February 11, 2009 4:57 PM

Online Gaming Isn't Just Child's Play

By
Christine Lagorio
(CBS)  To her son Josh, she's just Mom. In the small Arkansas town where she lives, she's Kay. But it took years for Kay Johnson to admit who she really is, CBS News science and technology correspondent Daniel Sieberg reports.

"A recovering addict," Johnson said. "I'm a former gaming addict."

She's not talking about gambling, but an addiction to computer games. For nearly four years, Johnson immersed herself in a never-ending online adventure game called Final Fantasy. In it, players battle creatures, go on quests and socialize with others. For Kay, it was all so alluring that she shut out the real world as her Internet addiction took over.

"My children would come up to talk to me and I'd say, 'wait, wait, Mom's busy. I'll be done in a minute … just give Mommy another minute,'" Johnson said.

These minutes became hours as she played day and night.

"It was my world. It was everything that was anything to me," she said. "My kids, I loved them and I would be there for them, but this is where all my time went."

That was a problem, considering she has two teenage boys, one with special needs. Johnson was playing online around 50 hours a week — but incredibly, her husband was playing even more.

"I had seen the side of my husband's face and the back of his head probably more than I've seen his face during most of our marriage, because he was sitting at the computer," she said.


Her husband declined to be interviewed on camera but acknowledged both of them were obsessed by the game. She says they were so obsessed they both stopped working, sending their finances into a tailspin.

"We would take the credit cards and pay the electric light, the groceries and the rent — and, of course, that adds up to a lot of money," she said.

Johnson's case is extreme. Sieberg says he's among the millions play who play and don't get addicted. Even so, many games now come with a warning, reminding players to "have a life." In fact, Internet addiction may soon become an official psychiatric diagnosis.

"It turns out that Internet addiction can be almost identical to other forms of chemical addictions," said Dr. Eric Hollander of the Mount Sinai School of Medicine in New York.

Hollander treats impulsive behavior, and says that some people's brains are simply wired in a way that makes them vulnerable to addiction. Whether it's alcohol, cocaine or even the computer, quitting causes withdrawal.

"They can experience all kinds of uncomfortable physical sensations when they try to cut back on their Internet use," Hollander said.

He prescribes counseling and sometimes anti-depressants like Lexapro, mood stabilizers like lithium and opiate blockers like Naltrexone. But Johnson quit cold turkey — and took her anger out on the game.

She took the gaming disks and … "I crushed them!" she said.

Johnson has decided to file for divorce, and is determined to remain "game free." She also wants to send a message that even what looks like child's play must be taken in adult moderation.

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by victor_59 April 25, 2010 3:06 AM EDT
The woman in the video could have traded her game disks into a second hand store for money instead of crushing it. There are people who don't mind buying it second hand.
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by airaddiction May 4, 2007 2:11 AM EDT
I have to discourage the stupidity, what better way than to tell them how stupid they're?
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by whm75smn37 May 3, 2007 11:59 PM EDT
. Air... your comments are extremely rude and uncalled for. If you play WoW.. go find an elite mob and give it a hug.. If you play FFXI.. go say Hi to Jorm.. or just grow up and learn to state your opinion in a respectful manner. ^_^ While I may not believe in being "addicted" to a game. I do know people who have had rl problems due to games.

Sorry for the misinterpretation of "enabler" yall still got my point. . I think. Right?

Kay,

You said on the forums you were helping real people with real problems. I met one of my best friends through an online game. And I went to his funeral last year. He passed away due to complications from a surgery. It was the first time that I'd 'met' him. However, it most definately was a real friendship. I'd known him just over 10 years, and watched him grow up. ; ;

I just thought I'd check what all new has been posted. Bout to leave work. LoL
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by airaddiction May 3, 2007 10:12 PM EDT
Of course after stating I should go elsewhere to argue over it, you attempt to start an argument with me over it, then tell me to go away for lack of information over said argument.

Unfortuneately, I wasn't arguing over video game violence. I was comparing it's argument to this dumb article on video game addiction though, if I was anti-gaming you'd have done a great job.

Sadly, I'm not, and you've just made a hypocritical dumb *** out of yourself.

How long have you been checking for my reply now?

es addiction~
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by psykiblue May 3, 2007 9:57 PM EDT
Actually there was no arguement that I could tell. You are immature and childish, I dont need to argue you it. You prove that all by yourself. Anyone reading your responses who have any sembalance of intelligence will dismiss yours as immature ranting.

No one has blamed video games here for anything. If you had the brains to read, listen and learn you'd realize that its not about blaming gaming its talking about how gaming can cause problems just like anything else in the universe. Unless course you've had someone leave you over games. Then again by the way you respond who could blame them.

Bringing in the videogame/violence point is irrevelant to this discussion. If you want to debate that point with someone go elsewhere to another forum where the topic of conversation is about that particular subject. As for personally, statistically people who play video games violent or otherwise are actually more creative then those who dont. Statistically speaking kids who play violent video games are no more likely to hurt anyone else then those who dont.

There are too many extravariables in any kind of situation where violence is borne out of those kids who use it to hurt people. Such as bullying, abuse at home etc. So before you start spouting something off that has no relevance do your research. Time to get off your soapbox before your alligator gets you.
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by airaddiction May 3, 2007 9:48 PM EDT
In other words, "I'm going to repeat myself until you agree with me, because I don't actually have an argument."

You're just another idiot so unwilling to admit you're stupid that you had to find another reason for your problems.

If a kid shoots somebody the parents use video games as the scapegoat...so you must have an addiction!

Yes that's right folks! If you're fat, ugly, and have no life you're suffering from video game addiction. You can't simply quit or limit your time, you need help.(and possibly drugs)

Step 1 - Admit it.

Step 2 - Join a pointless group of people so lame they need a support group.

Step 3 - Talk about your gaming/internet addiction on the internet. Justify this by pretending your existence is somehow meaningful now.
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by theexhere May 3, 2007 9:40 PM EDT
I have a feeling now that they've gotten/are getting a divorce, much of their addictions will subside. The Ex no longer has to worry about his relationship crumbling so he won't need to hide from it. Sometimes the simplest way is exactly what needs to happen.
Posted by melodyl at 02:09 PM : May 03, 2007

That pretty much sums it up melody. I haven't played any games in almost 2 months now. I've even started working on weight loss/exercise and quit smoking and been successful at both so far.

When I first started to talk about this situation I too was under the impressino that there was no such thing as addiction to video games. I looked at it as though there was no physical connection so it couldn't be addiction. I was wrong. The mental addiction is just as real. I don't think I was addicted as much as I feel I was obsessed with goals in the game and escape from my real world troubles.
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by psykiblue May 3, 2007 9:30 PM EDT
your responses are immature and childish airaddiction. Perhaps it is you who should be meeting the alligator soon.

again, like i've said when you overcome your shortsightedness let us know then perhaps you'll be able to communicate as an adult would. As of right now you act as an immature child would.
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by airaddiction May 3, 2007 9:16 PM EDT
I'll stop treating you like idiots when you stop acting like idiots?

Seriously...

Are you people really so homely & lonely you have to join hypocritical groups of idiots like gamerwidow feel needed?
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by airaddiction May 3, 2007 9:15 PM EDT
I'll stop treating you like idiots when you stop acting like idiots?

Seriously...

Are you people really so homely & lonely you have to join hypocritical groups of idiots like gamerwidow feel needed?
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