Could You Call Oprah A Nappy-Headed Ho?
Nancy Giles Says It's Time For White Men To Stop Monopolizing Media
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Could Don Imus have gotten away with calling Oprah names like he did the women of the Rutgers basketball team? Probably not. (AP Photo/Denis Farrell)
Try calling Oprah a nappy-headed ho...
So now "Imus in the Morning" is history, and an aging, wanna-be "hip" shock jock bites the dust. Okay. But what about the other highly-paid and big-money-generating windbags like Rush Limbaugh, Bill O'Reilly, Michael Savage, Glenn Beck and Pat Robertson? Where's the outrage there?
For that matter, can we once and for all boycott the rap and hip-hop performers and the record labels who've generated billions by disrespecting women and "re-branding" self-hate into a cool cultural phenomenon. Hel-looo!
And just so you know, the women of the Rutgers basketball team were way too busy competing, breaking records, and putting themselves through college to be "hos." And none of them had nappy hair, either. Oh, before I forget, here's a general rule: Never, ever talk about a black woman and her hair. Just don't do it. It's too loaded. Too historic. Too judgmental. Too many products. It's just too — just leave it alone. Trust me.
The one silver lining here is that Don Imus' offensive remark has the whole country talking. And it's about time we talk about matters of race, gender and class. But take a look at who controls the conversation: Rush Limbaugh, Bill O'Reilly, Sean Hannity, Tucker Carlson, Joe Scarborough, Anderson Cooper, Charles Gibson, Brian Williams, Keith Obermann, Bill Maher, John Stewart, Stephen Colbert, Al Franken, Howard Stern, and Opie and Anthony.
From network and cable news, to morning drive and talk radio, and even satirical comedy on TV, it's a mostly white male boys' club, both in front and behind the scenes. And that's got to change.
Women are a presence in mass media. But more women's voices must be heard. We can do morning drive and talk radio. More of us should be in the mix. We've earned it. We work, consume, vote, and we're in the majority. Hey, we gave birth to you guys! (Well, some of us did — I personally didn't, but you get my point.) Even Imus has a mother.
Because guys, this just isn't funny anymore.
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It's about time a voice of reason pointed out the pervasive lack of respect for ALL women in our media and culture.
As a professional actress who recently found herself invisible after turning 50 (Just wait - your turn will come), I have long lamented the disconnect between the perception of women in the media and the reality that surrounds me. I proudly wear a Hillary Clinton for President wrist band and live in hope that we will triumph over these no-longer acceptable perceptions.
Robin Douglas
And like all who stay on the edge too long, they fall off.
The I-man went over the cliff.
Lash
LOL
Anna
Are these inconvenient truths or is it okay for Hymie in Hymietown to be disparaged by a prominent black spokesman, and Reverend. And please forget the excuse that it was said off the record, he said it, therefore, as Don Imus is accused, believes it.
Are we saying "it's ok to teach hatred and intolerence at home, as long as no one sees us."
Why should freedom of speech work for some but others not.
I find it insulting that some white guy thinks he can figure out what%u2019s ok for me to hear. It doesn%u2019t matter if he asks Al Sharpton or the staff at his network, consults his Ouija board, or pulls a guess out his ***. He will only know how I feel if I tell him.
People act like black people are so fragile that some words are like Kryptonite to Superman. When we hear them we are suppose to melt like a wet Wicked Witch of the West. Anyone expecting a %u201CThank you Massa for protecting your little pickaninnies.%u201D from me is going to be disappointed.
Imus said that his 2 week suspension was appropriate. This whole thing has been such a mess that I have no idea if Don Imus even wants to come back after that, but if he does I%u2019ve reached the point where I%u2019m ready to protest CBS, MSNBC, and his sponsors if he isn%u2019t rehired.
And lastly. If you chose to use Imus to make your stand I feel sorry for you. Nancy the highest court in the nation has stated that the KKK can believe in what they want no matter how misdirected. We can not afford to have people be the word police and what I can and can not say. Freedom of speech does not stop when it offends someone. And since when do you have the right to chose my words!
(c)rap "artists" a while back for standing up against the objectification of black women? The question is: will the commercial community check themselves in the same way for what has continuously been spewed on music TV and local radio for way too long?
If anyone is a "ho" - then I'd look to Sharpton and Jackson first. Preachers I know preach forgiveness in the public square. Please, tell me their credentials again???
Rosie O'Donnell said some Christians are worse than Muslim extremists; others, especially on the bankrupt Air America network, call our President a murderer, a terrorist, and worst. There are plenty of Black commentators who spew hatred of Whites. Rappers who make millions calling Black women Hos and ***. The list is endless, and not limited to the few prominent Conservative commentators she cited.
By revealing how narrow-minded and biased you are, you have marginalized yourself, and other women and minorities, even more. How can anyone take you seriously?
Unfortunately, Ms Giles also exhibits a classic example of bias and of the racist double standard that allows African Americans to uses unacceptable labels. She only gives examples of conservative commentator "blowhards" and of couse we all know that refering to Caucasians as "White Boys" is OK if you are Black. God forbid if any black over the age of 12 is called a boy. This kind of commentary only works to divide the country and frankly most caucasians no longer have any guilt over the plight of black america. The lack of real condemnation of black racism and self destructive behavior is hurting all America and especially African Americans. Continuing to cry wolf by blaming "white boys" for most of Black America's problems sometimes makes the valid claims of racism to be treated with less urgency. Too bad many of all races can't remember the following pearls of wisdom; that all men are created equal and they should be known by the content of their character rather than the color of their skin.
If people's jobs, reputation, or social status are not stake when degrading someone's race, then people would be saying what's on their mind. The fear of retaliation and dire consequence prevents most people from saying what the 'truth' is.
I'm sure that this whole situation with Imus wouldn't have been blown out of proportion if it weren't for Sharpton. If the Rutgers b-ball team is OK with the whole situation, then why can't other people?
I am white, so I can only assume that if there were non-white men in the list, it would be a mens club?
I agree with the person who posted earlier about Ms. Giles being a little hostile/angry at the subject matter and basically "firing back" in a rather inappropriate way.
I have determined that I will not watch this program unless CBS can address this matter of a racist remark on her program.
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by pared1
April 17, 2007 9:19 PM PDT
- Could You Call Oprah A Nappy-Headed Ho?
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See all 27 Commentsummm you mean she isn't?