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Steve Vernon /

MoneyWatch/ February 16, 2012, 6:44 AM

Women: Don't go broke in retirement

Women, it's time to take charge of your retirement planning! That's the strong message we're getting from the third brief in the Society of Actuaries (SOA) research series, Managing Retirement Decisions.

According to the brief, women face special challenges when it comes to retirement planning:

-- They typically have lower Social Security, pension and 401(k) benefits than men because of intermittent work histories and lower salaries.

-- Their career and retirement years are sometimes interrupted by the need to provide care to parents or spouses.

-- On average, women live longer than men, and because men typically marry younger women, most women can expect a five- to 10-year period of widowhood at the end of their lives.

Once, when I made this last point at one of my retirement planning workshops about the five- to 10-year period of widowhood, one woman exclaimed delightedly, "Yes!" I told her she wouldn't be so happy if she ended up broke!

The SOA brief offers a some key steps women can take to help them take charge of their retirement planning:

1. Get your papers in order. You can't plan effectively if you don't know what your resources really are. The brief contains a helpful checklist of sources you should investigate that will aid you in compiling the correct information.

2. Figure out how much retirement will cost. Work with a financial planner or use an online calculator to estimate how much money you'll need to generate a stream of lifetime retirement income. Develop a strategy for paying for the cost of medical care in your retirement years.

3. Review the retirement plan. Determine how benefits will be paid to you (and your spouse or partner, if applicable) from defined benefit pension plans or defined contribution plans, such as a 401(k). Many people opt for lump sum payments from these plans. Instead, women might have better outcomes if they (and their husbands or partners) elect to receive a stream of lifetime retirement income. For married couples, often these plans require the wife's written consent to opt out of a joint and survivor annuity -- don't make this decision lightly.

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4. Analyze the best time to start Social Security. It generally pays to delay taking Social Security benefits in order to increase your retirement income. But women often have a complicated situation, facing three paths to benefits:

-- As a retired worker
-- As a spouse or survivor of an eligible worker
-- As a dually entitled beneficiary, where you receive the largest benefit from the two paths shown above

Social Security is a very important part of women's retirement security. Take the time to assess the course of action that provides you with the largest amount of lifetime income.

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5. Assess divorce and other special situations. Special planning is needed for the following situations:

-- Divorced women need to pay attention to their rights to retirement and Social Security benefits from their ex-husbands.

-- Women living with a partner don't usually have the same rights as married women, and generally need to make specific elections and plans in this situation to be sure they're getting all they deserve.

-- Women in second marriages should make sure beneficiary designations are current, and should be aware of how their current husband's benefits and assets may need to be shared with ex-wives and children.

-- Since many women will live into their 80s and 90s, they should develop a strategy to pay for long-term care, possibly including the purchase of long-term care insurance.

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The SOA brief provides details on all the above points and includes a list of useful resources that can help women learn more about the best ways to secure their retirement. Don't ignore this free help. Take the time now to protect your retirement later, and you'll truly be able to delightedly exclaim "Yes!" about your retirement years.

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    For more than 35 years, consulting actuary Steve Vernon helped large employers design and manage their retirement programs. Now he's a Research Scholar for the Stanford Center on Longevity, where he helps collect, direct, and disseminate research that will improve the financial security of seniors. He also delivers retirement planning workshops and has authored Money for Life: Turn Your IRA and 401(k) Into a Lifetime Retirement Paycheck and Recession-Proof Your Retirement Years.

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nwangel2 says:
Dn't forget when planning retirement expenses that dental expense is a real whammy. Your teeth get markedly worse and most older people have no dental insurance available. The last 3 years I have spent more than 1/2 of my SS income on dental expense even though I fortunately have a dental policy that covers $2000 work per year.
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Shadeburst says:
Don't depend on your kids. A mother can look after four kids but four kids can't look after one mother. Have insurance and lots of it. Continuing medical benefits are very very important. Worth making a few sacrifices for, including not divorcing that cheating jerk of a husband and sticking with that egomaniac slavedriver boss. In the next few years a lot of retirement estates are going to go bankrupt, so never take the option where you give them everything and they contract to care for you for life.
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rwsmith29456 says:
I'd suggest that women take out a big insurance policy on their husbands.
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DAGLAG says:
1. Get all of your money out of the stock market.
2. Don't pay a financial planner to help you - they take your money.
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get_down says:
After working 29 years with the same IT Company, I recently retired and currently live on my pension and my Social Security benefit along with my better-half whom I married for 36 years (and still counting). Since we both live on a frugal life - we're able to secure close to 1 mill of assets. Since we only need either my pension or my SS benefit each month, which leaves us with some discretionary spending money every month. A few years back, I started the habit of applying a spread-sheet to record our yearly expenses and from those stats, I told my better-half after I'm gone, she'll live on half of my pension and my SS benefit and the rest of her life should be a peaceful one. What can I say - after raising three University-graduated grown-up kids and they all on their own now, I believe my better-half earned her right to live a happy life. God bless everyone.
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DaveInRacine replies:
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Good for you. Good planning and financial discipline pays off.