Kelly Wallace is a CBS News correspondent based in New York.
After producer Tony Maciulis and I showcased a camp for wounded women veterans in June on the "CBS Evening News with Katie Couric," our senior producers encouraged us to find a follow-up story. That was easy. What about the spouses and the caregivers, suggested a contact with the
Adaptive Sports Foundation, one of the organizations which sponsors these free camps for wounded veterans and their families. We thought about it and realized while much has been said about the wounded veterans, less familiar are the real challenges and strains of the caregivers who love them.
Think about the numbers. Nearly 33,000 men and women have been injured in Afghanistan and Iraq and those numbers don’t include men and women with invisible wounds, the ones dealing with post-traumatic stress disorder. Behind many of these injured veterans, there is usually a caregiver, a spouse or a mom or dad, who is often overlooked.
Twenty-five-year-old Nancy Kules, whose husband Ryan lost an arm and a leg in an IED attack in Iraq in 2005, told us her needs took a backseat until the moment Ryan was able to care for himself. “I think they get used to being catered to, they get used to being taken care of,” she said during an interview with Ryan, 27, by her side. “And at some point, you do have to say the reason we rehabbed and worked our butts off for a year, for you to be able to walk, for you to be able to take care of normal things, for you to be able to cook is that so you can get off the couch and make me dinner, that’s okay, too.”
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