated column."

Source:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brooke_Astor#Elder_abuse_controversy

[thisandthat1]

kevsgrl ...."She relished her public role of benevolent dowager, and thrived on daily explorations of her adopted city." "Imagine the fun of it," she wrote in the foundation's annual report for 1995. She gave away the last of the Foundation's million's (total...about $250 million)in 1997 and shut it down. Doesn't sound to me like a woman slowly dying for decades. I read that she had been sick for the past few years ...but she was 105! I think you need to do a little more research.

[thisandthat1]

Thanks for that "life's lesson", but I just got done reading another article about her on another news site and she loved life and what she did. She had a wonderful life compared to most. I stick by my original post.

[kevzgrl]

Thisandthat1:
That much money certainly didn't buy her happiness or health, or didn't you know that she has been slowly dying of alzheimers and other illness for DECADES?
Personally, if I were that ill and had no possibility at all of getting better or enjoying life - I wouldn't want to keep going and going like the Energizer bunny. My husband and family know that the plug better be pulled, because to me, that is not a life at all.

[thisandthat1]

That much money and a long life! That's the way to do it. Was she a descendant of John Jacob?

[sofi2hot]

i remember when my grandmother used to tell us to be like "miss aster" and now i know who she is.. how odd...:o)