December 14, 2011 11:52 AM

U.S. marriage rates at all-time low: Why?

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(CBS) Why are fewer Americans getting married these days? A new report shows the current number of married adults has dropped to a record low of 51 percent. For a dose of perspective, back in 1960, 72 percent of U.S. adults ages 18 and older were married.

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The report, by the Washington D.C. think tank Pew Research Center, suggests that if the trend continues, within a few years less than half of American adults will be hitched.

That's not the only trend changing. Americans are getting married for the first time at older ages than ever before. The average ages of first marriage hit record highs of 26.5 for brides and 28.7 for grooms, the report showed.

For the report, Pew researchers analyzed U.S. Census data from 1960 and data from the American Community Surveys from 2008-2010. Between 2009 and 2010, the number of new marriages sharply declined 5 percent, a drop that "may or may not be related to the sour economy," the researchers wrote.

Among adults ages 18-24, the marriage rate dropped 13 percent during that year.

"The most dramatic statistics to me are when you look at the share of younger adults who are married now compared with in the past," report author D'Vera Cohn, a senior writer at Pew Research Center, told NPR. "That's really been where you've seen the big decline."

The authors say it's unclear whether more adults are merely delaying marriage, or abandoning the tradition all together.

Couples also aren't putting up with each other as long as they were back in the 1960s. The report found 72 percent of U.S. adults had been married at least once - but that too is down from 1960, when 85 percent of adults had been married once.

Are attitudes towards marriage changing? A 2010 survey found nearly 40 percent of responders said marriage is "becoming obsolete." The same survey however found 60 percent of responders who never married would still like to tie the knot.

Why do you think U.S. marriage rates are declining?

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by thezunicorn December 14, 2011 5:40 PM EST
I blame lactose intolerance
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by SJames6621 December 17, 2011 3:53 PM EST
My younger son refuses to marry until his gay friends can marry. He lives together with his GF.

Given the rotten economy we got out of Bush and his gang, they do not want any children, not certain they can provide for them, despite the fact that they both right now have good jobs.

I no longer refer to my wife as my wife. She is "my partner" why should I support an institution that is discriminatory.

It reminds me of the battle I vaguely remember about allowing inter-racial marriage. Which finally became legal in all states in 1967

When ever you hear about protecting the sanctity of marriare, remember its the same conservative agenda that in the past was opposed to inter-racial marriage

Their rallying cry was to "protect the sanctity of the white race."
by Zann-Zel December 14, 2011 4:21 PM EST
I know many young couples that won't marry because as a single they can get more financial aid for college.

Maybe its time for our government to stop worrying about marriage either way. Maybe its time to stop rewarding people for it OR punishing people for it! Its a personal choice.
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by SJames6621 December 14, 2011 4:03 PM EST
Newt twice, on #3.. Limbaugh 3 on number 4 Rove - twice. Rumor is he has a BF. His dad btw is gay. Was in a false marriage for so many years.
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by Wintermute0 December 14, 2011 3:21 PM EST
Because marriage has become a bad deal for men.
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by daffy64 December 14, 2011 3:38 PM EST
If they chose wrongly, yes.
by Zann-Zel December 14, 2011 4:02 PM EST
How has marriage changed for men only?
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by skyviewperspective December 14, 2011 3:18 PM EST
I find it funny...the people who CAN get married (heterosexual), don't want to get married. The people who can't get married (homosexual), want to get married.

So who is right and who is wrong? Based on the arguments in these replies, it sounds like the morals belong to those who value marriage. So playing devil's advocate, does that mean gays are now seeing morality where straight people aren't?

Got to admit, it's an interesting and different perspective.
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by SJames6621 December 14, 2011 4:08 PM EST
lets dump the morality thing. Hitler often spoke of his morals and xtian values, his speaches preserved up thru 1939 in a book in a great libraries

BTW he was born and baptised catholic in very catholic Austria. Where the churches morals included a thousand years of hating Jews (and yes gays also._)

And why did the church take almost 20 years after WWII to have vatican 2, which PARTIALLY lifted the claims that Jews killed or outed Jesus to Pontius Pilate. I guess they thought the heat was off

And I wonder just how many catholics realize that in 2009, Benedict UNexcommunicated a bishop Williamson, who is a holocaust denier. Of course the excuses abound :"i didnt know" and "I was trying to prevent a schism in the church"

By bringing back a nazi holocaust denier. yeh sure.
by tsprague52 December 14, 2011 4:51 PM EST
"Morals" belong to those who want to get married? Why would you think that? Since when did you have the right to decided what is moral, or not, for anyone but yourself?

I, too, would like to know what is behind the dropping numbers. It is interesting, I agree. My SO and I have, both, been married and divorced twice, and had a significant long term relationship. But we have been together for nine years. If we want out, we do it and tell the other one that we do. Do we have problems? Of course we do. All couples have problems. But I love him, and he loves me, and we both intend to be with each other until we die. I'm 52, he's 50. AFAIC, there is no reason to get married.
by FXSTC07 December 14, 2011 2:59 PM EST
One reason is 'Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?'
All that shacking up has contributed to it as well.People who have lived together with with different people over a period of time find it hard to make a commitment. Even when they do marry it lasts a few years and it time to move on.
Society is starting to follow in Hollywood's foot steps concerning marriage.

The only people who want to get married now are homosexuals but their motivation is a political one. Their unions are even worse in duration, but that's an entirely different story.
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by SJames6621 December 14, 2011 4:09 PM EST
actually, gays who get married have a minimal divorce rate. TThey've usually been together for years before the marriage, and they also value it

As usual ignornance is bliss for bigots.
by staycalm December 14, 2011 2:56 PM EST
When they are young, men marry for love and sex. When they are older, they marry to be taken care of. With the behavior of today's women and the state of today's economy, why should they? The women are taking over the colleges and making more money but they don't want to take care of anybody. They give out sex for free so no marriage needed for that. With the economy in trouble, fewer men in college and fewer jobs available to them, they are no longer in the driver's seat and, even if they do fall in love and want to do the honorable thing, they don't have the means or the future to pull it off. Congratulations to the Women's Movement...you have won! I hope you like your prize.
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by AvgJane2 December 14, 2011 3:00 PM EST
LoL! You want a mommy to take care of widdle woo when woo gets older and woor widdle kneesies hurt? Nice to know that taking care of pathetic little men is a woman's only purpose in life. And you wonder why no one gets married these days?? Duh!!
by nonpolitico December 14, 2011 3:13 PM EST
Women still want it all, no wonder we have problems.
Women moan about the need for "Childcare costs" so they don`t have to look after their own kids.
They also want the top job...regardless of their competence!
Also there is all the PC inspired stuff, y`know discrimination, women only short lists. Ever seen an "All male" short list.
They call the former "positive discrimination", but all male anything, just discrimination!
Who would want to marry some of the women of today?
I am real glad I got hitched years ago.
45 years of a great marriage to an angel.
How many getting married today will last that long, organise all the homes we bought together, budget so well we never got into debt, and organise so well that the firm was lost when she went.
I was too! But I still take flowers to her resting place.
I have been told by friends that I should start again.
But how could I? There is no-one in the world who could match what she brought into our lives!
Perhaps how I feel as an "older" man explains why some women are not finding husbands??
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by AvgJane2 December 14, 2011 2:54 PM EST
Media perpetuates so many extreme, unrealistic and conflicting standards for men and women, and relationships, that it's become impossible to get along, understand, respect, or accept each other as human beings. You can't turn on a TV or read a publication without being barraged by sex and sexual imagery 24/7, hate, divisiveness, abuse, intolerance, impossible expectations, etc. No wonder marriages can't work today. They're based in a totally unreal world.

It may be that the only people who truly understand the spirit of marriage these days are gay couples, who are fighting for the right to marry. We could learn something from them about love, mutual respect, acceptance, best friendship, and a sense of committment.
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by nonpolitico December 14, 2011 3:16 PM EST
Yeah right!!
by daffy64 December 14, 2011 3:36 PM EST
Good points.
by ianlou December 14, 2011 2:41 PM EST
Lets see,

Most kids are from broken families.
Mayabe kids do pay attention to adults.
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by CashLaundry December 14, 2011 2:37 PM EST
It seems to me that marriage rates began declining in the 70's. Oddly median wages also began to stagnate or decline in the 70's. When you think about why people get married it startes to make sense why these 2 things are correlated. People get married as the first step in starting a family. Generally people view a family as 2 people that love each other and raise children together.

Most people think rationally and logically before making long term plans about their lives. Since in general peoples wages go up as they get older and more expierienced it would also make sense that people would wait until they're older in order to get married. The short answer is its the economy stupid.
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by signseeker1717 December 14, 2011 2:52 PM EST
Another reason is social mores have changed, and there is no longer a widespread stigma attached to people living together and even having children out of wedlock. That's the reality, "for better or for worse".
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