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CBS News/ December 14, 2011, 11:52 AM

U.S. marriage rates at all-time low: Why?

(CBS) Why are fewer Americans getting married these days? A new report shows the current number of married adults has dropped to a record low of 51 percent. For a dose of perspective, back in 1960, 72 percent of U.S. adults ages 18 and older were married.

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The report, by the Washington D.C. think tank Pew Research Center, suggests that if the trend continues, within a few years less than half of American adults will be hitched.

That's not the only trend changing. Americans are getting married for the first time at older ages than ever before. The average ages of first marriage hit record highs of 26.5 for brides and 28.7 for grooms, the report showed.

For the report, Pew researchers analyzed U.S. Census data from 1960 and data from the American Community Surveys from 2008-2010. Between 2009 and 2010, the number of new marriages sharply declined 5 percent, a drop that "may or may not be related to the sour economy," the researchers wrote.

Among adults ages 18-24, the marriage rate dropped 13 percent during that year.

"The most dramatic statistics to me are when you look at the share of younger adults who are married now compared with in the past," report author D'Vera Cohn, a senior writer at Pew Research Center, told NPR. "That's really been where you've seen the big decline."

The authors say it's unclear whether more adults are merely delaying marriage, or abandoning the tradition all together.

Couples also aren't putting up with each other as long as they were back in the 1960s. The report found 72 percent of U.S. adults had been married at least once - but that too is down from 1960, when 85 percent of adults had been married once.

Are attitudes towards marriage changing? A 2010 survey found nearly 40 percent of responders said marriage is "becoming obsolete." The same survey however found 60 percent of responders who never married would still like to tie the knot.

Why do you think U.S. marriage rates are declining?

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Billster12 says:
Well, what do you expect? Like the video mentioned: people now have a lot of options in their life compared to low-tech 1960s. I personally can care less if I ever tie the knot; especially if she is entitled to half of everything in as less as two years, including but not limited to my inheritence (if one were to occur); it is mine and my children's (if there to be any from the marriage).

I live in NY, and would have to look up the current law on such settlements. I know a few people who went through really bitter divorces some years back--so much so that if it was me, I would've probably committed suicide. There is no way in god's creation that would I allow the thieves of the courts (the other criminals of the land) take from me hat I have worked my entire life to acquire, especially well before I would even meet the woman of my dreams, let alone afterwards. I'm 29 and again in no serious rush for the government to furter destroy my life! 'Nuff said!
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akg414 replies:
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NY inheritance rules are disgusting. Once married...you might as well not write a will or list any beneficiaries---much of it is forced to your spouse. The one who earned the money should be the one dictating where it goes upon death.

Marriage makes you lose way too many rights. I am female and I will never fall for the scam of marriage. Once marriage is restructured to keep all finances between spouses separate...and a built in pre-nuptual agreement is automatically in place to protect each person's property as their own...then, perhaps I may consider it. Abolish any and all alimony. If one spouse is foolish enough to not work and contribute financially--they should leave with nothing.

Until then, cohabitation is the only way to go to protect yourself--male or female.
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Trey831 says:
No it is almost never ALL one person's fault, BUT the chances it will go bad are better than 50%!

Men pay almost all alimony, this is slavery pure and simple!

Men pay almost all child support!

Men kill themselves in greater numbers when princes ruins their world!

Men stand to lose and not gain in marriage and are just starting to wake up to it!

More and more will come to this realization and opt out of the bad deal.

If you looked at the stats of that contract no man in his right mind would agree to sign up for the above. While it is overall a pretty darned sweet deal for a female

It is going to be fun to watch.
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RaiderMike5454 says:
If people really want to know the truth, marriage rates are probably most likely going downhill b/c pop culture and the porn industry is destroying the minds of both men and women. For women, they can't seem to stop themselves from reading books like "50 Shades of Grey" and "Twilight". They also can't keep their eyes off the TV watching the sexy male characters from Law N Order or Jersey Shore. As for men, well it's obvious many guys have porn addictions. Marriage rates began declining as soon as Disney childhood movies started to get released, and overtime Hollywood, Glamour Magazine, and MTV have only caused the personal lives of men/women to live miserably without life partners. If you don't agree with my opinion, that's fine, but just remember divorce rates were significantly lower and long-term marriage rates were higher for all of our grandparents. This is probably b/c they didn't have to deal so much with pop-culture nonsense like we do.
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akg414 replies:
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It has little to do with porn or pop culture. Marriage is an outdated institution that lowers human relationships to being a business deal. We have fortunately moved past the dark days of the 1950s where women were worthless house keepers and men mindless working stiffs.

We have life partners. We are too smart for marriage. Cohabitation is the best way to go.
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NuThunker says:
I am single. I'm not against marriage. But the way marriage interacts with your life on so many levels and I fear the answer to the question "Who really knows another person?" that I find it difficult to quantify much less attempt to manage the risks since half the marriages end in divorce.
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thezunicorn says:
I blame lactose intolerance
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SJames6621 replies:
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My younger son refuses to marry until his gay friends can marry. He lives together with his GF.

Given the rotten economy we got out of Bush and his gang, they do not want any children, not certain they can provide for them, despite the fact that they both right now have good jobs.

I no longer refer to my wife as my wife. She is "my partner" why should I support an institution that is discriminatory.

It reminds me of the battle I vaguely remember about allowing inter-racial marriage. Which finally became legal in all states in 1967

When ever you hear about protecting the sanctity of marriare, remember its the same conservative agenda that in the past was opposed to inter-racial marriage

Their rallying cry was to "protect the sanctity of the white race."
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Zann-Zel says:
I know many young couples that won't marry because as a single they can get more financial aid for college.

Maybe its time for our government to stop worrying about marriage either way. Maybe its time to stop rewarding people for it OR punishing people for it! Its a personal choice.
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akg414 replies:
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Right on!
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SJames6621 says:
Newt twice, on #3.. Limbaugh 3 on number 4 Rove - twice. Rumor is he has a BF. His dad btw is gay. Was in a false marriage for so many years.
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Wintermute0 says:
Because marriage has become a bad deal for men.
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daffy64 replies:
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If they chose wrongly, yes.
Zann-Zel replies:
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How has marriage changed for men only?
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skyviewperspective says:
I find it funny...the people who CAN get married (heterosexual), don't want to get married. The people who can't get married (homosexual), want to get married.

So who is right and who is wrong? Based on the arguments in these replies, it sounds like the morals belong to those who value marriage. So playing devil's advocate, does that mean gays are now seeing morality where straight people aren't?

Got to admit, it's an interesting and different perspective.
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SJames6621 replies:
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lets dump the morality thing. Hitler often spoke of his morals and xtian values, his speaches preserved up thru 1939 in a book in a great libraries

BTW he was born and baptised catholic in very catholic Austria. Where the churches morals included a thousand years of hating Jews (and yes gays also._)

And why did the church take almost 20 years after WWII to have vatican 2, which PARTIALLY lifted the claims that Jews killed or outed Jesus to Pontius Pilate. I guess they thought the heat was off

And I wonder just how many catholics realize that in 2009, Benedict UNexcommunicated a bishop Williamson, who is a holocaust denier. Of course the excuses abound :"i didnt know" and "I was trying to prevent a schism in the church"

By bringing back a nazi holocaust denier. yeh sure.
tsprague52 replies:
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"Morals" belong to those who want to get married? Why would you think that? Since when did you have the right to decided what is moral, or not, for anyone but yourself?

I, too, would like to know what is behind the dropping numbers. It is interesting, I agree. My SO and I have, both, been married and divorced twice, and had a significant long term relationship. But we have been together for nine years. If we want out, we do it and tell the other one that we do. Do we have problems? Of course we do. All couples have problems. But I love him, and he loves me, and we both intend to be with each other until we die. I'm 52, he's 50. AFAIC, there is no reason to get married.
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FXSTC07 says:
One reason is 'Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?'
All that shacking up has contributed to it as well.People who have lived together with with different people over a period of time find it hard to make a commitment. Even when they do marry it lasts a few years and it time to move on.
Society is starting to follow in Hollywood's foot steps concerning marriage.

The only people who want to get married now are homosexuals but their motivation is a political one. Their unions are even worse in duration, but that's an entirely different story.
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SJames6621 replies:
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actually, gays who get married have a minimal divorce rate. TThey've usually been together for years before the marriage, and they also value it

As usual ignornance is bliss for bigots.
akg414 replies:
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Cohabitation is a far better option. Marriage needs to be abolished. Commitment abounds--even without marriage.

The only way to maintain your individual rights is to not fall for the scam of marriage.
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