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CBS News/ November 8, 2011, 12:49 PM

Rugby jock says stroke turned him gay

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(CBS) Strokes can have strange consequences. Some stroke victims wind up with different accents, others with different personalities. Chris Birch said he discovered he was gay when he woke up after a stroke.

The 26-year-old Welshman suffered a stroke after breaking his neck while attempting a back flip at a gym, The Daily Mail reported. His then-fianc?e and family stayed by his side, but when he woke, something had changed.

"It sounds strange, but when I came round I immediately felt different," Birch told the paper. "I wasn't interested in women any more. I was definitely gay. I had never been attracted to a man before - I'd never even had any gay friends."

Before the stroke, Birch was a banker who loved playing rugby, watching sports, and drinking beer with his buds. After the stroke, he found he had little in common with his blokes, quit his job to train as a hairdresser, and started dating a man.

"I went back to my job in the bank and tried hard to fit back into things but it didn't seem right anymore," Birch told The Mirror last month. "Suddenly, I hated everything about my old life. I didn't get on with my friends, hated sport, and found my job boring."

He also focused more on his appearance, lost a lot of weight - and became more confident.

Birch's neurologist told him the changes in his personality could be from the stroke "opening up" a different part of his brain, according to the Daily Mail.

What do experts have to say - can a stroke really turn you gay?

Dr. Ira G. Rashbaum, professor of rehabilitation medicine and chief of stroke rehab at NYU Langone Medical Center, wouldn't speculate on this specific case since he wasn't involved in Birch's care, but he told CBS News that it's quite common to see personality changes in patients following a stroke.

Rashbaum said some recovering stroke patients might experience anxiety, depression, or difficulties paying attention. In some cases if a stroke affects the brain's frontal lobe - which controls inhibition - a previously quiet person might become angrier, suddenly telling others off.

But a full-blown personality change?

"This is a more rare circumstance, certainly not a common thing" he told CBS News. He added that profound personality changes usually aren't permanent following rehabilitation with a team that might include psychologists and social workers.

Joe Korner, director of communications for The Stroke Association in the U.K., told CBS News in an email that he's never personally heard of a stroke changing someone's sexuality, but he doesn't doubt the stroke had some impact on Birch's life.

"Strokes are traumatic, life-changing experiences, which can make you reassess life and your feelings so perhaps that's the reason behind it," Korner said. "Whether or not the stroke turned Chris gay, or whether he was gay anyway but unaware of it, his experience seems to be a positive one, which is great."

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clc417 says:
Actually, there have been scientific studies that prove that there IS an area in your brain, that if damaged can change your sexuality. Here's a link to one that was done. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1028946/pdf/jnnpsyc00100-0015.pdf

Maybe instead of judging people for their sexuality you people should be getting educated.
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EdenBlythVeridy says:
Like I'm sure. He was always gay I bet. Creative way to come out though, props.
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ojossogood says:
Does this mean all gays have had strokes? Is that possible?

Something is not right here! Don't buy it!!!!!!
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Dgunner says:
I am not a scientisit , doctor or brain surgeon. The rest of the world should be happy about that. However the the stroke causing this might mean that young children are having small strokes in the brain before thier teens and discover they are gay. Probably not.I discovered after being in combat and returning home I didn't and still don't like to be touched by anyone other than my gf .The shrinks say its a form of defense mechanism brought on by self impossed pshycosis. If I don't touch anyone then I don't have to be on defensive.They are probably right . But on the other hand why would a man 6ft. 6in. 290 lbs have to be afraid I asked. The dr. replied your brain is the same size as everyone elses and it doesn't know how big you are or how big you think.
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jcnbma says:
That is THE most elaborate coming out story I've ever heard. He deserves a medal and an Academy Award!
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macintrance says:
Ooohhh, so that is what happened to the Zohan.
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Pearl_Moon says:
I think the key words in this are when he said "Suddenly, I hated everything about my old life."
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Scimajor says:
Could it also be that he got cold feet and decided he didn't really want to get married and this is simply an excuse he came up with?

Who knows and really .... who cares.
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bud28dy says:
And of course when you become gay you immediately don't like banking and sports but just loooooove fixing hair. Can't the guy just come out of the closet without all the ridiculous stereotypes??
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jcnbma replies:
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LOL. This is the biggest scam I've heard in a long time.
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ByronTilly says:
Stories like this irritate me so much! I'm certain his injury affected him, however to say that it caused him to be not just gay, but a stereotype...eh...I call some serious BS! I'm not just being a naysayer; it's his story. He "loved playing rugby, watching sports, and drinking beer with his buds. After the stroke, he found he had little in common with his blokes, quit his job to train as a hairdresser, and started dating a man." Suddenly, [he] hated sport, and found [his] job boring...He also focused more on his appearance..." Well, I'm gay. I played some rugby, love watching tennis and soccer (sorry baseball fans; I can't do it lol), love drinking beer with my buds. I have lots of "bloke" friends and definitely don't want to be one of those skinny dudes I see walking around NYC. If I had a similar injury would my waking up and being attracted to women mean I'm going to ascribe to straight male stereotypes? I find it hard to believe that all of those facets converged upon a single point. I don't even think those desires are all controlled by the same areas of the brain! His injury just sounds like a convenient, albeit, lame excuse to come out so he wouldn't have to face ridicule or a number of horrible things homosexuals experience. He can just point to his head and say, "It was the stroke." I could be wrong though.
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DThompson64 replies:
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Byron, you made the point I was just going to make. Thank you.
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