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Michael Hess /

MoneyWatch/ October 11, 2012, 6:57 AM

Business lessons from the Dalai Lama

His Holiness the Dalai Lama attends a press conference in St Paul's Cathedral before receiving the 2012 Templeton Prize May 14, 2012, in London.

His Holiness the Dalai Lama attends a press conference in St Paul's Cathedral before receiving the 2012 Templeton Prize May 14, 2012, in London. / Getty Images

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(MoneyWatch) Tuesday night I had the distinct pleasure and privilege of attending an extraordinary event featuring a speech by the Dalai Lama. I'm a huge fan of the man and his down-to-earth wisdom, and it was a special treat to finally be able to see him live. I was initially very hesitant to write about it in my business column, thinking I might be trivializing the philosophies of a deeply thoughtful person of global importance. I thought twice, then three times, and decided there would be no insult (certainly none intended) in sharing the message in this context and forum. Hopefully I will do it justice.

My rationale for writing a business article about the Dalai Lama's speech and philosophy is that so much of it centers around human kindness, or as he put it Tuesday night, "warmheartedness." And as many of my past articles have suggested, I believe this very same philosophy is the key to running a truly exceptional business. It also seemed to be a fitting and timely coda to my last piece, about being a "mensch" in business.

The Dalai Lama describes himself as "a simple Buddhist monk," despite that his honorific is "His Holiness." Either way, it's important to note that public talks like the one he gave here tend to have no religious overtones (or even undertones). On the contrary, his tremendous popularity and appeal -- including to me -- largely come from the fact that he reaches out to everyone, taking religion out of the equation. In fact, he stresses the importance and value of viewing human relationships through a universal, secular lens.

The very nutshell version of the Dalai Lama's speech is that solutions to some of the world's biggest problems boil all the way down to the kindness and warmheartedness of individuals. That true kindness extends from the individual, to the family, community, nation, and so on. Self-centeredness and selfishness, on the other hand, stand in the way of solving problems between people, religions and nations.

Sounds simplistic, especially when summarizing a one-hour talk in one paragraph, but try to poke a hole in the basic concept or its scalability -- you can't. And usually, the simplest answer is the best one.

And so it goes in business.

Business is obviously a subset of society, and the same rules apply. A business can do extraordinary things if it has a heart and soul, a true foundation of kindness and warmheartedness. I'm not getting all earthy-crunchy-kumbaya or pretending that a hug-fest will help a struggling business make payroll. Nor am I necessarily talking about businesses that have caring and generosity as their actual purpose for existing. Providing goods for the poor or protecting the environment is admirable, noble, meaningful and important, but I'm talking about any and every company. A company with these qualities -- with a sense of humanity -- is more likely to be rewarded by all of its stakeholders:

Customers are more likely to give their business, their approval and their good word to others.

Employees are more likely to trust and respect their employers; enjoy their work and perform at their best; treat customers and each other well; and stick around longer.

Suppliers are more likely to be supportive and motivated to provide the highest possible level of service, and to give a little extra help in extraordinary circumstances.

Financial stakeholders are more likely to be trusting, patient and supportive. Certainly this last group is, understandably, driven mainly by objective facts and figures. I am a business owner and, again, I'm not living in the land of rainbows and unicorns. But "money people" are still human (despite what some may think or say), and any good banker or investor will tell you that the character of a business or owner does affect their behavior and decisions at some level. A self-centered business owner, or one who puts up barriers to trust and good faith, is going to have a harder time getting checkbooks to open.

Just as the Dalai Lama's view of the world distills to the attitude and behavior of the individual, sooner or later most of what happens in business similarly comes down to relationships and transactions between people. So if a society functions best when its people are kind and unselfish, and obstacles to quality relationships are eliminated, a company with those traits will perform at its best, too.

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JeffMowatt says:
I wrote recently on 'Putting Love and Compassion into Business' to describe the influences which led to a business for social purpose. One of these was psychologist Erich Fromm who said:

"Love of the helpless, the poor and the stranger, are the beginning of brotherly love. To love ones flesh and blood is no achievement. The animal loves its young and cares for them. Only in the love of those who do not serve a purpose, does love begin to unfold. Compassion implies the element of knowledge and identification. "

The business set its sights on those most vulnerable, disabled and institutionalised children and the founder gave his life in this cause.
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1Shub says:
It's actually common sense. So-called business has become an extremely complex entity in itself. It takes due diligence to maintain a high level of morality and kindness even amidst the trappings of this modern world.
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WomenTies says:
Your article caught my eye because I saw the Dalai Lama in Syracuse a couple weeks ago and posted business takeaways for the women entrepreneurs in my organization. I wanted to share my written piece with you so you could see what I took away from his Holiness and the concert: http://www.womenties.com/wedwis.cfm#WWID352.

Tracy Higginbotham
Women TIES
www.womenties.com
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hessmj replies:
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Tracy, same event I attended, it was great. So was the post on your blog, thanks for sharing it.
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karengately says:
Fabulous article thanks Michael! I'm passionate about the power of the human spirit in driving business excellence and thoroughly enjoyed your article.

Thanks and regards,
Karen :-)
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hessmj replies:
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Many thanks for your enthusiastic comments, glad you liked it, and keep fighting the good fight.
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futuredoll says:
The ripple effect of kindness is far reaching. I always say, it comes back to you in unexpected ways.
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chrisallencoach says:
Thank you, thank you Michael for your wonderful post which I will share and tweet. I was at the Dalai Lama's Common Ground for Peace symposium on Monday October 10th and at the talk prior to the One World Concert on Tuesday (with my 16-year-old-daughter). As a psychologist and executive coach, my passion is working with organizations and business to figure out out we can create a better world through thriving businesses, which we all depend on for so many things. You did (in my view) a wonderful job summarizing key points about the importance of "warmheartedness" and kindness, which to me implies integrity and care in every thing we do, make, and in our communications with one another (whether it be the customer, the supplier, the employee, or the shareholder).

I really am so happy to see this post in a business news piece.

Best,
Chris Allen
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hessmj replies:
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Chris, thanks for the kind words. Sounds like we were at the same event -- pretty incredible evening.
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dawnpassaro says:
Great post! I wrote a similar one here:
http://hrmarketer.blogspot.com/2011/05/dahli-lama-charlie-sheen-social-media.html

It was a thrill and a pleasure to see the Dalia Lama receive the "Light a Light Award"!
Dawn
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Szinn says:
It's more than OK to make money through our business, through our talents. But if we also perform our work with a kindness and concern for those who will use our goods or services, we will all ultimately be better off.
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hessmj replies:
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Well said, thank you.
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Szinn says:
It's more than OK to make money through our business, through our talents. But if we also perform our work with a kindness and concern for those who will use our goods or services, we will all ultimately be better off.
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KitBrownHoekstra says:
Most products in mature industries or that are mature software applications have pretty much the same features and functionality. What distinguishes them from each other is quality--of the documentation, the customer service and sales experience, the product itself, etc. A huge part of the quality perception is kindness and how comfortable the experience is. It costs nothing to be kind (and being kind includes being honest in a constructive way that leads to a solution). Being a jerk might get you what you want in the short-term, but eventually, word gets around and no one wants to work with you. Doing the right thing by being ethical and kind might not reap immediate direct rewards, but studies have shown that mood and attitude are contagious. You never know how your mood might ripple out and affect someone else. And, when you least expect it, that kind and ethical behavior will be rewarded.
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hessmj replies:
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Great comment, thanks. Your thought that "It costs nothing to be kind" is absolutely perfect. I'd go a step further to say that it actually *makes* money. Thanks again.
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