Climber's Widow Tells Her Story
Karen James Tells Katie Couric Her Husband Kelly 'Loved Life So Much'
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Climber's Widow On The Tragedy
Karen James, the widow of Mount Hood climber Kelly James, speaks exclusively with Katie Couric. James says she's not angry with her husband; instead, she's thankful for the time she had with him.
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Climber's Widow On Her Husband
Karen James, the widow of Mt. Hood climber Kelly James, talks exclusively with Katie Couric about her husband. She says he was an optimist who always wanted people to make the best of their lives.
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Mt. Hood Climber's Widow Talks
Katie Couric sits down for an exclusive interview with Karen James, the widow of Mount Hood climber Kelly James. Watch the entire interview tonight on the "CBS Evening News."
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Karen James speaks with Katie Couric in Dallas, Dec. 21, 2006. (CBS)
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Kelly James, February 2006 (AP/CHRISTOPHER FORD)
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Snowbound On Mt. Hood
Climbers missing on blizzard-ravaged Oregon peak.
She had good reason to hold on to hope. The 48-year-old landscape architect was a 25-year veteran mountaineer who had already successfully scaled some of the most treacherous summits in the world.
But on Sunday, 12 days after Kelly James and his two companions, Brian Hall and Jerry Cooke, began their hazardous trek up Mount Hood, his family's worst fears were realized.
Though an autopsy revealed no broken bones, officials have speculated some kind of injury led him to take refuge in the snow cave that would become his tomb. But James, a father of four children, chose not to tell his family about the gravity of his situation when he placed his last cell phone call to them on Dec. 10.
CBS Evening News anchor Katie Couric sat down for an exclusive interview with Karen James.
Karen James: It's the kind of a call that you would never want to receive. And so, we both were acting, and it was like there was nothing wrong. I could tell by his voice that he was in trouble. And I told him I just decorated the Christmas tree and that he needed to come home and see it. He said he would. And I told him I loved him. He told me he loved me. And I told him to stay warm and stay awake.
Katie Couric: He told you he was cold and only had a half an orange?
James: He told the boys that, that he was cold and he was wet and he was weak.
Couric: Karen, it was a week between that last cell phone conversation and when Kelly was found. I can't imagine what that week was like for you.
James: Every morning, the only thing I wanted to do was try to save my husband. And from the moment I woke up till the moment I went to bed, I would talk to him and tell him to hold on. It was all-consuming. But I'll tell you, the rescue workers, the Sheriff's Department, everybody up there, it was a family. It was in the worst of the worst we saw the best of the best.
Couric: Karen, when word came that they had found Kelly, what did they tell you?
James: The sheriff came in and he said, "I have bad news. We have a body and it's deceased. And we need to identify it." I said, "look for Kelly's ring." The rescue worker that came to see Frank, he found Kelly, he said that when he walked into the cave it was so peaceful, and so serene. And there was Kelly. He was lying on his side with his head on his pack like we've seen a million times when he's been camping. And he had taken off his right glove, and he folded every finger back except the signature ring and put it out. And he knew. He wanted to be identified, and he wanted to come home to us. And when we told the kids, they were so proud of him because he had, he was still thinking of us, to say "look who I am, and it's time to come home."
Couric: Is there any part of you that's angry that he did this?
James: I'm not angry. I'm really sad our journey is over, for a while. And I miss him terribly. But he loved life so much, and he taught me how to love. He taught me how to live. And I don't know how you can be angry at someone who loved their family, who loved God, and had so many friends and gave back so much more than he took.
Couric: Kelly had four children when you all got married. His kids range from 12 to 25, and Jack's just 12.
James: Kelly loved his kids more than life itself. The kids were everything to him. Kelly taught them so much.
Couric: How do you think Kelly would want people to remember him?
James: Kelly was the biggest optimist you'd ever meet. And Kelly really wanted people to seize the day and he lived every day to the fullest, love as much as you can, live as much as you can and appreciate people around you. And he's taught me that, and he's taught the kids that. And that's why I kind of feel I hit the lottery of life in men because I got to take a journey, and it wasn't long enough, but I got to take a journey with a man who just took me to the moon the back. And I'm very thankful for that.
James: Kelly had this little ornament, and he's had it since he was little. And it's a manger. It's just this little plastic thing. And it's always the tradition that Jack and Kelly put it on the tree together. And so I said this Christmas, we're going to put that ornament on the tree. And one of the things that we really understand about Christmas is that little baby born in a barn is the reason our family has so much strength now. And that is really important to Kelly.
Couric: It sounds as if your faith was strengthened by this whole ordeal. But it must have been tested, too.
James: No, it was never tested. And Kelly said, you know, I remember one time we were watching TV and he said to me, "I can't wait to go to heaven." And I said, "What?" We were watching some show that had nothing to do with it. And he said, "Yeah, that's going to be really cool." And I said, "You know, can you, can you hold off? Can we ... can we wait?" But he wasn't scared. And so those conversations are what I hold on to.
Couric: Is there any lesson for either other climbers or just for people in general from what's happened?
James: I've told a friend, a colleague of mine who I work with, hold your wives really, really tight because you don't know when our journey's going to end. And my journey ended with an 'I love you." And ... for others, if their journey ends with an "I love you," it's a lot to hold onto.
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See all 64 CommentsThose stories are just as important as this one, but of course they can't all occupy 10 minutes of the Evening News. This story should not have either. CBS Evening News, formerly the home of real news, has clearly lost its way. I won't waste my time with it again.
If I wanted to watch these type of interviews, I
can tune into to oprah or jerry springer.
What ever happened to real news stories on the
evening news! I know there must have been many more real news stories that were cut to accomodate this lengthy piece.
Is this still a news program?????
Sincerely,
As I always do, the CBS Evening News was on TiVo tonight. But, before watching, I was reading the blogs online about your piece with the wife of the climber who lost his life. While I simply do not understand how people with families can put themselves in such danger (like climbing a mountain in an impeding snowstorm), your story with Mrs. James tonight was more than that %u2013 it was a story of faith. While I am not married nor do I have children, I can only but imagine the loss to her and their children this Christmas season. The story of her faith and resounding spirit was a perfect story tonight, and it could not have come at a better time of year. Perhaps her loss will make us all hold our loved ones a little bit closer this Christmas, and be truly thankful for what matters in our lives %u2013 friends, family%u2026 and, of course, a little bit of faith.
Thanks, again, for sharing her story. I encourage everyone with negative views of your coverage to dig deeper to the real meaning of it and to remember the %u201Creason for the season.%u201D
Adam, 27
Morgantown, West Virginia
If she does not want to do the news maybe it is time to say Good-Bye Katie.
The interveiw with Karen James was fantastic. It showed that there are other things going on in the world than just a war. Some people might disagree and think that you should do the whole show in the war, but I think you should do things that are going on ALL OVER the world. You are doing a great job on the evening news! Keep up the good work!!!!
Let's try to be impartial though. Let's look at it from the pro side.
We see that there is a grieving widow who still believes in god. She's happy she had a small amount of time with her husband before he climbed a mountain in the middle of winter with an orange to eat. Ok. that's good. Believe in a higher power and be happy with what you have. That's a good message for alot of people. Now, did we have to pull a grieving woman in from of the USA to accomplish this? I'm thinking no. But it's a decent message and it's good to share good messages from time to time. But if we look at it from the perspective of Couric's career, it doesn't seem like the best move. She's doing Barbara Walters interviews when she should be delving into the ********* called Iraq. She should be flying to Darfur to see what's really happening. If she wants to get out of Dan Rather's shadow at least.
From the con side? Well, I think everyone else sums that up pretty well. Exploitation for ratings and money. It's all about the $$$, ain't it Katie? Well, you got it, but not from me. I'm not buying the *** you're selling. I'll keep getting my news off the internet. TV is old news, folks.
Let's try to be impartial though. Let's look at it from the pro side.
We see that there is a grieving widow who still believes in god. She's happy she had a small amount of time with her husband before he climbed a mountain in the middle of winter with an orange to eat. Ok. that's good. Believe in a higher power and be happy with what you have. That's a good message for alot of people. Now, did we have to pull a grieving woman in from of the USA to accomplish this? I'm thinking no. But it's a decent message and it's good to share good messages from time to time. But if we look at it from the perspective of Couric's career, it doesn't seem like the best move. She's doing Barbara Walters interviews when she should be delving into the ********* called Iraq. She should be flying to Darfur to see what's really happening. If she wants to get out of Dan Rather's shadow at least.
From the con side? Well, I think everyone else sums that up pretty well. Exploitation for ratings and money. It's all about the $$$, ain't it Katie? Well, you got it, but not from me. I'm not buying the *** you're selling. I'll keep getting my news off the internet. TV is old news, folks.
Let's try to be impartial though. Let's look at it from the pro side.
We see that there is a grieving widow who still believes in god. She's happy she had a small amount of time with her husband before he climbed a mountain in the middle of winter with an orange to eat. Ok. that's good. Believe in a higher power and be happy with what you have. That's a good message for alot of people. Now, did we have to pull a grieving woman in from of the USA to accomplish this? I'm thinking no. But it's a decent message and it's good to share good messages from time to time. But if we look at it from the perspective of Couric's career, it doesn't seem like the best move. She's doing Barbara Walters interviews when she should be delving into the pile of dung called Iraq. She should be flying to Darfur to see what's really happening. If she wants to get out of Dan Rather's shadow at least.
From the con side? Well, I think everyone else sums that up pretty well. Exploitation for ratings and money. It's all about the $$$, ain't it Katie? Well, you got it, but not from me. I'm not buying the *** you're selling. I'll keep getting my news off the internet. TV is old news, folks.
Let's try to be impartial though. Let's look at it from the pro side.
We see that there is a grieving widow who still believes in god. She's happy she had a small amount of time with her husband before he climbed a mountain in the middle of winter with an orange to eat. Ok. that's good. Believe in a higher power and be happy with what you have. That's a good message for alot of people. Now, did we have to pull a grieving woman in from of the USA to accomplish this? I'm thinking no. But it's a decent message and it's good to share good messages from time to time. But if we look at it from the perspective of Couric's career, it doesn't seem like the best move. She's doing Barbara Walters interviews when she should be delving into the pile of dung called Iraq. She should be flying to Darfur to see what's really happening. If she wants to get out of Dan Rather's shadow at least.
From the con side? Well, I think everyone else sums that up pretty well. Exploitation for ratings and money. It's all about the $$$, ain't it Katie? Well, you got it, but not from me. I'm not buying the poo you're selling. I'll keep getting my news off the internet. TV is old news, folks.
Let's try to be impartial though. Let's look at it from the pro side.
We see that there is a grieving widow who still believes in god. She's happy she had a small amount of time with her husband before he climbed a mountain in the middle of winter with an orange to eat. Ok. that's good. Believe in a higher power and be happy with what you have. That's a good message for alot of people. Now, did we have to pull a grieving woman in from of the USA to accomplish this? I'm thinking no. But it's a decent message and it's good to share good messages from time to time. But if we look at it from the perspective of Couric's career, it doesn't seem like the best move. She's doing Barbara Walters interviews when she should be delving into the pile of dung called Iraq. She should be flying to Darfur to see what's really happening. If she wants to get out of Dan Rather's shadow at least.
From the con side? Well, I think everyone else sums that up pretty well. Exploitation for ratings and money. It's all about the $$$, ain't it Katie? Well, you got it, but not from me. I'm not buying the poo you're selling. I'll keep getting my news off the internet. TV is old news, folks.
I admire him for taking such good care of himself and working so hard to make a living for his family.In this day and age you only get kudos if you have lost 200 pounds, stop drinking 5 days ago, and no longer abuse your children. I mean come on here why can't you at least admire him for being a good Father a devoted husband and having a sense of adventure.Most of the comments here are about the war and the kids that are being killed. There is no draft all of the men and women that inlisted in the armed forces knew what they were getting into as well. As the PSA advertises... It's not just a job it's adventure. Most of the men and women that are on the rescue teams are former military. These snide comments and personal attacks on his wife are uncalled for.
I can promise you one thing if it were anyone in your family you can bet your *** you would want them to do all that they could do to find one of your friends or family members. Be careful what you say it can come back and haunt you one of these days.
I also lost my beloved Husband this August. It was devastating. He conquered many challenges due to illnesses. My Husband was extraordinary and I've been on that journey where an I love you is the last you hear from your loved one. I sympathize and understand, but I must agree, it is not appropriate for the evening news. This is a bad attempt on profit from sensacionalism.
Where's Brainless Oprah when you need her?
Just keep up the False Happiness and the Sickening Materialism. Don't forget to take your Prozac.
Just go on pretend we don't live in a FASCIST COUNTRY with nonsense for "News".
Again you flocked to the family of a deceased person. While her's was an uplifting story, why do you keep intruding into the personal lives of people you don't even know? Why didn't you ask her if her husband died in vain like you did the mother of a fallen soldier? Do you not understand what motivates people other than money or fame? You get paid a bazillion bucks to stick a microphone in the face of a tragic figure...I don't understand you. How did you feel when your husband died? Stay out of their lives/
The last words that passed between my husband and myself were "I love you". I then left our local hospital to come home. I got a call a couple of hours later that they were air-lifting him out to Atlanta. By the time I got to Atlanta, he was dead. I never got to say "good-bye". But I will always know that we did leave on "I love you".
It is important to let those you love know it. You never know when they will be taken away from you.
Thank you! I am sorry for your loss. With time your wounds will heal. I'm glad you took the time to put closer on a very tragic event. I hope people will walk away from your story and feel thank full for their life, and the people that touch their hearts everyday. Be thankful! Your world could change in a heart beat. Again, I'm so sorry for your loss.
What's next? a book?
that the victim's family, or the accused person on bail, or the wife of a murdered cop "...did not immediately return our calls"
Like, what would they have to SAY to the media in the middle of the shock of having to identify the body of their murdered family member or whatever?
Oh yes, let me drop EVERYTHING to return the call to CBS news so they can get their inside STORY on how my husband was run over by a truck and how do I feel about it.
The soldiers are not challenged to climb a mountain, but challenged to defend their country and sacrifice their lives.
I will never understand the media's priorities in sensationalizing the accidental death of one man who was on a recreational vacation, when there are those who daily lay down their life for the sake of so many.
No greater love hath a man, than to lay down his life for another.
The soldiers are not challenged to climb a mountain, but challenged to defend their country and sacrifice their lives.
I will never understand the media's priorities in sensationalizing the accidental death of one man who was on a recreational vacation, when there are those who daily lay down their life for the sake of so many.
No greater love hath a man, than to lay down his life for another.
The soldiers are not challenged to climb a mountain, but challenged to defend their country and sacrifice their lives.
I will never understand the media's priorities in sensationalizing the accidental death of one man who was on a recreational vacation, when there are those who daily lay down their life for the sake of so many.
No greater love hath a man, than to lay down his life for another.
The soldiers are not challenged to climb a mountain, but challenged to defend their country and sacrifice their lives.
I will never understand the media's priorities in sensationalizing the accidental death of one man who was on a recreational vacation, when there are those who daily lay down their life for the sake of so many.
No greater love hath a man, than to lay down his life for another.
humancitizen - I didn't know this was a race issue. But I guess some people can make anything a race issue. Most of the people involved in the search love to climb also and understand what those guys were going thru. They were glad to help.
How many tax dollars go toward helping prevent or clean up after lawless criminals around the country? Maybe we should just leave drunk drivers to die in the wreckage the create?
At the same time, I'm also very happy for her.
Cheer up, girl!
Now this widow might be able to attract a more sane mate as husband from among those who might not mind a secondhand wife.
Fools and their lives are soon parted!
Whomever coined the phrase 'crazy Americans' was definitely feeling the American pulse. LOL
It is understandable when children gamble with their lives for the sake of mere pittance.
It is downright retarded when selfish, self-centered, or insane adults(?) seek to emulate inexperienced children and CAUSE UNNECESSARY AND AVOIDABLE BURDEN TO OTHERS WHO WILL BE CONCERNED ABOUT THEIR DUMB DISAPPEARANCE!
She had good reason to hold on to hope. The 48-year-old landscape architect was a 25-year veteran mountaineer who had already successfully scaled some of the most treacherous summits in the world.
Did you read this part? This man was not an idiot. He owned his own business for Gods sake.
Well educated. Which is more than I can say for the chosen few here that have posted some stupid comments.
isn't amazing to know now he's climbing the mountains in heaven,never say goodbye,because goodbye is forever,and every one knows someday we will meet again,what a wonderful day that will be, may gods peace love and strength be you...
Well educated. Which is more than I can say for the chosen few here that have posted some stupid comments.
Posted by pjt759 at 01:31 PM : Dec 22, 2006"
Ever heard of an 'educated idiot'? LOL
We have one right now leading 300 million sheeple over the abyss!
These guys weren't so evil. Thank the stars. LOL
However, they did selfishly pain those who were near and dear to them, climbing a mountain in the middle of winter practically! How freaking childish is that?
They also lean heavily on the the state's coffers AND ON THE LIVES AND WELL BEING OF THOSE WHO HAVE TO UNNECESSARILY RISK THEIR LIVES and waste valuable resources hunting for so-called adults with children's mentality!
These moronic mountaineers not only endanger themselves; they also endanger the lives of rescuers who also have families who could be pained if something happened to the rescuers!
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