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November 9, 2009 1:20 PM

Quinn Gray Allegedly Kidnapped: Millionaire Husband Believes Her, But Is Audiotaped Sex Consensual?

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Facebook Photo: Reid and Quinn Gray.

NEW YORK (CBS/AP) Reid Gray entered his $4 million Florida mansion on the Friday of Labor Day Weekend 2009 to find that his beautiful wife, Quinn Gray, had apparently been kidnapped.

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"There are three men holding me right now and they want $50,000 cash," the 37-year-old blonde wrote in a ransom note to her husband. "Do not do anything stupid. NO COPS!"

But authorities say the 25-year-old mechanic since charged with trying to extort thousands from millionaire Reid Gray didn't kidnap Quinn -- but was actually her lover, and an accomplice in the plot.

Reid Gray, however, continues to stand by his wife, as he did again today in an appearance on NBC's "TODAY" Show.

Quinn Gray has said she went along with her captor's demands, eventually having audiotaped sex with him. Gray says she wasn't scheming, but went insane and started to believe the kidnapper's claims that her husband wanted her dead.

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Gray's Facebook page shows photos of her husband and two young daughters. Her interests were fairly typical: She liked the TV show "Lost," biking and rapper Flo Rida ("When I'm really silly," she wrote). She drove a Mercedes wagon and read books like Eckhart Tolle's "The Power of Now."

The ordeal began the night of Sept. 4, when Gray's husband, 38-year-old Reid Gray, discovered his wife's note at their exclusive seaside mansion.

Reid Gray called the St. John's County Sheriff's Office, touching off a multi-agency manhunt that included the FBI. The sheriff's office would eventually spend $90,000 on the investigation.

(St. Johns Sheriffs Office)
Booking Photos: Jasmin Osmanovic and Quinn Gray.

The next day, as sheriff's officials set up a command center for the investigation, Reid Gray received the first of at least six calls from his wife. According to a report, Quinn Gray demanded her husband drop the $50,000 at a Chik-Fil-A restaurant; when he drove to the area, Quinn called again and said he had "screwed up" because police were spotted nearby.

On Sept. 6, Quinn Gray's mother dropped $50,000 at a beach restaurant; a group of college kids picked up the money and called police, frantic that they were in the middle of a "dope deal."

On Sept. 7, the case took an odd turn: an agitated Quinn Gray walked up to deputies at a local mall. She was taken to the FBI office in Jacksonville, where she told agents that her kidnapper worked for a loan shark who wanted her husband to pay up.

Detective Kevin Kerr and others were skeptical, noting Gray seemed to be making up the story as she went along.

During another interview, Quinn Gray changed her story. She said she had been sexually assaulted and that "I was crazy then, I was just doing what I was told to do."

She did give police one telling detail: Her abductor's name was Jasmin, and he drove a white Volkswagen Jetta. She also directed investigators to the warehouse where she was held.

Detectives found Jasmin Osmanovic, driving out of the warehouse in his Jetta. He eventually wrote his version of events in an affidavit.

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Facebook Photo: Quinn Gray.

"I met Quinn Gray about a month and a half ago. We met at a gas station," wrote the young mechanic. He described going to her house and listening to her talk about her marital problems and her issues with drinking - she had nearly split up with Reid Gray and had gone to rehab at a tony Minnesota clinic. Her husband had affairs, she said, and she wondered if he wanted her dead.

On Labor Day weekend, Osmanovic said, the two spent time together - but he didn't know right away that she was plotting the kidnapping. He left her alone several times in a hotel room they shared - she could have left anytime, he said.

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Osmanovic touched on one piece of evidence: an audiotape he and Quinn Gray made that weekend. Osmanovic's live-in girlfriend found it and gave it to officers. The recording captured the sounds of Gray and Osmanovic having sex, plotting the kidnapping and talking about mundane things, like how they needed to eat more salads.

Sheriff Shoar said Osmanovic felt that Gray was acting "hinky" and covertly made the recording.

"He is not a dumb guy. He is a very smart guy," Shoar said. "He wanted some proof and reassurance in case she tried to hang him out to dry."

Osmanovic was charged with extortion and is being held at the St. John's County Jail. Gray also was charged with extortion and is being treated at a psychiatric facility.

Osmanovic's lawyers won't comment. Neither will Gray's lawyers, citing a pending gag order in the case. Earlier in the week, however, the lawyers went on national TV to talk about Gray's long history of mental illness and how she eventually identified with the kidnapper.

"Not one e-mail, not one text message, not one cell phone record - there is nothing that supports (authorities') contention that it's a faked kidnapping," said lawyer Mark Miller on NBC's "Today" show. About the audiotape, he said that it is "an audio recording of a woman who has been kidnapped, abducted and being raped."

Interestingly, Gray's husband - the owner of a home health care company who detailed the couple's long, painful history of marital infidelity during hours of police interviews - is standing by his wife. Against the advice of friends and family, he is not seeking a divorce.

"I love my family," Reid Gray wrote in a statement to the media. "And will do whatever I can to make sure that Quinn receives all of the help and support that she needs."

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by disgustedagain November 28, 2009 3:27 PM EST
GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT ALL OF YOU! If anyone with half a brain listened to all the tapes and everything else they would easily see and hear that Osmanovic clearly stalked, robbed, and assaulted the Grays. It is him on his own tape admitting his guilt and he is the one calling all the shots. This is disgusting that Quinn and her family have to be revictimized by the sheriff, the media, NANCY GRACE, and all you pigs that have distorted, twisted and criminally lied in this case. QUINN NEVER KNEW OSMANOVIC PRIOR TO THIS KIDNAPPING! THAT IS THE TRUTH! THE sheriff should be in jail for his actions in this case. WE are outraged and this is all a disgusting lie, this guy is not Quinn's lover! HE is a criminal and admits to everything on those tapes. What is wrong with the media and the judge, and the fat sheriff. This is a horrific injustice to Quinn, Reid, the girls and our entire family.
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by supertux007 November 11, 2009 2:07 AM EST
And this BS about alcohol as an excuse.
How many people have cancer addiction or some terminal disease as an addiction? Its ludicrous!
She might get some disability benefits in prison for that "disease", I bet its not $50k then again it might be. She might be a sex addict too? Or a murder for hire addict?

She wanted to hire someone to murder her husband & pay him $50k then she would get the inheritance and be idolized as a victim of kidnapping and her deceased husband.
She told Jasmin Osmanovic $50k is a lot of money.
It seems like a murder for hire plot on her part. She would have been the beneficiary of the marital assets.
She would have benefited from Reid Gray death monetarily if Jasmin Osmanovic would have murdered Mr. Gray.
I bet the plan then would have been to report Jasmin Osmanovic for kidnapping and possibly the murder of Mr. Gray.
That is all of the marital assets for $50k investment!

She would have made a great martyr and
without the audio tapes.
She found someone who was greedy and wanted to exploit it then throw her kidnapper under the bus for kidnapping and murder! What a novel idea for a novel?

What is sad is the all the psychologist what to excuse her responsibility.
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by RichCougarDramaQueenPsyco November 10, 2009 1:45 AM EST
I feel for Quinn Gray. My heart goes out to her. See, I too suffer from Bipolar Disorder. And I too have acted strangely manic as she did when face to face with my abductor, exotically Bosnian, young, dark, handsome, auto mechanic stud, with a huge... mmmmm... where was I... oh yes... forgive me, I was recalling both a character on "Lost" and mixing him with a fantasy of Deepak Chopra having "power" over me. Or me having power, with Deepak, over my stupid husband. But a Bosnian auto mechanic stud will do since I can't find any Deepaks in Jacksonville, Florida. anyhoo, I feel compassion for this poor woman Quinn Gray afflicted with such a misunderstood, stigmatized condition that sends women like us into manic, temporary insanity, making us victims. Can anyone tell me if there is an online website support system set up for her yet?

oops, I meant Eckhart Tolle, not Deepak Chopra. As long as it is some exotic man that Oprah likes, it's all good.
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by mcdanel_1771 November 9, 2009 8:31 PM EST
Mr Grey, I applaud you. A lot of really unfortunate things happened before my husband was diagnosed with a brain tumor. I nearly left him. If I had, I would have missed the most intense and meaningful parts of our life together. I wish that someone loved me again as much as you love your wife. Best wishes to you and your family.
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