Comments on: Cops: Dad Killed Son Over Child Support

Man Accused Of Murdering Toddler To Avoid Paying; Earlier Claimed He Had Been Kidnapped

[lilly1232]

and I can tell you why you never have, because you have never had anyone you love murdered. if you had you would believe in it.


I have never believed in the death penalty, however if there ever a case that it should be given, this is the case.


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Posted by woodjd42 at 05:12 AM : Jan 04, 2009

[clathrate]

Tie him to a chair and leave him alone in a room with the mother for as long as she sees fit, with her choice of weapons.


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Posted by DebinOK1

I disagree. The mother is likely to untie him and apologize to everyone else for his failings and beg for his forgiveness. This is the fundamental weakness of women: that they willingly tolerate, if not accept, an abusive relationship.

The best thing to do is just send this sorry POS down to the pet food plant to be ground up into Snausages or other fine pet food products.

[wl7bzh]

hen a person is unable to abide by a set of rules / guides / policies / what ever you may want to call it style of conformity set forth by those who came before, he/she comes to invokes religion as their salvation - and their way out - of accepting the standards for the locale they reside. You are free to exercise you believed rights as others are as free to disregard a diety belief system over or as a substitute for the agreed to "rules of law". That is separation of church and state. The rest is common decency and mutual respect.

Posted by cjw3cma at 07:00 PM : Jan 04, 2009

Free will thingie Huh?

So if a person wants to defy the law of gravity or other laws of physics that''s okey dokey right?

Can we also add the qualifier that a person is also expected to live with the consequences of that free will? If a person is willing to agree to the rights and responsibilities clause, I can agree with that.

Uh... you are willing to live with the consequences of your actions? Great-no problem.

[cjw3cma]

This is what happens when God is systematically removed from the public square. His moral law goes with Him. And we are reaping the whirlwind of results.
(And it goes on from there).
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When a person is unable to abide by a set of rules / guides / policies / what ever you may want to call it style of conformity set forth by those who came before, he/she comes to invokes religion as their salvation - and their way out - of accepting the standards for the locale they reside. You are free to exercise you believed rights as others are as free to disregard a diety belief system over or as a substitute for the agreed to "rules of law". That is separation of church and state. The rest is common decency and mutual respect.

[debinok1]

It isn''''t just men who skip out on child support. I have been divorced for 13 years and have been raising my daughters with NO child support coming from the bio-mother. It floats both ways.

Posted by ffoulkes
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No, it isn''t just fathers. Non-custodial mothers do it too. There are just fewer of them so less is known or reported about them.

[debinok1]

According to AP he was $4,000 behind in child support and called his estranged wife to come get the child for the weekend after not seeing him in a couple of months. He called her a little later and told her the boy had been kidnapped and hung up.

He knew when he picked the child up exactly what he intended to do, this was pure premeditated murder.

I agree with some other posters on here. Tie him to a chair and leave him alone in a room with the mother for as long as she sees fit, with her choice of weapons.

[ffoulkes-2009]

Trust me, men are going nuts these days over paying child support. I get threatened and harrassed every month by my sons father over support. It is sick and sad to think that some men think a woman can make a baby by herself. I say if you cant feed em, then dont breed em!! Nuff said

Posted by ladyephesus1 at 09:59 AM : Jan 04, 2009
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It isn''t just men who skip out on child support. I have been divorced for 13 years and have been raising my daughters with NO child support coming from the bio-mother. It floats both ways.

[maeeppa]

Of children who are murdered, 95% of the time the guilty party is the parent or the parent''s lover.

Also, this moron tried to claim gunmen kidnapped his son. Only women kidnap children that age.

[maeeppa]

Sorry, Dovestar, but infanticide was around in Bible times and happens even in devoutly religious households too.

[dovestar]

This is what happens when God is systematically removed from the public square. His moral law goes with Him. And we are reaping the whirlwind of results. Instead of admitting our need for Him, we just go on and on. When are we going to realize that we need Him much more than He needs us. Jesus calls us to Himself. It is sheer folly to ignore that call. Stories like this one are the result of removing God from the public square--and our own hearts.

[lili5044]

I am sure God has special plans for the low lifes that hurt or steal a childs life.

[wl7bzh]

His mother and her family seem to think he should be allowed to behave anyway he wants, cursing, playing video games that are totally inappropriate; the most recent assault is that her father got him the video game Grand Theft Auto for Christmas. As his grandmother, all I can do is pray for him and turn this over to God. As his father, my son and his wife will fight for his soul and I believe God will bless my grandson and my son and his family in their defense of this wonderful boy''''s soul.

Posted by mugaluv at 03:31 PM : Jan 04, 2009

Thank you for sharing your beliefs. There are those that would have us believe there is no right or wrong in order to justify their own lifestyle.

Thanks again for being an example.

[mugaluv]

I am so thankful that my son, who was a teenage father, accepted the responsibility for his son. Of course, at first he was very scared, but I insisted he do what is right. She fought him having his rights, but we thought this wonderful little boy was worthy of any expense my son had in being involved in his life. He was involved in his life from the beginning and has always paid his child support. It wasn''t easy at the beginning, but I think God blessed my son for his actions and he has been very successful career-wise. He married and has 2 more children. The only issue right now is that my grandson is now 12-1/2 and we are fighting for his soul. His mother and her family seem to think he should be allowed to behave anyway he wants, cursing, playing video games that are totally inappropriate; the most recent assault is that her father got him the video game Grand Theft Auto for Christmas. As his grandmother, all I can do is pray for him and turn this over to God. As his father, my son and his wife will fight for his soul and I believe God will bless my grandson and my son and his family in their defense of this wonderful boy''s soul.

[wl7bzh]

wl7bzh congratulations you are the Moron of the Day. How do you compare smoking pot and abortion to the murder of a child? Get your head out of your RNP arse. This is why nobody can take you guys seriously any longer.

You should read the article about Bush''''s blunders while speaking in public. You should read it because the way you write English you make Bush look like a poet.

Posted by czmdm at 03:07 PM : Jan 04, 2009

It was a commentary on the changing perception of right and wrong-in the young man''s mind, do you think he felt murdering his son was wrong? Or do you think he felt justified in killing his son?

I suggest you ask yourself why you are apparently over reacting to an observation on declining values of right and wrong. What lifestyle nerve of yours did I step on?


It appears the young father felt he was justified in killing his child. This value or view did not happen all at once.

[czmdm]

wl7bzh congratulations you are the Moron of the Day. How do you compare smoking pot and abortion to the murder of a child? Get your head out of your RNP arse. This is why nobody can take you guys seriously any longer.

You should read the article about Bush''s blunders while speaking in public. You should read it because the way you write English you make Bush look like a poet.

[wl7bzh]

So do we really moral standards? I guess it depends on whether one''s particular lifestyle or behavior is being impinged upon. Moral values we held as absolute 40 years ago are now considered outdated.

I guess one''s moral view of right and wrong depends on one personal lifestyle value.

Do we have the right to smoke in public? Do we have the right to abort an unwanted child?

Or how bout a child that has become too expensive and interferes with one''s lifestyle?

There little perversion don''t you cry, you''ll be considered normal by and by.

[brannigon]

PUT THE ANIMAL TO SLEEP!!!

[debinok1]

For those saying a woman is a monster for with holding a child from their father need to think about what the reasons could be. Did you stop to think that possbily the court took away the visitation rights or that the father was physically or sexually abusing the child? It''''s not always a woman denying the father visitation. Instead of judging and trying to sound all big why don''''t you pull your head out of you a** so you can think clearly.

Posted by radiochat
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Very correct. My ex makes the choice not to see our son. He has the opportunity every weekend. He would rather get drunk or high with his new wife. Not every mother denies visitation. Some fathers have "better" things to do than see their kids.

[cmackcoop]

Another Casey Anthony....there should be a special place in hell set aside for these monsters!!!!

[boyd12002]

For those saying a woman is a monster for with holding a child from their father need to think about what the reasons could be. Did you stop to think that possbily the court took away the visitation rights or that the father was physically or sexually abusing the child? It''s not always a woman denying the father visitation. Instead of judging and trying to sound all big why don''t you pull your head out of you a** so you can think clearly.