Comments on: Concern Rises Over Rihanna's Safety

Several Well-Known Women, Hearing She May Be Back With Chris Brown, Urge Her To Heed History

[colt8881]

Its amazing that everybody is in Rihanna's business and making judgements. I am amazed that Doctor Phill had not stuck his nose into the mix > Oprah already has put her 2 cents in.

Rihanna has chosen to go back to Chris Brown and what Chris did was wrong and he needs to be punished for it in some way. This has been so blown out of proportion and everybody has their nose in other peoples business it makes me ILL. People need to learn to mind their own Business and not stick their nose into everybody elses drama all the time, its pathetic ! Rihanna has made a choice and only the court drama is left to play out so everybody needs to get over it.

EVERYBODY remember the Terri Schiavo drama that played out. How everybody was in the familys business and all that & even GWB got involved. That issue was between The Husband and Doctor and Family, NOT EVERYBODY ELSE IN THE UNITED STATES, NOBODY else had any right to pass judgement on the Terri Schiavo case only the Husband, Doctor and Family had any right at all and it was pathetic that it was made a National Issue !!!!!!

[xxunknown]

Posted by Cas2dy: That sounds like justification for the abuse. "Its okay he hurt me cause it all worked out in the end". I think thats a **** poor message to send to people.

[Cas2dy]

Oh, and that woman who was luring the young chap in for some funtime, well, she should be ashamed of herself for using himas her personal booty call. She was messing with him for awhile, since he was sixteen, and she knew he was with rihanna now. So, she had to go and text him like that? She's just a nasty azzed older woman who should be making enough money to buy herself an evening with a young and capable stud. Why did she have to after Chris again when everyone knows he's with Rihanna? She did it to stroke her own ego, she hurt Rihanna in the process and Chris, stupid, stupid young man, he just fell right in. I don't know if they will stay together, that's up to them...but I will bet you a dollar to a donut, that behind closed doors, Rihanna is gonna make sure that Chris understands that he is "her" boy toy now, if he wants to stay with her. She gets to call the shots, because as close as this came to messing up his career, the next time would do it for good. Alll she has to do is cry wolf now, if she wishes to make him suffer. Maybe they had better go their seperate ways, or either he'd better choose to be a very attentive lover, friend and man.

[dragyn30]

I know I said I would not play into the CBS vile anymore, but look at the TMZ photo.

It took me a bit to notice the small details, but in the TMZ photo this woman picture does not appear to have pierced ears, if you look at the photo essay on Rihanna her ears are definitely pierced. A steady hand with a magic marker could drawn the tattoo. The shape of the face seems wrong and the fact they they say there was "swelling" we swelling makes bone structure disappear no be more pronounced.

I have no doubt that something has happened, but I think the media and these political and legal talk shows folks need to just mind their own business!!

If they put this much attention to the non-celebrity women to get beat regularly then maybe something more forceful could be done to stop it. Why does it take a celebrity to highlight a real problem in the community when it has been under the nose of these so-called experts before they take any real action!!

Leave them alone and go spend time in a women's shelter where the battered women zre not making $millions in record sales - these women have nothing and need the "experts" help!

[Cas2dy]

Sometimes you have to let people learn from their own trials. Young people hardly ever listen to older folks. For all the people who say all abusers remain abusers, you are not right. No one is right all of the time. This young man was wrong, wrong, wrong. But it's up to him and Rihanna how they work this out. I could never defend my husband for what he used to do...but we grew up. There are two more children in this world today who know nothing of the past abuse because they were not born yet. The two we had before and during the abusive periods watched us get help and get better and stick it out. We are an affectionate and learned family today. The younger ones are very special people who have made a difference in many lives around them already. they are inspiring and spirited individuals in their schools and in their communities, and we, as their parents, get a lot of praise because of the way our children represent themselves. The older two are steadfast, married, and they have children who are amazing in every way as well. Now, we may not have gotten it right in the beginning, but with a deep love and dedication, we turned it around. Perhaps it was God's will, but I cannot imagine a world without the wonderful children that came to us both during the abusive stage and afterward.

[122049]

You know I remember a friend telling me that she slept with her husbands best friend, and the friend told the husband, the husband beat the crap out of her, not saying that what the husband did was right because it certainly wasn't, but girlfriend you slept with your husbands best friend. We need to check our on actions, and realize that an action causes a reaction.

[czechtraveler]

next time the brute will kill her but she chose to go back to him

[schoolmarm22]

If she goes back to him she's risking the same or worse than she got the first time around. If she slapped him, he should have exited the vehicle until she calmed down. There are ways to avoid violent altercations, but he chose to beat the snot out of his girlfriend. He should be punished and she should stay away from him.

[dronemonk]

She hit him first. Everyone needs to keep their hands to themselves. Not just teenage males.

[SusanStoHelit]

Brown isn't black and blue and battered - she is - this is no self defense, this is a beating - doesn't matter what sparked it. He did it once, he'll do it again, she needs to leave.

But abuse is tricky - abusers are so good at making you feel worthless, and like you deserve the beating, mind games and isolation - to the point where it's very hard for her to leave. However - we're a civilized society - we don't let people get beaten up and killed when we can stop it - even if they want to. I hope the DA keeps pressing charges. They can't stop her from going back, but they can make sure the laws are applied.