Comments on: A Life Lost Out of the Spotlight

While a Nation and World Paid Tribute to a Passing Singer, a Small Town Mourned a Young Soldier Killed in Afghanistan

[sweetncarolina]

Ms. Gillis' commentary is so very warranted and I applaud CBS for allowing Ms. Gillis the opportunity to honor Brian and remind us how war-detached the media and many of our citizens have become! My sympathy to Brian's family, friends, and colleagues! As for myself, every casulty from the war in the Middle East produces tears and an ache in my heart for the family! I will always remember and share in that loss!

[janet_paul]

How sad but truthful words. Here a young man has died fighting a terrible war and all the media has to talk about is Michael Jackson.
How can we forget that the other deaths that occured that week had a decorated World War II hero that was mentioned in passing. (Ed McMahon).
This women's opinion was well stated and my hearfelt sympathies to her family.
jp

[ndkate46]

My heart and prayers go out to the Bradshaw family and every family that has lost a loved one. Yes and to Michael Jackson's family. But enough is enough, how many ways and how many channels must smother the public with coverage? He was a composer/singer that was very talented---he didn't find a cure for cancer NOR was he a saint.
When I watched the show with that tribute all I could do is cry and scream at the tv that I agreed 150% with the Aunt. My son is currently in Afghanistan and everytime there are death's, I hold my breath and selfishly pray that ServiceMembers will not come to my door for notification.
Whether you agree or disagree with our being overseas, our sons, daughters, husbands, wives, nieces and nephews are there doing a job that needs our moral support; especially while we sit here in the luxury our comfortable homes, with the air conditioner cooling us, access to the tv, phones, Friday night dates, etc., etc, in otherwards all of the freedoms that they don't have at their fingertips. God Bless All of Our Servicemen and women and God Bless America.

[Pegasus789]

I love CBS Sunday Morning and this past Sunday was the best ever. I, like many of the others who commented, was in tears when the story was over. Enough about Michael Jackson! Get a life! People need to wake up and realize what is REALLY important!!

[kimwonders]

Dear Martha and family,

Thank you so much for sharing Brian and his story with all of us. Your tender and beautiful tribute to this incredible young man made thousands stop and think about what is important in this world.

Martha, your incredibly moving story of Brian and your memories of him was a reminder to treasure all those important to us. Let's also remember that dispite the circus created 3 young children mourn the loss of their very special father, Michael Jackson.

I lost my own son almost 2 years ago in an accident. Seeing your face as you spoke brought back the profound loss and the emptiness that will never be filled. I have also founded scholarships in his name and a website, http://www.heroesripple.org, to help families share the stories of their loved ones and to help each other along the path of grief.

Thank you, once again, for sharing some of Brian with me. I wish that I had known him personally but know that I will carry his story in my heart forever,

In gentle care,

Kim

[tercur1]

Since we were having storms on Sunday morning my satellite went out just as Martha started to speak, so I missed being able to watch the video. I had to log in here to see what she said. PLEASE post the video so I can watch it.

I recently read a book called AWOL, by Kathy Roth-Douquet and Frank Schaeffer. I would encourage everyone to read this book because I think it tells a lot about the attitude of many in our country about the military. And I believe this attitude says much about why the media makes so much out of the death of a rock singer (who I happened to enjoy by the way) and needs constant reminders that there are thousands of young men and women serving their country quietly every day.

There are many these days who just can't relate to those of us who have children, husbands/wives, brother/sisters, or whoever who serve in the military. When I say I have a son in the Navy they say something stupid like "at least he isn't in Iraq". I almost feel like I have to explain that, well yes he has been there, but I shouldn't have to. All my Navy mom friends are continually saying that others just don't "GET IT" when we talk about our kids serving. A simple thank you would be more welcome. God Bless all our military, home and abroad, for they are actually doing something to serve this country. I wonder how many of our media have served?!?

[slider930]

Martha's words touched my heart as they did so many others as witnessed in the comments found here. What strength this woman has so soon following the burial of her son. No parent should have to lose their child, nor should the deaths of all the soldiers go unnoticed. May her memories become her treasures and may the light of God surround her and enfold her during her healing. Blessings.

[smalltownpa]

My family couldn't agree more! I could rant and rave and go on about how unfair the news media is and how bias and unjust some of their stories are, but which of them really cares enough to actually take into concideration what middle America really wants to hear about and truly cares about - none of them would be my guess so we only hear about the stories they deem news worthy and force feed us their ideas about what is important and what isn't! American we are all going to choke on their far out liberal ideas if we do not take a stand and demand respect and accountability from the major news networks and their "opinions"!

[toni-1960]

Thank you airing this story. As the Mom of a United States Marine I can only agree with this lovely Aunts commentary on the ignored sacrifice of our Military. I cried for her loss and again was reminded of the fear I carry for my son and all those in service. Yes they are forgotten by our news media. All the wonderful and well deserved attention Michael Jackson's passing received is but nothing in comparison to what each and every one of our Military losses deserves.Thank you to the people that have respect & show respect. Please bring the war back to the forefront of the AMERICAN media every day. They give the ULTIMATE SACRIFICE and we turn the other cheek? Shame on America's media.

[ceecee62]

Finally someone has said what needed to be said. Sadly Charlie only followed up the piece by saying "comments by..." instead of adding his thanks or that of the network. What does that say?? My heartfelt thanks goes out to all those who give of themselves so that we may all be free. Sadly these men and women give the ultimate without so much as a thank you from our government officials in DC yet our media has spent hours and hours and millions to pay homage to Michael Jackson. No wonder young people don't understand the cost of freedom. It isn't free. Just ask the families of all those who have lost their lives fighting wars for our great country.