February 11, 2009 9:03 PM
- Text
A Workshop In Lovemaking
(CBS)
Golfing, swimming and bird-watching are not the only skills you can perfect while you're on vacation. CBS News Correspondent Tracy Smith reports Canyon Ranch has added sex to the list.
Dr. Lana Holstein believes that it's possible to teach lessons of love in a workshop setting.
And her women-only workshop is proving a big draw. Kerlin and Alison, two sisters, came to Canyon Ranch Health Resort to bond in the mountain breezes of the Berkshires. But they ended up sharing a lot more than fresh air and sunshine.
"We were walking along, and I said, I''m thinking of signing up for Magnificent Sex,' and Alison said, 'I am, too'!" says Kerlin.
They were among a group of women on hand for the lessons.
"Now, I know there's two things in the world you're never supposed to talk about. You're never supposed to talk about how much money you make. And you're never supposed to talk about your sex life. It was about two or three months ago in one of these circles, this woman said, 'I'll tell you how much money I make!'" says Dr. Holstein.
And so, in the company of 12 shoeless women, Smith included, Alison and Kerlin found themselves taking a workshop on sex.
"That's all my husband thinks about, is sex," says one participant.
"How do you keep the sensual fires burning?" asks Kerlin.
"We expect ourselves to be these expert lovers. We're supposed to be so skilled. And yet, who's taught us? Nobody's taught us," says Dr. Holstein.
According to recent statistics, 41 percent of women lack interest in sex and 33 percent don't have orgasms.
Alarming stats aside, at this luxurious resort, where sunshine and pampering are part of every day, it's easy to imagine that perfect sex is simple.
But reality often gets in the way.
"Frequency is a myth, isn't it?" asks Kerlin.
"He thinks he's being helpful. He'll say, don't you want to work out today?" says a woman named Alison. "I'd love to have sex, but I'm not so interested in doing what he wants to do," she adds.
While another one, Michelle Rosenberg, says she needs to sleep more than anything.
Dr. Holstein has a cure for every ailment. Sometimes, the prescription is for a business contract:
"Your going to cut a deal. All right? You say, 'I'll initiate sex once a week if you will...'" she suggests.
And for those tough cases, Dr. Holstein recommends a sensuous dance lesson of sorts. And she even has an anatomically correct puppet named Mona, who seems to be getting quite a reputation, even outside of class.
"I haven't met Mona. I'd like to meet Mona, see what she's about," says a man named Derek. Along with other men, he heads for the golf course while the wives go to study the art of making love.
"Sex is no mystery to me. It's life," says another man named Alan, and when asked he confirms he probably could teach the workshop, himself.
So what does Derek expect to happen that night?
"Hopefully, a lot of homework," he says.
This particular workshop was for women, but if you think you might like to polish your skills with a study-buddy, Dr. Holstein also teaches a four-day workshop for couples. And there are similar classes at other resorts around the country.
Dr. Lana Holstein believes that it's possible to teach lessons of love in a workshop setting.
And her women-only workshop is proving a big draw. Kerlin and Alison, two sisters, came to Canyon Ranch Health Resort to bond in the mountain breezes of the Berkshires. But they ended up sharing a lot more than fresh air and sunshine.
"We were walking along, and I said, I''m thinking of signing up for Magnificent Sex,' and Alison said, 'I am, too'!" says Kerlin.
They were among a group of women on hand for the lessons.
"Now, I know there's two things in the world you're never supposed to talk about. You're never supposed to talk about how much money you make. And you're never supposed to talk about your sex life. It was about two or three months ago in one of these circles, this woman said, 'I'll tell you how much money I make!'" says Dr. Holstein.
And so, in the company of 12 shoeless women, Smith included, Alison and Kerlin found themselves taking a workshop on sex.
"That's all my husband thinks about, is sex," says one participant.
"How do you keep the sensual fires burning?" asks Kerlin.
"We expect ourselves to be these expert lovers. We're supposed to be so skilled. And yet, who's taught us? Nobody's taught us," says Dr. Holstein.
According to recent statistics, 41 percent of women lack interest in sex and 33 percent don't have orgasms.
Alarming stats aside, at this luxurious resort, where sunshine and pampering are part of every day, it's easy to imagine that perfect sex is simple.
But reality often gets in the way.
"Frequency is a myth, isn't it?" asks Kerlin.
"He thinks he's being helpful. He'll say, don't you want to work out today?" says a woman named Alison. "I'd love to have sex, but I'm not so interested in doing what he wants to do," she adds.
While another one, Michelle Rosenberg, says she needs to sleep more than anything.
Dr. Holstein has a cure for every ailment. Sometimes, the prescription is for a business contract:
"Your going to cut a deal. All right? You say, 'I'll initiate sex once a week if you will...'" she suggests.
And for those tough cases, Dr. Holstein recommends a sensuous dance lesson of sorts. And she even has an anatomically correct puppet named Mona, who seems to be getting quite a reputation, even outside of class.
"I haven't met Mona. I'd like to meet Mona, see what she's about," says a man named Derek. Along with other men, he heads for the golf course while the wives go to study the art of making love.
"Sex is no mystery to me. It's life," says another man named Alan, and when asked he confirms he probably could teach the workshop, himself.
So what does Derek expect to happen that night?
"Hopefully, a lot of homework," he says.
This particular workshop was for women, but if you think you might like to polish your skills with a study-buddy, Dr. Holstein also teaches a four-day workshop for couples. And there are similar classes at other resorts around the country.
Popular Now in CBS News
- Teen's Facebook Sex Scam
- The Best Pregnancy Tests
- Eight Delicious Foods That Help Fight Belly Fat
- Cyberbullying Continued After Teen's Death
- Which Yogurts Are Healthiest?
- Perks of Five-Hour Energy Put to Test
- How Long Foods Stay Fresh In Fridge
- "Designer Babies" Ethical?
- Ten Healthiest Fast Food Chains
- Could Protein Shakes Harm Your Health?
- Best Low-Tech Cell Phones Suitable for Seniors
- Can Exercise Make You Gain Weight?
- Electronic Cigarettes: Are They Safe?
- How to Stop a Cold Before It Takes Hold
- Best Sleep Positions To Rid Aches, Pains
- Countertop Makeover In A Paint Can
- Cooking Oils That Are Good For You
Latest CBS News Headlines
on Facebook Most Discussed Stories
on CBS News
- Magic hit 17 3-pointers in 102-89 win over Heat
- Lin, Chandler lead Knicks over Wizards 107-93
- Delfino scores 25 as Bucks beat Raptors
- Parker scores 37, leads Spurs over 76ers 100-90
on Facebook Most Discussed Stories
on CBS News





