CHESTER, VA., Nov. 26, 2006

Finding The Good News

So Often, Mainstream Media Focuses On What Is Going Wrong, But Here Are Some Small Things Going Right

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Meanwhile, in Long Island, New York, a group of elderly men in their 80s and 90s has been meeting at the Shelter Rock Tennis Club most everyday for about seven years. They have known each other for 47 years. The group calls themselves the Romeos for "Retired Old Men Eating Out."

During lunch, they tease each other with what they call zingers. The truth is, the Romeos' antics may be a recipe-for-success when it comes to aging. Because to them, getting zinged means getting attention.

"Tt makes you feel important if somebody gives you a zinger, that you're noticed," one man said.

For many elderly Americans getting noticed isn't easy. Older men, especially, are more likely to become isolated, leading to loneliness and depression. Groups of Romeos exist all over the country to help overcome these issues, but that doesn't mean they're touchy-feely. They say they don't really deal with each other's problems, but just acknowledge them and move on.

"We don't handle it," one member said. "We talk about it for two or three minutes to find out what the latest news is and then we go on to things."

"The important things: like politics, who's buying drinks today, things like that," another member said.

It may not sound like much, but the Romeos' camaraderie and banter all contribute to lifted spirits, stimulated minds, and a little bit of old-fashioned male bonding, and that can be especially important for the widowers in the group.

"There's a loneliness which is attached to the position I'm in, and when you're with friends and people who care for you and you care for them, that's very consoling, very helpful," a member named Stan said.

So although some news may appear bleak, there are good things happening all over the country.

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by unystrom November 27, 2006 6:29 PM EST
Good news are so much needed, I wish CBS would consider 1 hour weekly special for good news only, is it too much to ask after all the hours of bad news we get!? I have no doubt that it would be popular and that there are lots of advertisers willing to participate...
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by unystrom November 27, 2006 6:28 PM EST
Good news are so much needed, I wish CBS would consider 1 hour weekly special for good news only, is it too much to ask after all the hours of bad news we get!? I have no doubt that it would be popular and that there are lots of advertisers willing to participate...
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by katec8 November 27, 2006 4:36 PM EST
Bravo for the good news, and please, please, please consider making it a permanent feature. If weekly isn't feasible, how about monthly? What a day-brightener! Sunday Morning is the only show I go out of my way to watch every week, and I can usually manage it from beginning to end - no small task with a toddler in the house! Keep up the excellent work.
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by gramde November 27, 2006 2:43 PM EST
What a wonderful way to end the Thanksgiving week!Encore, Encore, Encore, just keep the Good News comming. Please consider making this a weekly segment of the program I've enjoyed for over 25 years. Everyone who knows me knows not to call or visit until after 10:30 am on Sundays. This is MY Special Time. CBS Sunday Morning and Me. Quality time to learn and understand the world around me as it is today. Thank You
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by luvcortez November 27, 2006 1:39 PM EST
God Is Good!!! I would like to commend the Stanton Elementary Faculty & Staff for the job they are doing. I really believe in my heart, that every child can learn with exception and you are proving just that daily!
Cortez Simpson
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by rlevine45 November 26, 2006 11:42 PM EST
Thank you for the Good News! I hope that you make it a weekly segment.
I taught at Stanton School 37 yrs. ago and last year I watched the movie I Am A Promise. I cried to know that in all these years, things hadn't changed all that much until your segment today. What a joy to see the improvements in educational standards, test scores and children who are excited to learn. Maybe all schools in poorer neighborhoods can learn a lesson from Principal Barbara Adderly! What ever the formula, she is giving the children a chance to develop all that they have been given and now they are the promise!
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by mattwalker5 November 26, 2006 8:48 PM EST
I'm sad to see a polluter like Dominion Power held up as a leader in environmental progress...

Quoting the segment, %u201CE.P.A. had warned that coal-fired power companies had to decrease the amount of pollutants released into the air or face penalties. Other companies fought it, but not Dominion; the company voluntarily made changes before the E.P.A. made it.%u201D

The segment neglects to mention that Dominion has fought against Clean Air requirements at their Possum Point station (approx. 30 miles outside of DC) and were finally forced by court order to upgrade from coal to natural gas in 2003-4.

Since passage of the Clean Air Act, Dominion has had almost 20 years to begin some process of cleaning the dirtiest of their %u201Cgrandfathered%u201D plants (power plants originally exempted from Clean Air requirements) or to phase them out of operation permanently.

That they have only now begun upgrading, and only in one of their seven major power plants in the area, may pass for good news today given the state of the nation and the world, but you do a disservice to your viewers when %u201Cgood news%u201D segments act less to provide thorough information and act more as corporate spin to improve the image of an archaic industry stuck in the past.
Please do not praise these companies for taking baby steps to finally address their legal responsibilities - responsibilities which they have fought tooth-and-nail against for decades. Thanks for your time!
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by hamlet236 November 26, 2006 6:48 PM EST
I also applaud Tom Farrell's decision to do his part to clean up the air in Chester, VA, before he was required to. According to a report by Cambridge, Mass.-based Abt Associates Inc., commissioned by environmental advocacy groups, power plant emission shorten nearly 24,000 lives a year. The report states that Tennessee ranks third in the country in per-capita deaths linked to coal-fired power plant pollution. Only West Virginia and Kentucky have higher per-capita mortality rates from power plant pollution. To get a report on the quality of air in your location and discover who is polluting, check out www.scorecard.org. Simply type in your zipcode.
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by cmsimon November 26, 2006 4:07 PM EST
Just thought you might want to know that in most places "ROMEO" stands for RETIRED OLD MEN EATING OUT - thanks for the good news.
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by pterhorst November 26, 2006 2:55 PM EST
Oh my God, Tracey Smith, how you made my heart race with your story about the widowers in Long Island, NY! I just have ONE message for you to pass on to them: I have been a widow for 2 yrs. now and wish I had someone in my life SO if any of them are traveling through the Raleigh North Carolina I live about 12 miles outside of Raleigh. give me a call and we can go to dinner. I am 63 and fairly attractive (my friends tell me) and would like to have some companionship. Not looking for a husband but a companion and then let life take its course.
Here is my email address:
bearsandraggedys@yahoo.com

Phyllis
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by November 26, 2006 2:03 PM EST
Now if we could only figure out how to make a coal powered automobile
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by cin2it November 26, 2006 1:49 PM EST
While the segment on Stanton School in Philadelphia was nothing short of inspirational and the piece on the Romeo club was so heartwarming, the segment on the coal-fired energy plant in Virginia has restored my faith in humanity.

The world needs more people like Tom Farrell who rose above legal advice that could have indefinitely postponed costly compliance with federal guidelines and simply did what is right by acting for the public good rather than the self-interest of short term political or fiscal expediency. Mr. Farrell's committment to protect the public from the serious, if seldom acknowledged, invisible threat to public health from coal-fired energy plants is nothing short of heroic.

I would like to see a lot more Good News if this week's segments set the template for future stories!
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by jes5144 November 26, 2006 1:42 PM EST
Good news is great. You don't find in newspaper or on TV news because they feel the general public would rather see negative stuff. I think you should go to Irag and report on all the good things we have done over there. Then you can say you found some good news. Thanks.
USAF MSgt Retired.
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by fincherjf November 26, 2006 1:42 PM EST
Wow....What a great program.


If only the terrorist could realise how we see ourselves as blessed, they might be able to see past our governments sometimes fairly earned preception of arrogance and understand the true ambitions of our good people. We are a people of givers and doers and enjoy the benefits of freedom. I enjoyed your three stories of the postive in all corners of our country.

Our cup is way more than half full....Please share more Positive pieces.

Thank You!

John
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by sunnyd92 November 26, 2006 1:36 PM EST
If we want to help turn our country in a new direction, we must report more than just a litany of horrific events happening. I work with teens in a leadership/success program I created for high schools. Many have a hard time believing in a bright future because they are exposed to an overabundance of negative news on TV, in movies and online. I tell them there are more wonderful things happening in the world than negative ones but they can't find proof of this in a media-driven world that says otherwise.
Please make this a prominent feature of your Sunday morning show and all your other broadcasts. We owe it to ourselves and our children. Thanks so much!
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by rensinger-2009 November 26, 2006 1:07 PM EST
Bravo. Great segment! Truly inspirational. Please keep this segment coming...
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by stop20 November 26, 2006 12:56 PM EST
Thank you! Finally someone has figured out that there is not enough GOOD NEWS reported. Now, any way you can start a trend in reporting GOOD NEWS? Great stories!
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