CBS/AP/ February 11, 2009, 4:28 PM

Thousands Mourn Slain Connecticut Family

Thousands of friends and strangers crowded a memorial service Saturday for a slain Cheshire mother and her two daughters, many breaking down in tears as the lone survivor of the attacks eulogized his family.

Dr. William Petit Jr. still bore the bruises, gashes and other injuries inflicted by the attackers who killed his 48-year-old wife, Jennifer Hawke-Petit, and daughters, 17-year-old Hayley and 11-year-old Michaela, during a home invasion early Monday.

"I guess if there's anything to be gained from the senseless deaths of my beautiful family, it's for us all to go forward with the inclination to live with a faith that embodies action. Help a neighbor, fight for a cause, love your family," Petit told the crowd.

"I'm really expecting all of you to go out and do some of these things with your family, in your own little way, to spread the work of these three wonderful women. Thank you," he said before breaking down.

Mourners filled Central Connecticut State University's 1,800-seat Welte Hall and much of the overflow seating nearby. They included classmates of the girls, the family's fellow churchgoers, co-workers, members of the medical community and countless strangers.

Those who spoke focused on the Petit women's vibrant spirits and their love for each other, their community and their strong religious faith.

"As much as we weep, as much as we mourn their loss, as much as we miss them, God weeps with us," said Stephen Volpe, their pastor at Cheshire United Methodist Church.

Two parolees are charged with capital felony, assault, arson, sexual assault and numerous other crimes in the homicides. Cheshire police apprehended them early Monday as they tried to flee the house, where they allegedly held the family hostage for hours before killing the women and attempting to kill Dr. Petit.

The suspects, 26-year-old Joshua Komisarjevsky of Cheshire and 44-year-old Steven Hayes of Winsted, could face the death penalty if convicted. Both have lengthy criminal records and had been released earlier this year from prison.

One of the suspects forced Hawke-Petit to make a withdrawal at a local bank, an incident that triggered suspicion among bank employees. Police were notified and rushed to the Petit home, where they encountered the fleeing suspects and found the family's home ablaze.

Dr. Petit had been badly beaten and was bound in the basement, but managed to escape the fire. The bodies of his family were found inside.

Hawke-Petit was strangled and her daughters died of smoke inhalation as the house burned around them, according to autopsy results and police.

The crime has unnerved local residents, reports CBS News correspondent Randall Pinkston.

"This (type of) thing doesn't happen in Cheshire," said Lt. Jay Markella of the Cheshire Police Department. "We're the type of community where people go to bed and they don't lock their doors."

The family is well-known in the state. Dr. Petit, 50, is the medical director of the Joslin Diabetes Center Affiliate at The Hospital of Central Connecticut in New Britain and president of the Hartford County Medical Association.

His wife of 22 years was a health center director at the Cheshire Academy, and daughter Michaela attended Chase Collegiate School in Waterbury.

Hayley Petit, who recently graduated from Miss Porter's School in Farmington, had received an early acceptance to Dartmouth, her father's alma mater.

Dr. Petit, who spoke lovingly about his family for nearly 20 minutes Saturday, read from Hayley's college essay to Dartmouth.

In the essay, titled "My Dad," she told about trailing her father's long, white doctor's coat tails through the hospital hallways on Saturdays, and how he made patients feel safe.

Dr. Petit said he understood that feeling this week while he was being treated at St. Mary's Hospital in Waterbury.

"Everybody there was beautiful and angels to me," he said. "I knew I had to leave to get out for the services, but it did feel safe. And part of me wanted to hide there and not face things."
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gunownerdan says:
Criminals Prefer Defenseless Victims.
Self defense is the most basic of all human rights.
If you are being attacked by a dangerous criminal or if someone is threatening your life with force, it is legal in all 50 states to protect yourself by any means possible.
Guns are a huge responsibility and if you are capable of owning a deadly weapon and learning how to use it safely and properly, nothing can stop criminals and prevent crime like an alert and armed victim.
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jasbek says:
There is no one that works harder for their money than doctors. Hours of grueling education and years of paying off student loans. They deserve every penny they get. And NO, I'm not a doctor, and I am not wealthy. I'm just not jealous of people's money. I think it is wonderful when someone works hard for what they get. And if they are born into wealth, good for them, who are we to judge. I'm sure these people on here wouldn't complain if it was their money. Sad, sad, pitiful enviousness.
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skalpakian says:
"500 other murders that happened that same week, many of them by cops shooting innocent people"

SharnCedar, you lost all credibility after that stupid sentence.

Your hatred of hard work and success shows through clearly. Why assume the family was rich by inheritance or such (who haven't lived with silver spoons in their mouths)? Maybe, I know it sounds foreign to you, the doctor and his wife worked hard, made something of themselves, and EARNED their wealth.

go back to your pitiful sour life.
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googess says:
I think you are wrong about about there being only a concern for the rich, SharnCedar. I believe that with this horrible of a crime, the public would have responded in a smiliar way if the family had been poor. Particularly when you think about those girls being tied to their beds, raped repeatedly, beaten, and set on fire!!!

As far as the number at the funeral, I'm sure there were some curiousity seekers. But having been a nurse and involved in a church and community it is absolutely unreal how many people you meet. The girls alone most likely had nearly their entire schools show up also.

No, the world doesn't stop for each person murdered. When/if we read about them we say to ourselves that it is terrible, but when you read about things happening to children that are so unspeakable, do you not think that touches the depths of our souls and we grieve also?

I feel very sorry for you that you have the feelings you do. Slam the rich and powerful all you want, but not when it concerns an event such as this. Shame on you amd the others who have made negative comments.
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sharncedar says:
The saddest thing about this is the 500 other murders that happened that same week, many of them by cops shooting innocent people, and no 1000 phonies showed up at their funeral. It looks like there is concern or compassion only for the rich, only for those living in million dollar houses in fancy neighborhoods.

How bout some of you phonies shed just one tear for someone who isn't rich and powerful. How about just one tear for some of our soldiers murdered in Iraq, how about one tear for the victims of those scummy filthly Connecticut types whose investments and manipulations lead to the suicides of the good Americans who lose their jobs. There isn't even a mention in the press for the victims of the rich, they go to their graves silent and without a voice, not only brutually murdered by the media and the elite but their tongues ripped out, their voice silent, their death almost celebrated by the powerful.

Have any tears for the pizza delivery guy who was shot and killed near my home the other day? No? I guess he's not a rich elite murderous phony from Connecticut, just an honest man trying to make a living in a country outsourced and raped by the rich.

There are plenty of people to pity who deserve your pity, who haven't lived with silver spoons in their mouths and praise all their lives while they take the best of everything. This family deserves pity too, but no more than anyone else, certainly 1000 people at the funeral is a gross insult to God and to our country.
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zootallures2 says:
What about the innocent victims in Iraq or all over the world. Why are these people such a big deal?
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mo005 says:
nurse72: amen
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mo005 says:
neenga : People such as yourself have way to much time on your hands. They beat this guy with a baseball bat, then left him for dead in the basement. Then raped and tortured his wife and kids. I think he got the raw end of the deal, they are upstairs(heaven). While he will relive this moment till the day he dies. You must have this mistaken for dirty harry, where the guy has himself beatin up so he can frame harry. If they had just been shot and then burned the girls I could see the father lookin kinda guilty, but not like this. I think it is fate that this guy lived through this at all.
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prinzowhales says:
What is saddest is that nothing will change... the thousands will go home from the funeral and agee with each other about how heart wrenching it all was, flip on the TV and retreat into oblivion... the real murderers of these three women--the legislators, the judges, the pardons and parole bureaucrats, the mealy-mouthed academics and unctuous ACLU types will all go back to work on Monday and get their rice bowls filled with taxes paid, in part, by Dr. Petit.
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deepperppl says:
When the attack first happened, and I found out the father was still alive, I of course was suspicious of his motives and all that. But the man that I've come to know through articles and news reports cannot have possibly done this to his family. If you remember, early on, one of the men confessed to seeing the mom and one of the girls at a store and followed them home. There is no proof to substantiate any relationship at all between the father and the murderers. Anyone who hasn't figured out now that the father is just plain lucky to be alive hasn't been paying attention. Thank God he survived, and pray he will be able to move on from such a horrific experience. Being beaten nearly to death and tied to a chair while his daughters and wife were upstairs must have led him to all kinds of horrible conclusions about what was going on above his head. I pray he can find some comfort from friends and family, and I hope he will finally feel safe again. Nothing makes a person question their own safety more than being attacked, especially in his own home!
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