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CBS News/ May 7, 2012, 3:29 PM

French president-elect's domestic status a yawn for tolerant French

French president-elect Francois Hollande, left, embraces his companion Valerie Trierweiler after greeting crowds gathered to celebrate his election victory in Bastille Square in Paris, France handed the presidency Sunday to leftist Hollande, a champion of government stimulus programs who says the state should protect the downtrodden - a victory that could deal a death blow to the drive for austerity that has been the hallmark of Europe in recent years.

French president-elect Francois Hollande, left, embraces his companion Valerie Trierweiler after greeting crowds gathered to celebrate his election victory in Bastille Square in Paris, France handed the presidency Sunday to leftist Hollande, a champion of government stimulus programs who says the state should protect the downtrodden - a victory that could deal a death blow to the drive for austerity that has been the hallmark of Europe in recent years.

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(CBS News) PARIS - As the world adjusts to a France without Nicolas Sarkozy, scrutiny turns to president-elect Francois Hollande and his domestic partner, journalist Valerie Trierweiler. The couple have been living together since 2007 and have no intention to get married in the short term, which means Trierweiler can not technically be referred to as France's First Lady.

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Sacre bleu! A domestic arrangement that is inconceivable by U.S. presidential standards is perfectly normal in France, says CBS Radio correspondent Elaine Cobbe, from Paris. Here is her take on the matter, below:

The French are among the least keen on marriage in Europe. They enter into marriage in smaller numbers than in the US. They also tie the knot later - the average French bride or groom is 30 years old at their (first) wedding.

In 2011, 46.2% of the population over 15 was married. Some 38.4% was listed as single, but that would also include those who have a civil partnership or a legal union - both of which are quite popular with the French. The others were 7.6% widowed and 7.8% divorced (and not remarried).

Most French people have no problem with the couple not being married. But Hollande is likely to find out very quickly, just as Sarkozy did, that other countries are not so tolerant. Just three months after meeting Carla Bruni, Sarkozy married her, partly because several countries made it clear that a president could not be accompanied by a First Lady who was not his wife.

The situation was complicated by the fact that when he took office in 2007, Sarkozy had a wife, Cecilia. But the couple divorced five months after he became president. They had each had another partner and it was understood that Cecilia made it clear she was not willing to stay married to him. Carla is his third wife.

Hollande and Trierweiler have said they won't rush into marriage and she insists on being called his "companion". Technically, she can't be called First Lady if they're not married.

Hollande met Valerie Trierweiler in 2006. A year later, he split from his partner of 30 years and mother of his four children, Segolene Royal, to be with her. Royal was the Socialist candidate in the presidential election in 2007, where she was defeated by Sarkozy. No one batted an eyelid that she and Hollande were not married - they were a recognized family unit and a strong political partnership for most of their time together.

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In France, private lives of politicians are rarely talked about in public. And strict privacy laws mean the press can't reveal much of what is often well-known in political and media circles. President Francois Mitterrand had a second family that remained a secret from the wider public until just before his death. The 2007 election put the spotlight on the private lives of both candidates in a way that was controversial and that many French people found distasteful.

The French have long been tolerant of mistresses and lovers. The attitude is very much that what happens between consenting adults is their own business. Where they're becoming less tolerant is with the kind of wholescale philandering indulged in by some, such as revealed in the Dominique Strauss-Kahn case. While he still garners quite a bit of sympathy in France, and many remain dubious about the extent of the chambermaid's claims, there has been a clear questioning of the former IMF chief's moral values and sexual appetite. But it's worth noting that his wealthy, attractive, intelligent journalist wife has stood by him throughout.

In general, France is such a very secular country that there's no big religious push to marriage.

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involved_indi says:
If he implements the policies he campaigned on, they won't care if he's living with a goat. They'll all be to worried about the 20% unemployment rate or the latest round of financial downgrade for the government. The country is in deep financial straits and they elected a man who will do exactly the OPPOSITE of what is required. Good luck to them and the soon to be extinct European Union.
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elliesamericana replies:
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I think the new french president will turn his country around quite well. It is basic economics. Governments have to spend to stimulate economies. Once the economy is jumpstarted, they can then tax to pay for it. FDR had the right idea. This idea of austerity is about the same as starving a sick patient thinking it will get him well. Respectfully, retired US Army Medical Officer.
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chevyhotrod:

With all his greatness, Jefferson wanted US to be a country of farmers. His sense of independence went that far. A country full of vitality with international trade and commerce (as Hamilton wanted, and we inherited) was far from his vision. FDR gave us independence (as did Jefferson, Adams and Washington).
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usunus says:
The media will eventually spin Valerie as a great beauty and the informal cohabitation as socialist chic of the highest order,which the American morons can never appreciate,
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fedup12 says:
French don't care about Hollande's domestic life
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What are the French. Honey Badgers?
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kroguej says:
Ah, so refreshing. American politics is all about distracting the voter with useless stuff to avoid important issues.
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gerrim says:
When I looked up the break up of the Royal-Hollande relationship I was informed that their relationship had ended years ago and that they simply were keeping up a pretense so I am not sure that it was Hollande in 2007 that moved on to his new love?

CBS was wrong in saying that it was both Hollande and Sarkozy who left their women,i.e. We really can't verify the truth with Hollande but we DO KNOW that it was Sarkozy's wife, Cecilia,not Sarkozy who got a divorce.
Bad reporting CBS.
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gajetan24 replies:
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you're right, in fact it's segolene royal who left hollande, and it was the same for cecilia sarkozy who left sarkozy for another man!
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gajetan24 says:
what's important for us (french), it's what the president will do, i think it's what we vote for! we don't care about his personal life, if he's married or not, we live in a secular country, so wedding is not important. He could be gay it would be the same! Mayor of Paris is gay, it did not prevent his election.
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tryingtodogoodwork replies:
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I am so very happy that you voted in a progressive! Vive la France!

I hope that we will re-elect our own very fine progressive president this coming November.

Obama 2012!!!!!!!!
TheAnalyst replies:
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Too bad France allowed the young and naive to dominate the agenda, as we Americans sadly did so four years ago. France will dig itself in deeper with socialist policies, and a welfare state is once again reborn.
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rwsmith29456 says:
The only negative I could think of to this is that it would be an advantage to have someone in office in a stable relationship. But then a lot of marriages aren't stable relationships.
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gajetan24 says:
what's important for us (french), it's what the president will do, i think it's what we vote for! we don't care about his personal life, if he's married or not, we live in a secular country, so wedding is not important. He could be gay it would be the same! Mayor of Paris is gay, it did not prevent his election.
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arkajun-2009 says:
I used to think the French were screwed up. But it seem the are becoming as screwed up at the US but they still have a way to go.
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wlhoppers says:
The French aren't concerned about their president having a "companion" - why should we? It's their business, not ours.

Once again, American can't mind its own business.
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