What's In A (Baby's) Name?

Many Parents Feeling Pressured To Pick "Perfect" Name For Their Newborn

(CBS)  Anyone who's been around kids lately knows there are far fewer Johns and Karens, and a lot more Jacobs and Kaitlyns.

More parents are putting lots of effort into selecting "perfect" names for their offspring, names they feel are distinctive, but not silly.

Why the obsession, and do names really matter?

Bruce Lansky, author of "The New Baby Name Survey Book," discussed it all on The Early Show Monday with co-anchor Harry Smith.

Lansky says almost every new parent has some anxiety over what to name his or her bundle of joy, but the pressure to give their child the "right name" has some overly worried: Will the name remind others of someone else? Will the name ruin the child's school years, riddling him or her with nicknames? How will the name shape the child's future? Is there too much attention on the child's name in the first place?

Lansky says names can convey an image or, in his words, branding for a child; they convey an impression.

"I don't know why it's more important now than before, but let me tell you what's feeding into the anxiety, or frenzy," Lansky remarked to Smith. "Parents (want) the best for their kids, and they wanna do their best by their kids. Now, anything they can do that moves their kids ahead, like a good education, is good. A good name can be like a good education, because it makes a quick, positive impression. And puts their kid ahead."

What about the concept of branding?

"If you name your kid Brittany," Lansky responded, "your child will be — people will think of Britney Spears. Right now that's not a good thing. If you name your child Paris, same thing, they'll think of the city, but they'll think of Paris Hilton, not a good thing right now. So, every name has an association. Tiffany, we think of that wonderful jewelry store that has a classy ring to it. So ... by picking a name, you're associating your child with something known. That's the branding idea."

He told Smith "Harry" is a "very cool, hip" name at the moment. "It brings to mind Harry Potter." But not long ago, Harry was associated with old fogies.

"Interestingly," Lansky pointed out, "if you were applying for college right now, Harry would have a very positive ring to it. But, think about these names: You're a college admission officer and you get a resume from somebody named Darrell, Bud, Elmer, Cletus. No sale!"

Does Lansky buy into it?

"Here's what I believe," he replied. "It gives you a head start. A name like Franklin or Harry says, 'This guy might really be a smart guy.' A name like Darrell says, 'He's in trouble.' "

The book lists a wide variety of first impressions, and names Lansky says now convey them.

To watch the segment, click here.

To see an excerpt of "The New Baby Name Survey Book," click here.

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[teavanalls]

I have a name for you. I have been unable to find out what if anything my name means. I have never found it in any "Baby Names" book. It is Teava - Jo Marie Pangborn. I know what Jo Marie Pangborn means but what about Teava? My mother says that she took all the people she has ever loved and wrote them down and picked letters from each. Example- "T" could stand for tommy or terry or even both. I do know that there is a drug company named "Teva" and a shoe (sandle) named "Teva". However I know the shoe came along after I was born, I am not sure about the drug company. I have also heard that there is a cartoon on "Nickoloden" that has a charicter named "Teava", I have not found that and I do not know if it is pronounced the same. Just to let you know how my name is pronounced "Tea" is like the tea you drink, "va" is the "v" sound and the "a" has the short "a" sound = "Teava". Can you help? Have you ever heard this name before? What does it mean, or does it even have a meaning?

[rational_1]

I just Googled Teava and came up with

http://books.google.com/books?id=mZMLAAAAIAAJ&pg=PA114&lpg=PA114&dq=teava&source=web&ots=KBK0CJZbNY&sig=aLkcd1YFBXmqEIxAsN53BfRcZmo

Seems some native pastor in a book was once named Teava. So, you can add one more Teava reference to your list.

By the way, I like it - very original.

[roseguz]

My daughter-in-law is about to name her new daughter Tupelo (like the town in Mississippi)with a last name of Guzauskas. Please comment.

[extremophil]

I always thought "Mongo" was the best name for boys, and "Hoggette" for girls.

[oleander8]

For good or bad - parents have always put a lot of thought into naming their off-spring.

[jdubs63]

RoseGuz.......oh no no no....but it your daughters choice. Think of a grandma endearing name like Tookie that you can use,,,,,,,, just my thoughts