February 11, 2009 4:47 PM

Mother Hangs Self And 4 Daughters

(CBS/AP)  A young mother who may have been depressed apparently hanged three of her small daughters and herself in a closet using pieces of clothing and sashes, authorities said Tuesday.

A fourth child, an 8-month-old daughter, was also found dangling in the closet but was rescued by her aunt from the family's mobile home.

"It's horrendous. That's all I can say," Parker County Sheriff Larry Fowler said.

The woman was identified as Gilberta Estrada, 25. The infant, Evelyn Frayre, was in good condition at a hospital, Fowler said. Authorities did not immediately identify the other children, but Fowler said they were apparently ages 5, 3 and 2.

Filly Echeverria, who said she was the children's godmother, identified the dead as Maria Teresa Estrada, Janet Frayre and Magaly Frayre.

Estrada and her girls were last seen alive Monday evening, Fowler said. The woman's sister had gone to check on her because she hadn't gone to work, Fowler said. The woman works at a local Wendy's restaurant, CBS station KTVT reports.

Estrada's sister discovered the baby was still alive when she made a noise, authorities said. She called 911 and said through sobs that the infant was dying. She and her daughter called back two more times to ask the ambulance to hurry, according to a tape of the calls.

The sheriff said the hangings appeared to be murder-suicide because the trailer's doors were locked from the inside and a relative said the woman had been depressed.

The young mother and her girls were last seen alive Monday evening, he said.

The sheriff said Estrada had won a temporary restraining order in August against Gregorio Frayre Rodriguez, who was believed to be the father of the infant and some of the other children, after an attack on Estrada.

The sheriff said the couple had stopped living together in February. Tuesday was the first emergency police call to Estrada's trailer, and authorities said there was no evidence that Frayre abused the girls.

A telephone listing for Frayre, 38, could not immediately be located.

"I just got a big kick out of watching the kids play over there on her porch, and today it's sad, very sad," neighbor Joyce Harris said as other trailer park residents milled about on their porches, some crying and talking softly about the deaths.

Estrada's trailer was dilapidated, with paint peeling off the brown and white mobile home. Cactus plants and a rose bush decorated the front. Toys and a bicycle littered the back yard.

Texas has seen a number of child killings by mothers in recent years.

Less than five years earlier, another Hudson Oaks family was torn apart when Dee Etta Perez, 39, shot her three children, ages 4, 9 and 10, before killing herself.

Andrea Yates drowned her five children in the family's Houston bathtub in 2001. In 2003, Deanna Laney beat her two young sons to death with stones in East Texas, and Lisa Ann Diaz drowned her daughters in a Plano bathtub. Dena Schlosser fatally severed her 10-month-old daughter's arms with a kitchen knife in 2004.

All four of those women were found innocent by reason of insanity. Yates initially was convicted of capital murder, but that verdict was overturned on appeal.

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by gypsyartist7 June 1, 2007 8:15 PM EDT
It is amazing to read the lack of compassion and understanding for this woman's plight in many of these posts, and the amount of hindsight judgment for her based on individual experiences and feelings. We do not have enough information to judge, or condemn, this woman. However, we are individually empowered to right a wrong... if you think it was wrong what this woman did, try doing something to change: volunteering at a woman's shelter... starting a community support program for women in similar situations... treating the person behind the fast food counter with dignity and respect... just talking to a stranger who may look down & out.

A change in just one person can affect change in the destiny of a community, nation, and all humankind!
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by jori1368 June 1, 2007 1:23 AM EDT
When I was 25, I was diagnosed with a mental illness. At 26, I couldn't afford my medication, and became suicidal. At the time, my best bet seemed to me to kill my daughter first so she wouldn't be alone after I killed myself. Thank God that others saw my depression and stepped in. We have no way of knowing what this poor woman was thinking. I can't think of anything more horrible than harming one's own children, but I have been in that place. But for the grace of God, I could've been another headline...don't judge her, try and help others who may be in the same pain as she must have been in.
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by jcajc1 May 31, 2007 9:27 PM EDT
IAM 23 I HAVE FOUR KIDS BUT I WOULD NEVER HURT MY KIDS.SO I DONT UNDERSTAND WHAT SHE WAS THINKING WHEN SHE DID WHAT SHE DID.MY HEART GOES OUT TO THE FAMILY.BUT TO OTHER YOUNG MOTHERS WHO HAVE KIDS. THERE IS HELP IF YOU CANT TAKE CARE OF THEM.IF YOU ARE DEPRESSED GET HELP RIGHT AWAY.SO JUST BECAUSE SHE HAD KIDS AT 23 DOSENT MEAN SHE WAS A UNFIT MOTHER.NO ONE KNOWS WHAT WAS GOING THROUGH HER HEAD WHEN SHE KILLED HER SELF AND HER KIDS.ONLY GOD KNOWS WHY SHE DID IT.BUT SHE DIDNT HAVE TO DO WHAT SHE DID IF SHE WAS HAVING PROBLEMS.SO IT DOSENT MADDER IF SHE WAS 23 OR 25 WHEN SHE HAD FOUR KIDS THIS COULD HAPPEN AT ANY AGE.SO GET HELP RIGHT AWAY OR IF YOU SEE A FAMILY MEMBER OR A FRIEND WHO IS DEPRESSED GET THEM HELP.
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by runonthebus May 31, 2007 7:49 PM EDT
there is a website called aidpage.com for women without good fathers. i would have packed the kids up and moved out of state .... she could have adopted the children out if it was getting to be to much. my sad day!
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by wiccantexan May 31, 2007 3:35 PM EDT
Apparently she DID try to get help. See below.
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When a pregnant Gilberta Estrada-Vega arrived with her children at the SafeHaven women's shelter last summer, the staff at the Fort Worth shelter figured the 25-year-old would be one of their success stories. But it didn't turn out that way.

http://www.kvue.com/news/top/stories/053107kvuedeadfolo-eh.89add.html
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by wiccantexan May 30, 2007 7:19 PM EDT
What is she thinking have 4 kids by the time she is 23 and can barely care for herself?
Posted by bequialife at 04:09 PM : May 30, 2007

We DON'T know what she was thinking, or whether she even thought she had the option of saying no. Maybe "no" would have lost her her man; maybe "no" was not medically available (insurance). Maybe "no" was not an option for a "good wife" whose job it is to procreate.

We don't know what she was thinking. We don't know if she felt she had options. We don't know.
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by bequialife May 30, 2007 7:09 PM EDT
to: ov442

Uh, no, society is not responsible for people, people are responsible for people. This county offers endless opportunities for people to do something, or enhance their lives, starting with free education until 17(or 18) years of age. Programs, and training opportunites available for inexpensive, sometimes free. Mistakes are preventable, especially this woman. What is she thinking have 4 kids by the time she is 23 and can barely care for herself?
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by wiccantexan May 30, 2007 6:55 PM EDT
So texan you are saying the kids were better off with the mother??? The father most likely didn't want the kids and I bet he would be more then happy to rid himself of the child support he was paying to this woman.
Posted by itwasntme000 at 03:33 PM : May 30, 2007

No, I'm saying that just handing them over to someone else is too simplistic; there are other factors involved. It's easy to say "hand them over," but it's useless. Come up with something more substantial than the pat response.

There is no legal separation in Texas, so he may or may not have been paying any child support. Again, a pat answer and simplistic supposition, but functionally useless.
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by itwasntme000 May 30, 2007 6:33 PM EDT
DONT HAVE KIDS IF YOU CANT TAKE CARE OF THEM..... THEY'RE ARE CHILDREN'S SERVICE CENTER FOR PEOPLE THAT CANT TAKE CARE OF THEM...Posted by cparton at 01:30 PM : May 30, 2007

To give them up would have required the father's consent; she can't just hand them over. And they likely would have then gone to the abusive spouse.

Try again.
Posted by WiccanTexan at 03:04 PM : May 30, 2007

So texan you are saying the kids were better off with the mother??? you are saying the kids are better off dead then with their father who was abusive to this woman??? (possibly abusive on one occasion or maybe many... dosen't matter). It also dosen't mean he would be abusive to the kids. ANyway tho that is not my point. The father most likely didn't want the kids and I bet he would be more then happy to rid himself of the child support he was paying to this woman.

AS YOU SO ELOQUENTLY PUT IT T-R-Y A-G-A-I-N
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by wiccantexan May 30, 2007 6:04 PM EDT
DONT HAVE KIDS IF YOU CANT TAKE CARE OF THEM..... THEY'RE ARE CHILDREN'S SERVICE CENTER FOR PEOPLE THAT CANT TAKE CARE OF THEM...Posted by cparton at 01:30 PM : May 30, 2007

To give them up would have required the father's consent; she can't just hand them over. And they likely would have then gone to the abusive spouse.

Try again.
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