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by kbhhoihhihilyh July 8, 2009 8:29 PM EDT
Since the story is on the web where can we see the uncensored story?
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by mrs_happilymarried July 8, 2009 6:20 PM EDT
Get a life. Or better yet, get a job and HAVE a life of your own. Stop being so judgemental of others.
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by mrs_happilymarried July 8, 2009 6:17 PM EDT
FORRXFOUR:
Funny! Such a funny comment I almost peed my pants!
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by mrs_happilymarried July 8, 2009 6:14 PM EDT
lavaflow and stickdog3: (applause, applause) All of your comments have been very well-stated. Keep it up, society needs to hear more of these things.
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by mrs_happilymarried July 8, 2009 6:06 PM EDT
armyoftwelve: the dad is a leach looking to get whatever he can. 15 mintues of fame? Ha. You must be one of those lazy people my tax money goes to everytime I get a paycheck. Lazy Dad = Lazy Kids. Do you think everyone should get something for nothing? I guess no one wants to work for their money anymore.
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by mrs_happilymarried July 8, 2009 6:00 PM EDT
I completely agree. I haven't the time, or the energy, to go into the laziness of our present society. Lazy parents living off of the WORKING middle-class people who pay taxes. They are setting a bad example for the children. Leave the teacher alone, she admitted her mistake.
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by mrs_happilymarried July 8, 2009 5:45 PM EDT
I think people should look in the mirror before judging someone else. Things happen by mistake all of the time.
tmittelstaed: I am on the same page, doesn't anyone else in that town have anything else to worry about? Maybe that guy could get an education and then he would know how to explain "the birds and the bees".
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by mrs_happilymarried July 8, 2009 5:38 PM EDT
You're absolutely right. This kid has more problems with this guy for a dad than a clip of his teacher having sex.
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by 1_2talk-please July 8, 2009 4:13 PM EDT
Wow! Indeed this is humiliating, but it does help to show that we need to stop doing so much overtime and have personal lives outside of teaching. I feel for you simply because I can understand exactly where you are coming from. You work exceptionally hard, do long hours for no overtime pay, you are too tired to go out on dates, teaching consumes your every thought--taking a shower, you think about what you could plan for the kids--sleeping, you think about lesson plans or activities--eating dinner,you make math problems with your food on how to help a child who receives no help at home--on the weekend, you are correcting papers and planning for the upcoming week... Eventually, especially if you are single, you have to find a "safe" way to release the 24 hour stress and overwhelming work load that many have no idea or can fathom (the reason why so many parents don't even take time to volunteer in the classrooms to teach a lesson or offer other valuable assistance---to the few who do, I applaud you!). I understand because it is possible that perhaps you wanted to see what it is that promotes this release. Been there once years ago...except there's no proof. :) Now, I am working towards having my own life again so that I can date and get married. In short, you made a huge mistake and put your *%& on blast, but he or she who has not had fault can throw the first stone.
Unfortunately, for those who are dishonest with themselves about what their children see on television, movies, and video games, children are learning about sex at a much younger age. Please, there are some children who are pregnant before the fifth grade. In many cases still, there are parents who buy their children sexier underwear than what the teacher wears; boys and girls (low cut clothing and sagging pants that teachers have to pull up all of the time to stop the exposure yet overhear other students talking about "grown folks" business all of the time. Yes, your children know more than you think!).
Undoubtedly, teachers go through a lot to become credentialed. Not only do we sacrfice at least one paycheck back to the students every year, most would not risk giving up all of the years that it took just to earn that chosen field to inspire youth to be the best that they can be by purposely giving a glimpse of their nakedness or other personal business. For those pathetic teachers who have relations with the students, you are excluded from this point! That's nasty. Plain and simple.
Of course, this is not a part of Family Life that she would have taught to the children, but it has been done. Quite frankly, many children have already had experience with masturbation anyway (changing a diaper and the child reaches for their genitals, takes the diaper off for freedom, or sticks a finger in poop...they know or want to know about their bodies early). Get honest. For these students, the worst part is that they saw their teacher and possibly a toy--the same way they'd feel if they walk in on their parents. For this cowardly father, the DVD should have been turned off long before his child could confirm that it was the teacher; there seems to have been enough time to stop it. I mean, did he rewind it to see if it was the teacher? Who confirmed that it was indeed the teacher? Definitely, she should have watched the first burn before making 26 copies to distribute. Definitely and especially if it's her! Should she lose her employment? No. If anything, this is going to lead to a mental breakdown with people coming up against her as if she can not make a mistake and move on. Put a microscope on everyone if that's the case. So many see her two by four error, but what about your own? You've never done anything wrong?!
Even though it should have been done at least a year ago, for those whose children watched the dvd, these parents will simply have to step up and spend time with their children talking about the body and sex. This is a tough lesson learned in the ocean of other hard lessons learned. It happened. But, like flowing water, let it go. When you drop your error in the ocean and you can get a cup to catch your error again, then dwell on it. A new school year is QUICKLY coming---unless "A." Ask God for forgiveness, forgive yourself, get a personal life, if you are going to ********** and record then get a separate camera, OR better yet, try celibacy until marriage, and go on being the "good teacher" that so many parents claim you to be. Get up and find the testimony in your test.

Oh, for the record, I am not one of her buddies; I don't know her. Truly, this was a lot for me because I rarely say much. Until I read some of the comments, I simply wanted to find out what was on the dvd to ensure that I didn't do the same thing whenever I decide to spend my money on burned copies. Trust that this was the farthest thought from my mind. I pray that God gives her peace for only He has the true authority and right to judge her.
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by soundboy123 July 8, 2009 4:10 PM EDT
well... they identified the teacher from the video...

has anyone confirmed the guy in the video was Mark Sanford?
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by Wastedyrs July 13, 2009 8:06 PM EDT
Turns out it was John Edwards. He heard his wife's cancer had gotten worse so he thought he should sleep with another woman to feel better.
by cockroachcrusher July 8, 2009 3:15 PM EDT
Don't korrect other peeple beecuz it alwaze comes a' back to bite yee. I know. I learned the hard way.
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by cockroachcrusher July 8, 2009 3:11 PM EDT
"...the local school district is investigating the case, but that it is unlikely that teacher, who is well-liked and respected, will lose her job."

Well-liked and respected? She does something stupid (giving porno to children even if it was accidental which makes her stupid) and making porno movies (which makes her heavily involved with porn sex). Well-liked and respected is no reason to keep someone like her teaching children. Making porno movies and teaching children just don't go together.

If this was a gay male with the same resume (teaches and makes gay porno), you would hear the outcries from here to Rush Limpbrain's fat folds. "Off with his head, both if need be", would be the battle cry of the republic.
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by tmittelstaed July 9, 2009 3:29 AM EDT
If it was a gay man in the same circumstances how would you know? How do you know that this teacher ISN'T gay? There's only 1 person in the video!!!
by skeetchamp July 8, 2009 2:20 PM EDT
she should go straight to prison with all the other pedophiles who supply pornography to children.
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by fmdroopy July 8, 2009 2:14 PM EDT
Would we be having this discussion if the teacher was a male masturbating?
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by tre-fire July 8, 2009 12:33 AM EDT
"More kids are pregnant that anywhere in the world"...You probably are unable to understand how ignorant that is to say. What is clear is that you are "non educated".
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by armyoftwelve July 7, 2009 8:11 PM EDT
I hope the dad gets all kinds of money. He and his kids must be really traumatized. The teacher is a TOTAL P. O. S.!!!!

Glad she isn't teaching my kids.
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by mrs_happilymarried July 8, 2009 6:20 PM EDT
Get a life. Or better yet, get a job and HAVE a life of your own. Stop being so judgemental of others.
by armyoftwelve July 7, 2009 8:10 PM EDT
It's funny that you respond to the briefest of comments and ignore a really screwed up story (pun intended). Spelling errors aside, you still got my point.
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by armyoftwelve July 7, 2009 8:04 PM EDT
by Oskaman July 5, 2009 7:03 PM PDT
armyoftwelve,
Can you spell "proof read"?

I think I made my point--otherwise you wouldn't have responded.
If I really wrote what I thought I would have been banned.
Funny how you reply to the briefest of comments and then ignore a really screwed up story (pun intended).
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by wingman8 July 7, 2009 7:59 PM EDT
If this teacher was a man, no doubt we'd be seeing him in handcuffs on the nightly news by now.
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by tunaatlast July 7, 2009 4:31 PM EDT
about "give the teacher a week off" comment. I was not aware that only six seconds were shown. Heck most of the time i would have tro getting the dvd to work properly for that. leave the teacher alone.
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